Not quite a good-bye

Tim'sWifey · February 2010

Let me start this by saying, thank you for all of the love and support my husband and I received after Katie died. I would not be doing so well without it.

Today's highly viewed post was deleted. Someone emailed it to my SIL. And while I do feel betrayed by this, I know it is a public forum and that I should not say something I do not wish to get back to the person. Call me, naive but I used this board as a place where I could vent.

The details about this evening and my discussion with my family are private and I will not go into that. As for now, I will not be posting as much and my blog is private again. Most of you will stay as readers on my blog, others will be deleted.

Feel free to PM me if you have any questions or what have you. Please do not post anything on FB.

crownedbee · February 2010

I love you.

NavyClan · February 2010

I'm sorry TW. Completely understandable in light of the circumstances. We will miss having you around here more often.

MrsShrek1028 · February 2010

i love you!

lo45fd98wq32 · February 2010

You are loved.

akalutts · February 2010

I love you TW. I can't believe this has happened. I am so disappointed in people.

mrs_kelly1014 · February 2010

I am quite literally sitting her speechless as I try to think of something to write to you. I am so sorry that someone was so horrible to you. YGPM in a minute.

Manalyzer · February 2010

OMG! I can't believe something like that happened. I'm so sorry TW. ygpm in a sec.

blondnearby · February 2010

I am a lurker and I am so angry about this whole situation.

I am so very sorry, TW, that someone is acting so juvenile and cant see that you were venting. Regardless of anything you are fully entitled to your feelings and I know that in your situation I would want my family to be aware of my feelings. People need to get off their drama llamas and see who is really getting hurt in situations like this one. I am so so sorry again TW.

oh-zysbaby · February 2010

I can only say... I can't say. I can't imagine what would cause ANYONE to do such a thing. Horrible.

SoCaliAli · February 2010

I love you.

MrsRustyGriswold · February 2010

I just got caught up and all I can say is I'm so sorry that some people are idiots.

AJplusKev · February 2010

wtf? how did it get emailed to your SIL? man, this interwebz really is creeeepy. Sorry this happened to you.

TessCPDF · February 2010

TW - I mostly lurked when you lost Katie. But, I just wanted to tell you that I was and am amazed by your strength and grace. I didn't see the end of what happened last night - only the early hours of the evening. The things that were said to you were more than horrible and whoever interfered with your family issues should be ashamed of themselves. Best wishes during this time.

hippotree · February 2010

I love you and am so sorry this happened. I am also very angry.

heehee611 · February 2010

I'm not a regular, and you probably don't know me, but I just want to say I'm sorry that someone would do that to you. That's really shitty and I hope they get what's coming to them. Take care of yourself!

WaitingOnTwoPinkLines · February 2010

I'm so sorry TW. ((hugs)) and I love you. I'll miss seeing you

God, I hope Karma is a biitch to the douches.

horizon1322 · February 2010

TW, words cannot express how angry I am that someone would do something like that. I just can't even fathom...

I love you, and I respect you so much for your strength, spirit, and unbelievable kindness. You deserve so much better. ((hugs))

sweetfrogy · February 2010

You have every right to the feelings that you "vented" on here last night, regardless of how the other parties will choose to handle your request. There has been a LOT of really disturbing and disappointing behavior on BOTB as of late. Just because it's a public message board, doesn't mean there aren't real people, with real feelings behind the screennames.

mrs.maybride · February 2010

I have been sitting here for 10 minutes trying to think of something, anything, to say. And words are failing me right now. I'm sorry for the losses that all of you have suffered and for someone to stoop to this level is incredibly disturbing.

I wish nothing but peace and continued healing to you and your H. For the douchebag, I wish slow, painful torture.

Jessis62781 · February 2010

As usual, May has put everything I am thinking into eloquent text.

TW, I love you babe.

mmkaye · February 2010

MrsRustyGriswold:
I just got caught up and all I can say is I'm so sorry that some people are idiots.

This. I am so sorry.

Jenandtonica · February 2010

This whole debacle is just sad. I'm sorry, TW.

krate24 · February 2010

TW, I don't know exactly what happened since I wasn't on last night, but I'm getting bits and pieces today. I'm so sorry that you are having to go through this. Please don't let one stupid person take away from all the love and support that most women on here have to offer.

(((hugs)))

StephanieBride1 · February 2010

Sweetie, I hate this. I am so sorry for what some cvntbag did to you. This should be a safe place to vent, I wish that were the case. I love you and I am here for you anytime.

preppynewlywed · February 2010

TW, I think you are amazing. You have handled the past months with such strength and dignity that you have set an example for all of us. You constantly reach out to others, and you are always one of the first to help us through hard times.

I am so sorry that your privacy was invaded that way, and I hope that you will continue to find a way to bring your love and graciousness to this board.

((hugs))

PolishWonder · February 2010

I lurk everyday here, but don't post too often.

TW, I'm so sorry violated your personal space. That is unacceptable and disgusting. You are a wonderful, strong woman. Know that you always have people who care for you here, even the ones who only lurk.

hopeful:) · February 2010

TW, I am so so sorry. I can't even think of a word which fully describes how amazing you are.

dmogmo · February 2010

TW that is horrible. I am so sorry.

bronc09 · February 2010

TW, I am so sorry that all of this happened to you. People can be so cruel sometimes and it's sickening.

jCamsquared · February 2010

I'm so sorry this has happened to you. Love you.

izzybella · February 2010

Holy ***. I'm so sorry you're dealing with this. I don't blame you for wanting to hear from your SIL before your family. {{{hugs}}} I hope you come back soon.

Mysterious_wife · February 2010

I have no idea what is going on. I just want you to know I love you and hope the best for your family. Please remember the regs on BOTB adore you and wish you would stay around more.

Hugs.

tstoneking · February 2010

Wow. I left right as the drama was starting yesterday. I'm so so sorry that you have to deal with this. ((hugs))

Mrs.C042807 · February 2010

Sorry to see you go, TW.

And whomever did the emailing, there is a cold place in hell for people like you.

heather_09_15_07 · February 2010

I have no idea what is going on, I just wanted to say good luck to you and I'm sorry to see you go.

ToshaGirl · February 2010

There is a line. On message boards that line may move a bit here and there, but there is most certainly still a line.

And whomever crossed it should be deeply ashamed. And questioning their morale fibre (or lack there of).

I'm old. Most things don't surprise or shock me anymore. But when someone goes that far over a line, to be that vindictive and callous....

you know what. That does shock me.

To whomever sent that email: Feel good now? Enjoying the pain you have caused?

There's a special place in hell for you.

ValentineBB · February 2010

TW - I am so so sorry. You certainly don't deserve any of this and whoever has done this to you is a sad, small little person. We love you so much.

boxermama24 · February 2010

That is just... ridiculous. How much free time does one have to FIGURE OUT who your SIL is and what her email address is?! Get a fvcking life!!!!

You are such a good person, TW. You are an inspiration. Your strength and poise radiates to others and I hope you are not gone for long.

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mrsmacias2008 · February 2010

wth? omg TW I am so sorry. Did you see that someone was also posting on some of our blogs with your name? I already got a few people I am thinking of. F*ckin azzholes.

buckin · February 2010

CathyMD:

There is a line. On message boards that line may move a bit here and there, but there is most certainly still a line.

And whomever crossed it should be deeply ashamed. And questioning their morale fibre (or lack there of).

I'm old. Most things don't surprise or shock me anymore. But when someone goes that far over a line, to be that vindictive and callous....

you know what. That does shock me.

To whomever sent that email: Feel good now? Enjoying the pain you have caused?

There's a special place in hell for you.

ALL OF THIS.

TW, we love you. I hope this experience does not ruin the boards for you because there are good people here who love you to pieces. I'm sorry you had to experience this on top of everything else. It's not fair.

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