We opened wedding gifts after our wedding, and had a little get-together. One of my friends took notes which made thank you cards super easy. I haven't been to a baby shower in years and years - would it be wrong/weird of me to ask someone to do that?
Re: Keeping track of gifts
This
~Benjamin Franklin
DS dx with celiac disease 5/28/10
Every shower I've been too someone did this. I always figured it was the norm and you didn't have to tell anyone.
I'm sure the hostess or one of your friends will volunteer to keep a list. Its pretty standard.
At my first shower, DH's grandma volunteered, and at the second, my mom threw a pencil and paper at my sister to do it.
But asking someone to do it for you is completely fine. If the hostess doesn't volunteer, just ask the person you're closest to... a BFF, sister, mom, whoever.
"I'll gladly take cold sores over eye herpes" -ElieFin
"Unicorn glitter gives me UTIs." -Leila'sMommy
TTC #2 since April 2012
Year 1 - nothing
Year 2 - two m/c
Year 3 - unexplained diagnosis & 4 failed IUIs with Clomid/Letrozole
Year 4 - still unexplained & 3 failed IUIs with Follistim & Ovidral
Year 5 - trying on our own