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Diagnosed with Graves Disease, Lazy Ovary Disease, PCOS, Endometriosis. Right ovary, fallopian tube, and part of left ovary removed b/c of 11 cm tumor in June 2008. "There is no scientific explanation for how you got pregnant on your own. I feel safe saying this could be a miracle." - my doctor TTC Baby Prepster since December 2008 - The Chart | ||
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Re: dropped part deux
She's like a ninja...haha random
best compliment ever.
LOL...
In one posting I PAY MY BILLS, in another I PAY MY CELL PHONE AND CAN'T AFFORD THE REST
In one posting WHY WOULD YOU ASSUME I AM DISABLED, in another HOW DO YOU KNOW I CAN EVEN WORK RIGHT NOW.
so many contrdictions made my head spin...
HAHAHA I was thinking the same thing. There are way to many contrdictions in her story!
Did anyone catch that she is applying for bankrupcy.. yet she pays her bills.. That is confusing me..
How the hell do you plan on buying a house in a year or so if you plan on going bankrupt..
Good financial planning.
HIS MOM DOESN'T PHYSICALLY SUPPORT HIM. HE WORKS. HE PAYS HIS BILLS, HIS MOM JUST KEEPS THE BOOKS, AND WRITES THE CHECKS AND GETS THEM ALL OUT ON TIME.
The Nutty Life
first off, i'm not 15 weeks pregnant, i'm 24 weeks. thank you very much..
save my money and not spend on tattoos? HOW ARE MY TATTOOS RELEVANT TO ANYTHING? seriously. you have no right to judge on those grounds, however any at all, but that's besides the point. you seriously have no fvcking idea what my life has been like, what i've been through, what i AM going through.. jesus.
The Nutty Life
DH and I have been following these threads for the last hour or so... he just made a point.
Anyone else ever heard of the "precious snowflake" problem? These are kids who have everything handed to them and are never really taught how to live on their own and support themselves. Well, this has been going on for several years in society (I don't mean with every family, but it's a widespread problem), and now these kids are old enough to be having babies of their own.
Could OP be one of these kids? Hhmmm....
"I'll gladly take cold sores over eye herpes" -ElieFin
"Unicorn glitter gives me UTIs." -Leila'sMommy
Dont know, but I have had friends who had welfare abusing parents who refused to be like them and worked really hard to make a honorable life for themselves. IDC if you had a shi*ty life, everyone has problems, some more than others, but I have seen some of the most impossible situations turn into hard working adults.
But I totally get your point, crap like this just infuriates me!
Well, I'm not really talking welfare parents. I'm talking parents who more or less smother their kids and make sure they are never in need... parents who spoil their kids, that sort of thing. Helicopter parents , if you will.
"I'll gladly take cold sores over eye herpes" -ElieFin
"Unicorn glitter gives me UTIs." -Leila'sMommy
Your lack of maturity has been pointed out to you several times already. The fact that you insist on throwing temper tantrum after temper tantrum is only strengthening our point. Proper grammar is something that would help a little, and being rational would help more. Your story is so full of contradictions that no one has any way to tell what really is fact. We get that you're pregnant, and therefore emotional/easily upset. Fact is, the rest of us can at least own it when we're being irrational.
You and your friend have not specified why you couldn't work, which doesn't help you get any good advice. If we had a clear picture, you might have gotten more advice. Believe me, a lot of us have been in tight financial circumstances. Being in a bad situation does NOT justify being unrealistic. The way you're talking about things leads me to believe that you're either totally delusional, BSC or completely naive. If you're filing for bankruptcy, how on earth are you going to buy a house? Do you have any idea what that does to your credit score for the next several years? And don't even try the "we have money in savings" crap because if you had anything there you'd be trying to get out of debt instead of filing for bankruptcy. FYI: Bankruptcy is NOT a free "golly gee, no more debt" pass.
Have you sat down to figure out what kind of income you will need with a baby? I doubt it. You're complaining over petty, ridiculous things. If you're stuck on the petty stuff and freaking out about it, how the flip do you think you're going to handle the big stuff?? IGNORING THE PROBLEM DOES NOT MAKE IT GO AWAY. Get a grip. Preferably on reality.
OHHH!!! Wow Im feeling stupid now! haha, yes! Kids that get the world handed to them on a silver platter. Possibly but I would assume if this chicks parents had done that to her once, she would probably not have these issues now because they would be paying for everything. But maybe they got mad at her and cut her off...
But yes, parents who do that ALSO drive me NUTS!