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So pissed off & hurt (N3TR)

Tonight is my semi-surprise 30th birthday (I knew the date since we'd hoped I be KU by now).  DH has been planning this for well over a month.  Very close friends of ours RSVPed yes when they got the invite a month ago.  She just texted DH this longwinded BS of an excuse about having dinner reservations in Philly with another couple and they couldn't back out because other couple was from OOT.  Seriously?  I've known you since we were 15, you were both in my wedding party, and you pull this now?  I am so hurt that they obviously went and made this plans knowing they'd have to back out of my party.  And in a text no less.  So I passively-agressively posted on FB that L is finding out where she falls on some people's friend list.  They will be on our douche list for a long time.


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Re: So pissed off & hurt (N3TR)

  • I'm sorry.  I'd be really upset too.  I hope you can enjoy your birthday still have a great 30th!!  :) 
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  • I'm sorry but try to have a great birthday anyway!
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  • I am so sorry! That is very rude of your friends.  I hope you have a great 30th birthday!
  • I'm so sorry L - that is really sucky of them.  I hope you still have an awesome time tonight!  Happy birthday :)
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  • I'm sorry, L.  That's totally crappy of her to do to you.  ((big hugs)).

     I hope you have truely fantastic time in spite of them.  Happy Birthday (a day early), Love!

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  • That sucks - I would be hurt and upset too!!  Please try to enjoy your party though - as hard as it is to ignore that they aren't there - have fun with everyone who is.  I do know how difficult that is though - DH's BFF female friend sent him a text during our rehearsal that she didn't think she, her bf and her son could come to the wedding - she was "sick".  I was so pissed off as I knew how much it hurt DH - not to mention I had made a special favor for her son.  I still refuse to invite them to any of our events. 

    Please try and have an awesome time - you deserve it!!!!  Happy birthday!!!!

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  • That's lame. I'm sorry. I had something similar happen to me and my bridal shower. 2-3 sorority sisters, who I thought were good friends, RSVPd and never showed. Really hurt me a lot. But in the end you find out who your true friends are and that's all that matters. Happy Birthday!
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  • I'm sorry. That would make me mad too. I hope you have a great time tonight!
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  • I'm sorry.  They suck.  Want me to ruin their dinner?  I can call in a bomb threat???

    Hope you have a great party without the party poopers!

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  • I'm really sorry L! That is a really bad excuse and she could have at least called you! She sounds like a crappy friend. I've also recently has some ?good? friends show their true colors lately and honestly I'm really glad they did bc I'm better off without them. I hope you have a great party and try not to keep this from ruining your night! :)
  • Aw, Im sorry. I would be pissed too. I hope that despite this hiccup you have a wonderful "surprise" party. Happy (early) 30th!
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  • I hate when people pull that shiit.  Well have a great time without them!  You're hubby went through a lot of work for this, don't let the douches spoil it.
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  • I'm so sorry!  I would be really hurt as well.  As easy as it is for me to say, try to enjoy your party anyway.  There are clearly lots of people who want to celebrate your big day with you (and who have their priorities in the right order!)  Have fun tonight!!
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  • I'm so sorry ! I hope you have a great birthday anyways !


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  • I am SO so sorry hun. Unfortunately, I know how you feel. That is absolutely terrible for them to do that and not have the balls to call and tell you in person nontheless.

    I know it will dampen your spirits some, but I hope that doesn't prevent you from still enjoying your night.

    Happy Birthday! Wish we could be there to celebrate for you! 

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