Tonight is my semi-surprise 30th birthday (I knew the date since we'd hoped I be KU by now). DH has been planning this for well over a month. Very close friends of ours RSVPed yes when they got the invite a month ago. She just texted DH this longwinded BS of an excuse about having dinner reservations in Philly with another couple and they couldn't back out because other couple was from OOT. Seriously? I've known you since we were 15, you were both in my wedding party, and you pull this now? I am so hurt that they obviously went and made this plans knowing they'd have to back out of my party. And in a text no less. So I passively-agressively posted on FB that L is finding out where she falls on some people's friend list. They will be on our douche list for a long time.
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Re: So pissed off & hurt (N3TR)
I'm sorry, L. That's totally crappy of her to do to you. ((big hugs)).
I hope you have truely fantastic time in spite of them. Happy Birthday (a day early), Love!
That sucks - I would be hurt and upset too!! Please try to enjoy your party though - as hard as it is to ignore that they aren't there - have fun with everyone who is. I do know how difficult that is though - DH's BFF female friend sent him a text during our rehearsal that she didn't think she, her bf and her son could come to the wedding - she was "sick". I was so pissed off as I knew how much it hurt DH - not to mention I had made a special favor for her son. I still refuse to invite them to any of our events.
Please try and have an awesome time - you deserve it!!!! Happy birthday!!!!
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I'm sorry. They suck. Want me to ruin their dinner? I can call in a bomb threat???
Hope you have a great party without the party poopers!
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I am SO so sorry hun. Unfortunately, I know how you feel. That is absolutely terrible for them to do that and not have the balls to call and tell you in person nontheless.
I know it will dampen your spirits some, but I hope that doesn't prevent you from still enjoying your night.
Happy Birthday! Wish we could be there to celebrate for you!
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