What an effing perv. I always knew she was weird and overly sexual. When DS was 3 days old, she insisted on changing his diaper and announced that DS's scrotum looked just like DH's. When she saw the gender u/s pic, she said DS would make some woman very happy some day. Weird and unnerving, yes, But putting your LIPS on my baby's genitals is unacceptable!! DH & BIL have some strange issues when it comes to sexuality and being touched. I'm not so sure she didn't molest her sons. She kept bugging to have DS over to her place. After the attempted oral on my baby, the answer is simple: F--- NO!!!

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Re: MIL Kissed DS's penis!
Mio Marito per Sempre: Married 2009. SD is 12 yrs. DD is 4 yrs.
DS born 12/29/14
normally I roll my eyes when people on here complain about things thier inlaws do.
Yeah, not at this one. WTF?!?!
Holy shiit.
I would be on the phone with the cops so fast, the fvcking pervert wouldn't even have time to blink. That's molestation, plain and simple.
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Okay, her "apology" was a complete non-apology. She molested your son. It sounds like she molested her sons. I think her text does not warrant a response at all.
Is she around other children at all? If she is, I would STRONGLY urge you to contact the police.
I'm sorry, I usually agree with Soko. Not in this instance though. That is not molestation.
OP - did your H or his brother ever say she molested them? If not, I wouldn't go around accusing her.
Keep her away from your kid.
Not only is that a passive-aggressive non-apology, but it's obvious that she sees nothing wrong with what she's doing. Keep her far, far away.
That does not indicate whether or not a person was molested. Often it is buried deep in their memories, and all you see of it are things that the OP mentioned - sexual issues, etc. I'm not saying she should approach her MIL about it, but keeping that in mind, do not allow her ANY unsupervised time with her son at all, ever. I don't care if he was a teenager.
As a cops wife I would strongly urge you to at least file a report on this with your local police department. That way if it ever comes up down the road they will be able to prosecute her, because you would have that report from basically day one. Please at least do this.
Now what I would have done was drop kicked that b*tch and told her if she ever touched my son again I would bash her head into the wall. Oh and her apology, not one at all. Text her back and tell her to contact you when she has a real apology, because from now on she's not allowed to even look at your child let alone babysit ever.
This just makes me sick.
If the police got involved, she could easily be arrested on molestation charges. My husband is a police officer, and he agrees.
If her H says that he was molsted, that would indicate that he was. I know people don't always remember. I'm just saying I wouldn't go around accusing someone of something withoput proof.
Soko - I have no doubt that some cops would agree.
I would seriously text her backl and say "That's not affection. It's molestation." and leave it at that.
Im curious as to how you figure that a GROWN A$$ WOMAN putting her lips on a baby's PRIVATES and not thinking anything of it is NOT molestation? What planet are you from? Here on earth,in America, thats wrong,molsetation, and fricking perverted. Also, speakng as a victim of sexual abuse, just because it happened doesnt mean you go and tell everyone you know. . . . . . quite the opposite. . . .