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My Mom passed away. My longest post ever :(

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Re: My Mom passed away. My longest post ever :(

  • I'm so sorry.  I know how hard this has been on you over the past few months.  She is in a better place and it sounds like she went the way she wanted to go.  My thoughts are with you.
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    Hypothyroid, LPD, FSH 13.0, TTC 2 yrs B4 BFP

    TTC #2: FSH 23, AMA, IUI 1, 2, 3 = BFN, IVF #1 = MC
    IVF #2 = BFP - Betas 194 (14dp2dt), 366 (16 dp2dt), 841 (18 dp2dt)
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss but so glad you got to spend that week with her.  You and your family will continue to be in our thoughts and prayers.
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  • Your mom sounds like a wonderful woman and clearly you are a wonderful daughter.  I am glad you got to be with your mom in her last days.  I'm so sorry for your loss.  It is going to be tough but you're a strong person and you'll get through this.  Big hugs.

    Kelly, Mom to Christopher Shannon 9.27.06, Catherine Quinn 2.24.09, Trey Barton lost on 12.28.09, Therese Barton lost on 6.10.10, Joseph Sullivan 7.23.11, and our latest, Victoria Maren 11.15.12

    Secondary infertility success with IVF, then two losses, one at 14 weeks and one at 10 weeks, then success with IUI and then just pure, crazy luck.  Expecting our fifth in May as the result of a FET.

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  • I am so, so sorry for your loss. You are a wonderful daughter and it sounds like your mother was an amazing woman.
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  • I'm so sorry. Your mom sounds like an amazing woman! And you a wonderful daughter! I don't know many people who have the strength to do what she did. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
  • Oh sweetie, I am so sorry to hear that your mom passed away.  I'm so glad you got to spend so much time with her. 

  • i am so sorry for your loss, but so glad that you were able to share these last moments with her.  it sounds like you two had a very special connection.  my thoughts are with you and your family.  take care.
  • I am so sorry. :( I am sure you are so grateful that you were able to be there and spend her last moments with her. Your post brought tears to my eyes and I just know how much you loved each other.

    Please take care of yourself.....we're all thinking of you!

     

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  • I'm so glad your mom was surrounded by so much love and support in her final days.  You are so amazing to brave those final moments with your mom on your own.  Make sure to take time for yourself during the busy days ahead.  I'm so sorry for your loss! ((HUGS))


    Clomid M/C 8 weeks 2/08 *IVF #1-DD born 3/09
    *Surprise BFP-T18 baby lost at 13w 1/10 *FET #1-DS born 2/11
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  • I am in tears over the amazing 10 minutes you had with your mom.  Many prayers for you and your family through the next very difficult days.
  • I am so sorry for your loss.  You are a strong woman!  You gave your mom the best gift by staying by her side and helping her through the process.  Your kids are so lucky to have you for a mom!
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  • I am bawling reading your story.  I am so very sorry for your loss.  It's never easy to lose a parent, even when you know it's coming.  I am glad you were able to be there for her.
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  • I'm so very sorry, sweetie. What a painful situation for all involved. I'm so glad you were able to be there with her and to help her pass surrounded by love. You're amazing.
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  • i am so sorry for your loss. it sounds like you were a wonderful source of support for her in her final days. (((hugs)))
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.

    Your story of how she passed sounds almost so beautiful - how you were with her... a horribly sad moment- but so special, too I'm sure. I hope you can find the beauty and love in that moment to help you with your grief.

  • I am sorry for your loss. Your mom sounds like she was an amazing and strong woman! You and your family are in my thoughts (((hugs)))
    A lot of years and a million tears finally led me to you.
    After 7 years trying to concieve, 3 failed IUIs and 2 failed IVFs, my third IVF was a success!
    My Christmas baby turned into a turkey bird! Dillon Richard was born at 34 weeks, 5 days on November 28, 2009 after 10 weeks on bedrest for preeclampsia.
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  • What an amazing experience that you were able to be the comfort and love that your mother needed as she died.  You will be able to know throughout the rest of your life that you were her love and she was yours.  Just beautiful.

    I hope that you are able to be at peace with your mother's death.  I'll be praying for you and your family.

    Allison
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  • I'm so sorry for the loss of your mother.  This is such a beautiful post and wonderful tribute to her life. You are an amazingly strong woman.
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  • I am so sorry for your loss :(

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  • I am so, so sorry.  My prayers are with you and your family.  I can't imagine what you must have been going through; you are one amazing daughter.
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  • Thank you for sharing your story. I'm so sorry for your loss. (((hugs)))
  • ::hugs::  I'm so very sorry to hear that...keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
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  • I am so sorry about your mom Dundas ((HUGS))
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  • I just don't even know what to say.  I am sorry seems so minimal.  I am amazed at your strength in this difficult and at your mother's incredible strength and will to decide her own course.  I am certain none of this has been easy, but I think you did get to spend the most amazing moments with her.  Sending you tons of thoughts and prayers
  • H., I'm so sorry for your loss. Your mom sounds amazing and she raised you to be the same way. Hug your babies extra tight.
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  • Oh my gosh, I am so sorry.  You have me in tears.  You are such a good daughter to have gone out there and sought out help for her.  I'm so so sorry.  I will keep you in my thoughts during this very difficult time.  I'm glad you got to see her and talk to her.  If you ever need support, we are all here for you backing you up.  This has got to be one of the most heart wrenching stories I've ever heard.  Your mom was an unselfish, thoughtful women from what you have said. ((HUGS)) Dundas.
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  • What a wonderful daughter you are.  I am so sorry for your loss and I'll be praying for your family in the coming weeks.  ((HUGS))
  • I just wanted to say that I am so sorry.  As I read this and the tears started coming, I thought how the last moments she had were with you.  I am praying for you and your family during this tough time.
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  • I am so very sorry for your loss, dundasgirl.  Your story is bringing tears to my eyes, both because of what happened and because of how it happened -- completely surrounded by LOVE.  You have so much strength.

    I will continue to think of and pray for your family this week.  My condolences.

    Pregnant with #1 with PCOS and LPD, success with mostly naturopathic treatments
    Our Thanksgiving Day baby 11/22/07

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    Pregnant with #2 with LPD, uterine polyp/hysteroscopy, DOR (AMH = 0.17), 2 c/ps
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  • I'm sorry for your loss.  How wonderful that you could have those last moments together.
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  • much love to you, honey!
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  • I am so sorry.  What a gift for you to have been able to share those last few moments with her.  Thinking of you and your family.
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  • I am so sorry. I know it was a comfort to her having you there. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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  • I am so very sorry for your loss:(. I am so glad that you were able to be there with her, especially during her final hours. My prayers are with you and your family. ((((HUGS)))(((hugs))))
    It took over four years to be diagnosed with PCOS. We TTC #1 for 18 months, did 5 rounds of Clomid and finally moved onto IVF...which worked! Throughout our IF journey, we suffered 3 miscarriages. We conceived both DD and DS without treatment.
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  • Oh no - I'm so sorry.  Your post has me in tears; what a powerful, painful experience. A thousand hugs, coming your way.
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  • I am so very sorry for you loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.  (((hugs)))
  • I am so so sorry.  You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
  • I'm so sorry. How amazing and powerful that you were with her and got to share those precious 10 minutes with her. Sending you and your family lots of love and prayers.
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  • I am so sorry for your loss.  What a bittersweet time this past week must have been.  I am glad that you were able to really spend time with her. 

    Many thoughts and prayers for you and your family.

  • I'm so very sorry.

    Wow.  What a heartbreaking, yet powerful story.  I'm not sure what else to say but thank you for sharing that with us.  It seems like you are an amazing daughter and had an amazing mother.  Great role models for both of your children.

     

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