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TWW Thursday 12/9

bows22bows22 member
edited December 2021 in Trying to Get Pregnant

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Re: TWW Thursday 12/9

  • bows22bows22 member

    Month/Cycle: 37/39

    CD/DPO: 19/5

    Timing: EOD + IUI on O day 

    Typical LP length: progesterone

    Testing: 10 DPO before I leave for a work trip 

    R/R: I found out that one of the clients I work with the most lost his mom the other night. She was pretty old but in good health and it was unexpected. Now struggling with whether or not I should go to the viewing. I don’t ever know what peoples comfort level with mixing work/personal and while I know it’s definitely not wrong to go, I don’t really want to make him uncomfortable by going, so trying to decide if it’s wrong to not go. I feel awful for him though. 

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  • anniemarie887anniemarie887 member

    Month/Cycle: 13/4 AL

    CD/DPO: 23/5

    Timing: good

    Typical LP length: 12-14 days

    Testing: maybe sunday, prob shouldn't until tues/weds

    R/R: omg it is so cold here! brrrrrr 

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  • anniemarie887anniemarie887 member
    @bows22 DPO twins! Fingers crossed for both of us. As for your coworker I would go to the viewing, they’re much easier to be a quick visit - I know that sounds callous but that’s not how I mean it. 
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  • abjm0325abjm0325 member
    @bows22 I agree with @anniemarie887 that this might be a good time to attend the visitation but not the funeral. I think the barrier for acceptability at the visitation in terms of your relationship with him is much lower. No matter what you decide, it is sweet of you to want to support him. 

    @anniemarie887 It is cold here too! I was off today and stubbornly refused to wear a coat while running errands though, so I guess I can't complain too much. 

    Month/Cycle: 4/3 AL

    CD/DPO: 27/13

    Timing: doesn't matter

    Typical LP length: 12ish

    Testing: WFAF

    R/R: I had the day off today! It wasn't anything exciting, but it was great to get to run errands, catch up on laundry etc. without feeling super rushed. 

    CS/Q: Nope
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  • annanbbyannanbby member
    *lurking*

    @bows22 if it helps at all, for my daughter's viewing/funeral, some of my husband's coworkers that I'd never met showed up, but we both felt nothing but support from that. We really appreciated every person that showed up, it meant a lot to us. Granted, everyone is different, but I think it would be more appreciated than anything.
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  • bows22bows22 member
    Sorry I didn’t make it back here today but thank you for the encouragement! My boss is extremely close to this client so I’m going to see what he thinks too. 

    @anniemarie887 DPO twins!! Yeah Sunday is probably too early but if you are going to be drinking and want to do it for that reason then go for it! I’m testing on Tuesday because I have a work trip where drinking will be expected and if I don’t it will just be assumed that I’m pregnant so I’d rather just test so I can have like 1 small glass of wine and avoid questioning. 

    @a@abjm0325 I’m glad you had a nice day off! A day to get caught up is always amazing. 

    @an@annanbby thank you, that does help! I’m so sorry you went through that❤️
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