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Update on Interview with b-mom on Sunday
Hey ladies. Sorry I didn't get a chance to update sooner, we got home late on Sunday night (B-mom's town is 3 hours away) and yesterday I was swamped. Things went well! We really like her. She seems honestly very sweet. Her mother couldn't come (big bummer since her mom is a huge part of this and we really wanted to meet her) but we sat and talked for 3 hours. When we told her about what we have gone through, all of us teared up, including the attorney. She brought her 1 yo daughter with her...so unbelievably cute! and the baby loved me. 
She said towards the end that she did not want to meet any of the other couples she was scheduled to meet with. She had met with 3, including us, and she said it was between us and another couple. She has other family members who she wants to meet us...her mom, mom's fiancee, so she said she is still a few weeks away from any decision. Since we are going to be in town visiting friends anyway next weekend, we asked her if she had plans for the 4th and if she wanted to hang out with us and hopefully bring her mom. She said yes, so I am supposed to call her and try to set stuff up. She's not meeting again with the other couple until July 17th, as that's when one of her family members is coming back into town. So I am guessing (hoping) we will get together then as well.
According to the attorney, it went really well and she said in her email to me yesterday that she thinks there is a strong chance she will pick us. We are not getting our hopes up though, as much as we like her and as well as it seemed to go. You never know with these things and we have had our hearts broken way too many times, so we are staying cautious.
Thoughts & prayers are very much needed & so very appreciated right now.
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Re: Update on Interview with b-mom on Sunday
Started TTC 05.08
Me: Stage II endo, borderline high FSH
DH: perfect
1 lap, 5 IUIs = 4 BFNs and 1 c/p
2 IVFs, 2 FETs = 1 BFN, 1 c/p, 1 ectopic and finally a sticky BFP in May 2011!
1 FET in Aug 2013 = BFP!
5 REs + 3 surgical hysteroscopies for septum/lap + 3 failed IUIs
IVF w/ICSI/AH & acu = BFP!, unexplained spontaneous m/c @ 8w2d (our little girl),
FET w/acu = BFP!, B/G twins!, lost MP @19w, dx w/funneling cervix @20w,
twins nearly lost to IC @21w, saved by rescue cerclage, 17P & 16w of bedrest
Our twins born @36w4d via CS when A came foot first
Thankful for every day
TTC #2 since June '08
~*DD 10.21.07*~
dx unexplained
IUI #1-4 BFN
IVF#1 June 2011 BFN
IVF#2 Dec 2011
Beta#1 12/21 : 812 Beta#2 12/23 : 1634
EDD 8/25
*PAIFW/SAIFW*
Blythe Elizabeth is here March 27,2012
That is so exciting. I even teared up reading your post.
I am so happy that it went so well.
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TTC in 2008. Stage II/III endo, Hashimotos hypothyroid, low morph (3%).
2 cycles Clomid/Ovidrel/TI/Crinone=BFN.
IUI #1 - 4 Follistim/Ovidrel/IUI/Crinone = BFN.
IVF #1 - Antagonist w/ ICSI 4/10. 17 retrieved, 5DT of 2, BFN
IVF #2 - Long Lupron w/ ICSI 6/10. 15 retrieved, 3DT of 2, BFFN!!
Lap 7/21/10
IVF #3 - Clomid/Antagonist w/ ICSI 10/10. 14 retreived, 3DT of 3, BFP 10/20 but m/c. No HB 11/15/10 - D&C 11/17/10.
FET - 2 blasts, 1 survived the thaw. Transfer 2/19. Beta #1 3/1 375, Beta #2 3/3 885, Beta #3 3/8 4261, Beta #4 3/11 9005. U/S 3/8 1 sac 1 yolk, U/S 3/16 1 heartbeat 114bpm!
James born Oct. 24th 2011 via c-section at 38 weeks!
Surprise BFP - Jack born April 28, 2013 via VBAC after PTL at 33 1/2 weeks!
IVF#1: start stims 1/26; ER 2/8; ET 2/13= BFN; FET#1: May 2010= m/c *NEW CLINIC Jan 2011* IVF#2: start stims 1/12; ER 1/22; ET 1/27= BFN; IVF#3: TBD
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IVF#1: BFFN; IVF#2: BFN; FET with new RE: BFN
IVF#3: ER 1/15; ET 1/20; Beta#1 1/29: 339!
Twins girls born via c/s at 37w/3d!!
"Let it go, this too shall pass."
Me - DX Hashimoto's Disease, Hypothyroid, Rheumatoid Arthritis
DH - DX Azoospermia - Sertoli Cell Syndrome
DS-IUI #1-4 BFN IVF #1 - BFP! It's a boy!!!
Wow, it sounds like you had a wonderful meeting!
I hope you can get together with her again this weekend and make another wonderful impression
Good luck auburnbride!!!! Fingers are more than crossed
DX: Premature ovarian failure
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3 IUI's, 2 IVF's , 1 FET , 1 IVF w/ Gestational Carrier, and 1 FET using adopted embryo's = ALL BFNs
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FET #1 Dec 2013 BFN
FET # 2 Feb 2014 BFN
No more frosties
IVF #2. September 2014
PGD yielded 2 perfect 5d blasts
SET November 9, 2014
Nov 23, 2014. Another BFN
Not sure where to go from here.
It took 5 failed IUIs and a failed IVF, but our FET worked!
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Our baby girl was born on April 27, 2011!
Married in 2/2006, TTC since 3/09 with Endo stage 4(DX 1999) and PCO (DX 2010), DEC, LAP and 2 rounds of Depo Lupron
Surprise BFP 2/13!B- M/C 7w 4D, D+C 3/13
Surprise BFP 6/13! - Blighted Ovum found at 7w, D+C 6/28
Surprise BFP 8/13!- Hopefully third time is the charm!
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