Infertility

another negative

I am not too surprised since I pretty much started my period a couple of days ago, but it still really hurts.

All I keep thinking about is that I have now transferred 10 embryos and nothing. 

I have two new REs that I will be calling on Monday for consults (Dr. Charles Miller and Dr. Mary Molo Wood - if anyone has any info on these two please share)

Thank you to everyone for being so supportive throughout all of this.  I don't know what I would do without all of you. 

xoxo

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Re: another negative

  • I am so, so sorry, Mrs.P. My heart is broken for you. Big (((hugs)))
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  • I am so sorry.  I hope these new RE's can help you.
  • I am so brokenhearted for you. That just isnt fair. I am so so sorry and if there is anything I can do let me know! HUGE (((HUGS)))
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  • I am so so sorry mrs p!!! It's just not fair!! I hope you get some answers at your new RE consults. (((hugs)))
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  • I'm so very sorry.
    IVF #3 = Feb 2012
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  • I just popped on to see if there was an update...I am so, so sorry to read this.

    (((HUGS))) to you sweetie 

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  • Oh, hon....I'm so sorry for the bad news. It always sucks, no matter what "signs" you get. *sends hugs* I hope you have a good consult with the new doctors, and hopefully one of them can figure out something for you! Good luck, hon...
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  • I am so so so sorry! I do not have any info on the two docs you mentioned, but I just wanted to throw it out there- have you thought about calling Dr. Kaplan at FCI? Good luck!!
    DS #1: (Summer 2010) Gonal-F, Ovidrel, Endometrin & B2B IUIs (Hail Mary Cycle) DC #2&3: IVF #1 (November 2011) Lilypie Second Birthday tickers Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
  • I'm so so sorry, I really hope fresh eyes will see something your current RE is not. Tons of (((HUGS))).
    1-20-09 BFP third month of Follistim IUI 02-19-09 MC 06-24-09 MC July IUI Follistim Ganirelix Ovidrel Crinone=BFN Aug. IUI Follistim Ganirelix ovidrel Crinone=BFP= scared sh**less 10-12-09 MC = 1 ectopic 1 perfect Dec. IUI Gonal-F Ganirelix Ovidrel Crinone Lovenox 01-02-10 BFP=scared sh**less again 01-06-10 CP SAIF ALWAYS WELCOME : ) March 2010 - IVF in progress converted to IUI 03-30-10 BFN April 2010 - IVF - BFFN June 2010 - IVF - BFFN July IUI BFP! March 26 2011 Gracie is here! imageImage and video hosting by TinyPic imageImage and video hosting by TinyPic
  • I'm so sorry you didn't get better news today.  *hugs*
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  • I am so sorry.
    TTC since 07/2009
    Me: PCOS, Blood/Immune Issues DH: Low all 3
    Jun.- Sep. 2010 IUI#1-#3 = BFN
    Oct. 2010 = IVF #1 = B/G Twins (passed away Feb. 2011)
    May 2011 = Myomectomy and trans-abdominal cerclage (TAC)
    Sep. 2011 = Surprise BFP = C/P
    Feb. 2012 = sFET #1 = BFN
    Feb.2012 = Hail Mary IUI #4 = BFN
    April/May 2012 = FET #2 w/our last two embies = BFP (Please let this be it!)
    Beta #1 8dp5/6dt = 234 Beta #2 10dp5/6dt = 695 Beta #3 12dp5/6dt = 1796 Beta #4 17dp5/6dt = 17,888 U/S #1 May 17, 2012 = Twins
    Baby B's heart stop beating at 9 weeks 5 days
    Our little miracle baby is a boy. :)

    Baby Boy Owen and Baby Girl Avery were born too early on Feb. 13, 2011 due to a pedunculated fibroid, incompetent cervix and suspected placental abruption.
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  • ej708ej708 member
    I'm so sorry. 
    Our IVF miracles arrived on 7/20/11 at 37 weeks after 3 weeks of hospital bedrest! Lilypie Second Birthday tickers "Stubbornly persist, and you will find that the limits of your stubbornness go well beyond the stubbornness of your limits." ~Robert Brault
  • Oh, I am so very sorry. I really thought this was it for you. Thinking of you and sending lots of hugs.
    Crohn's resulting in colectomy with J-Pouch surgery in 2000/2001.
    TTC since August 2008
    IVF#1: BFFN; IVF#2: BFN; FET with new RE: BFN
    IVF#3: ER 1/15; ET 1/20; Beta#1 1/29: 339!
    Twins girls born via c/s at 37w/3d!!
    "Let it go, this too shall pass."
  • Oh A my heart is breaking for you. I'm so so sorry. Thinking of you. I really hope that you have tons of luck with a new RE. ((HUGS))
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  • I am so very sorry MrsP. I am thinking of you and your DH today. Try to take care of yourself. BIG ((hugs))

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  • I am so very, very sorry. I wish there was something more to say.
  • I am so, so sorry. Thinking of you today.
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  • Oh Mrs.P.... I am sorry. It's just not fair. I know there are no words to make you feel better. Just know we are all here for you. I think it's a good idea that you are getting 2nd opinions. I'm hopeful they will be able to suggest something to help you. (hugs)
    After DX- IF 1996-16 years old; IVF 1 5/2009 BFP! ;MC- 8 W6d- 6/2009
    DX w/ Protein S Deficiency and unexplained thin lining
    Multiple D&C's, Hysterscopy for removal of Scar Tissue, Endometrial Biopsy, 3 BFN FETs, including a year of cancelled due to lining issues (ranging 4.5 to 6.4),
    Procedure of arcuate uterus, Shocking lining development...9.2.
    Moved on to adoption 3/2011
    Homestudy approved! 6/27/2011
    Forever matched! 7/17/2012
    Precious baby boy born 7/30/2012
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  • I am so sorry you have had to deal with so much disappointment.  I can't imagine, but I hope you are doing ok and that your new RE will help you get your long awaited LO.  Best of luck. 

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  • It is so unfair! And I was so sure this would be it for you. Im so so sorry. My heart is broken for you.
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  • albjagalbjag member

    *Hugs*

     

    Surprise BFP after 5 yrs of TTC
  • My heart sank when I saw this post as I know your heart is broken. I'm sorry Mrs. P, just hang in there and I'm glad you have two consults/second opinions.  We love you :)  ((hugs))   (if you've never been tested for killer cells you should ask about that, it might only be necessary if you've had miscarrages though, I'm not sure how it works)
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  • I am so so sorry.  I don't even know what to say.  I hate this for you.  Please take care of yourself right now.
  • I am so so sorry hun. i hope your consults bring you some answers. (((hugs)))
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  • I'm so so sorry Mrs.P.  It just sucks to keep trying and being hopeful and not knowing why it doesn't work.  I hope the new RE's can shed some light on your situation.  Take care of yourself.

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  • I'm so sorry. ((Big hugs))
    TTC# 1 Since 10/2005----Diagnosed with PCOS March of 2006
    multiple failed cycles, multiple IUIs, lap with ovarian drilling 4/2008
    Finally BFP on 11/23/09 beta#1=36 beta#2 =62 beta#3=139
    Liliana was born on March 27,2010 at 21w5d due to infection and pre-term labor
    BFP #2 on 6/20/10 after Gonal-F and TI First u/s showed Twins! 
    TTC#2 since 02/2012 with out RE... 
    Back to RE 08/2016----- Cycle #1 10/2016 Femara 7.5mg=???
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  • I'm just speechless and so broken hearted for you! ((Huge hugs))
    Natural BFP on 3/08
    C/P- at 6 weeks
    5 IUI's= BFN
    Dx: Endo stage 1 : evevated FSH (11.3)
    IVF#1: 3dt 2 8 cell, grade 1 embyos :bfn


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  • JM1977JM1977 member
    Oh I'm so, so sorry.  I hope you get some answers from one of the new REs.
    TTC with DOR, low morphology, fertilization issues
    IVF#1 Oct 2009 (CCRM) - BFN
    IVF#2 March 2010 - Poor response/cancelled
    DE IVF#1 Aug 2010 - BFN
    DE IVF#2 Dec 2010 - Transferred 1, 2 frozen - BFP!
    TTC#2 FET Jan 2013 - Transferred 1 - BFP!

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  • Oh No, Mrs. P!!! I am so very sorry, It's just so unfair!!! Please take care of yourself- you are in my thoughts.

     By the way..I read something not too long ago about Dr. Mary Molo Wood. She seems to come very highly respected. Have you talked to Dr. K? What did he have to say? I'm sure he's devastated for you. I hope you find the help you need with the new RE's you're looking into.

    huge ((hugs))

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  • I am very sorry and I pray your new RE's can help you.
  • I'm so sorry.  I hope the second opinion helps.
    TTC Child #1 Sept '08, Dx: Unexplained, DOR 2 IUI's = BFN, m/c, IVF 1 = 0 embies to put back, IVF 2 = BFN, IVF 3 = cancelled, IVF 4 = BFP with 1 embie. Our son came into our life on 9/28/11. We are in love! Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • I am so so sorry. I hope your new consults go well. ((BIG HUGS))
    IVF #1 BFN... IVF #2 BFP! TWINS!
    Twins born too early at 23 weeks due to incompetent cervix
    FET #1, IUI #1, 2, 3, 4 - all BFN
    IVF #3 BFP!!! IT'S A BOY! Born July 16th, 2011
    FET #2 BFP! Due February 15, 2013
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  • I'm so sorry Mrs. P. My heart is breaking for you. I think you are doing the right thing by getting a couple of second opinions. I hope they are able to give you some answers.
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  • kme930kme930 member

    A, I am so so sorry. I'm heartbroken for you.

    Best of luck with the consults. I hope MWM can help - she's all business, but very good. If you have any questions about her, just page me on SAIF or PM me.

    (((hugs)))

  • I'm so sorry sweetie. (((huge hugs)))
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  • Oh no, I am so sorry to read this. Sending tons of (((((HUGS))))) your way!!
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    TTC Since Dec 2006
    *IVF #1 cancelled at ET*
    *IVF #2 OHSS, transfer cancelled*
    *FET #1 2 frosties, c/p*
    *Lap April 2010, removed endometrioma/endo implants*
    *Surprise BFP June 2010*
    *Beautiful daughter born 2/14/11!!*
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  • I'm really sorry. I hope you can find some answers with another RE. It really sucks:<
    PAIF and SAIF Always Welcome!
    TTC since 2007
    6 IUIs, 3 IVFs, and 2 m/c :< PCOS, Blood Clotting Disorder & MFI
    IVF #2 Aug 2011 is a BFN:<
    IVF #3 March 2012 is a BFN
    Not sure what to do now. Sad and lost.
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  • I'm so sorry to hear that. I can't imagine your disappointment and hurt. ((HUGS))
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  • I am so, so sorry sweetie. I know I already told you that. I am absolutely, 100% heartbroken FOR you.

    Please know that both S and I are thinking of you and M. 

    :( 

    TTC #1 since June 2008 *SAIFW*

    TI, IUIs, IVF = c/ps and BFNs

  • I'm so sorry.  ((hugs))
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