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Can't everyone get along?

kcrouse06kcrouse06 member
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I'm not bashing on anyone in particular, but the past couple of days I have seen A LOT of negativity. It seems like everyone is snippy at each other.

I know, everyone on here is pregnant, and dealing with hormones they've never dealt with before. It just seems like everyone is dealing with the "snippy hormone" all at once.

I thought this was supposed to be a happy board, a happy time. We're pregnant, some accidentally, some after a very long IVF process, some after a long process without any IVF dealings, some with other issues. Just try to be happy for one another, and try to keep the snippiness down, because this is a happy time.

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  • LuvBeingMrsHLuvBeingMrsH member
    Amen!
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  • jodyrmjodyrm member

    Indeed!!
    And if I ever let my hormones get the better of me, I encourage all of you to put me in my place. Or hand me some chocolate, which usually solves the problem.. 

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  • LCB34LCB34 member

    Last time I checked we didn't all have to have the same feelings.

    I for one will never blow puppies and rainbows up someone's a$$.  That's just not me. 

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  • brown09brown09
    I tend to agree with you.  However, if you do some lurking on the future boards then you will see how much worse it can get and how peaceful this board actually is.  You just have to let the meanness go cuz it will not go away...unfortunately.  :-)
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  • TeamReedTeamReed member
    imageLCB34:

    Last time I checked we didn't all have to have the same feelings.

    I for one will never blow puppies and rainbows up someone's a$$.  That's just not me. 

    The thought of "blowing puppies" made me giggle/get sick...I need to get my mind out of the gutter

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  • ColieJColieJ
    imagekcrouse06:

    I'm not bashing on anyone in particular, but the past couple of days I have seen A LOT of negativity. It seems like everyone is snippy at each other.

    I know, everyone on here is pregnant, and dealing with hormones they've never dealt with before. It just seems like everyone is dealing with the "snippy hormone" all at once.

    I thought this was supposed to be a happy board, a happy time. We're pregnant, some accidentally, some after a very long IVF process, some after a long process without any IVF dealings, some with other issues. Just try to be happy for one another, and try to keep the snippiness down, because this is a happy time.

    I find that unlikely because some make assumptions about an OP and start posting their sarcastic & judgmental remarks. 

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  • kcrouse06kcrouse06 member
    imageLCB34:

    Last time I checked we didn't all have to have the same feelings.

    I for one will never blow puppies and rainbows up someone's a$$.  That's just not me. 

    I realize this, but it would be nice for people to actually BE NICE to one another instead of leaving rude comments.

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  • seanandcallieseanandcallie member
    yeah... if 1st tri is bothering you...you really should prepare yourself.
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  • LCB34LCB34 member

    imageseanandcallie:
    yeah... if 1st tri is bothering you...you really should prepare yourself.

    My thoughts exactly.

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  • anabell0920anabell0920 member

     Make you feel better yet?

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  • Temp200154562509288Temp200154562509288
    This is actually the nicest I've ever seen 1st tri, when I was pregnant last spring the group hanging around chewed everyone into the ground over the smallest thing, it was nothing but negativity. That said, sometimes it's nice to not just see puppies and rainbows a little flaming brings everyone back to reality. It's the bump way.
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    Confused

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    kum bay yah my lord...kum bay yah...*holds anabell's hand*
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  • LCB34LCB34 member
    imageColieJ:
    imagekcrouse06:

    I'm not bashing on anyone in particular, but the past couple of days I have seen A LOT of negativity. It seems like everyone is snippy at each other.

    I know, everyone on here is pregnant, and dealing with hormones they've never dealt with before. It just seems like everyone is dealing with the "snippy hormone" all at once.

    I thought this was supposed to be a happy board, a happy time. We're pregnant, some accidentally, some after a very long IVF process, some after a long process without any IVF dealings, some with other issues. Just try to be happy for one another, and try to keep the snippiness down, because this is a happy time.

    I find that unlikely because some make assumptions about an OP and start posting their sarcastic & judgmental remarks. 

    When people over share they are putting themselves out there to be judged.  Posting about having no money but being pregnant, something controversial, or anything else that suggestions a less than favorable situation is going to lead to judgment.

    There is a poster that has been on the bump for a while and is always judged (she is not on first tri at the time).  She gets all upset, yet she continues to share details of her life that are ridiculous and should not be shared with the interwebs.  It comes with the territory?..

     

     

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  • anabell0920anabell0920 member

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    kum bay yah my lord...kum bay yah...*holds anabell's hand*

    I think this will make you pee your little panties

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  • Pickle123Pickle123 member
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    Sleep All I want is BUMP PEACE!
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  • LCB34LCB34 member
    imageanabell0920:

    imageTXTwisterBabe:
    kum bay yah my lord...kum bay yah...*holds anabell's hand*

    I think this will make you pee your little panties

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    It made me pee mine a bit.....

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  • seanandcallieseanandcallie member
    thanks ana! i mean, i don't pee my pants often enough right now as it is!
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  • murfygirlmurfygirl member
    imageanabell0920:

    imageTXTwisterBabe:
    kum bay yah my lord...kum bay yah...*holds anabell's hand*

    I think this will make you pee your little panties

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    Is it wrong that this makes me want Lucky Charms?!

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  • TXTwisterBabeTXTwisterBabe
    imageanabell0920:

    imageTXTwisterBabe:
    kum bay yah my lord...kum bay yah...*holds anabell's hand*

    I think this will make you pee your little panties

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    hahahaha I'm stealing this for my personal stash.

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  • aegrimmaegrimm member

    Hmm

    imageMyBella:
    This is actually the nicest I've ever seen 1st tri, when I was pregnant last spring the group hanging around chewed everyone into the ground over the smallest thing, it was nothing but negativity. That said, sometimes it's nice to not just see puppies and rainbows a little flaming brings everyone back to reality. It's the bump way.

    Hey! That was us....

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  • anabell0920anabell0920 member
    imagemurfygirl:
    imageanabell0920:

    imageTXTwisterBabe:
    kum bay yah my lord...kum bay yah...*holds anabell's hand*

    I think this will make you pee your little panties

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    Is it wrong that this makes me want Lucky Charms?!

    Just as long as you realize where they come from now!

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  • miaomimiaomi

    First...You are on the wrong msg board if you think this is always a happy place and people are going to only be nice.  It's still the real world, just on the computer.  If you can't handle it in 1st tri, run as fast as you can and don't look back.

    Second...I can't be happy in a happy world.  I haven't crapped for 5 days and when I have a contraction it squeezes said crap and hurts.  So nope, I'm not happy and it's not a happy world.  There are no rainbows or puppies in my world, not today and maybe not tomorrow...

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  • jodyrmjodyrm member
    imageTXTwisterBabe:
    imageanabell0920:

    imageTXTwisterBabe:
    kum bay yah my lord...kum bay yah...*holds anabell's hand*

    I think this will make you pee your little panties

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    hahahaha I'm stealing this for my personal stash.

     

    Hahahahahaha, me too.

    OH my gosh. 

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  • murfygirlmurfygirl member
    imageaegrimm:

    Hmm

    imageMyBella:
    This is actually the nicest I've ever seen 1st tri, when I was pregnant last spring the group hanging around chewed everyone into the ground over the smallest thing, it was nothing but negativity. That said, sometimes it's nice to not just see puppies and rainbows a little flaming brings everyone back to reality. It's the bump way.

    Hey! That was us....

    Weren't we more summer? Either way we were pretty harsh but it only got better!

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  • miaomimiaomi
    You guys are making me want a campfire with all the singing and holding hands.  Can we have smores too?  Please?!  I want to be in a happy place!
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  • Pickle123Pickle123 member

    THis thread is full of win.

     

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  • murfygirlmurfygirl member
    imageanabell0920:
    imagemurfygirl:
    imageanabell0920:

    imageTXTwisterBabe:
    kum bay yah my lord...kum bay yah...*holds anabell's hand*

    I think this will make you pee your little panties

    image

    Is it wrong that this makes me want Lucky Charms?!

    Just as long as you realize where they come from now!

    Who knew unicorn shiit tasted so good?!

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  • aegrimmaegrimm member
    imagemurfygirl:
    imageaegrimm:

    Hmm

    imageMyBella:
    This is actually the nicest I've ever seen 1st tri, when I was pregnant last spring the group hanging around chewed everyone into the ground over the smallest thing, it was nothing but negativity. That said, sometimes it's nice to not just see puppies and rainbows a little flaming brings everyone back to reality. It's the bump way.

    Hey! That was us....

    Weren't we more summer? Either way we were pretty harsh but it only got better!

    Oh yeah....I guess you're right...my BFP was June 1st, I think...

    It got better once we weeded out the weaklings  Wink

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  • BabyFrancisBabyFrancis

    imagemiaomi:
    You guys are making me want a campfire with all the singing and holding hands.  Can we have smores too?  Please?!  I want to be in a happy place!

     

    Well damn now I want lucky charms AND smores!! haha

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  • miaomimiaomi
    imageelisabethpotter:

    imagemiaomi:
    You guys are making me want a campfire with all the singing and holding hands.  Can we have smores too?  Please?!  I want to be in a happy place!

     

    Well damn now I want lucky charms AND smores!! haha

    Yummy!  I just sent DH to get me a bowl of Lucky Charms.  Thank God there are some in the cupboard!!  Otherwise, I might get b*tchy and get yelled at for not being nice.

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  • Hip2BsquareHip2Bsquare

    Puppies and Rainbows make me Ick!

    Have you ever thought of the millions of people on the internet come from a million different backgrounds and situations! Get REAL!!!!  we all have different opinions and beliefs and we will NEVER all get along!

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  • astroMomastroMom member

    well, I've found it *mostly positive...I've heard lots of ladies who avoided their wedding planning on the knot for the same reasons...if you want a more positive vibe, you can go here, but there isn't as much traffic

    https://boards.weddingbee.com/board/babies

    before you post it actually says,

    Vendors are allowed to comment, but please do not blatantly promote your company (or spam). Also, please avoid personal attacks and snarkiness...

    I still plan on staying on the bump, since there seems to be more information here, but it does seem weird that a lot of the negative comments from 1st tri are from people not in first tri

     

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  • pixy_stixpixy_stix member
    Why is it that the newbs think they can tell everyone how the board should be?
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  • aly&jjaly&jj member
    imageastroMom:

     

    I still plan on staying on the bump, since there seems to be more information here, but it does seem weird that a lot of the negative comments from 1st tri are from people not in first tri

     

    I was just thinking this, it is so true

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  • murfygirlmurfygirl member

    imagepixy_stix:
    Why is it that the newbs think they can tell everyone how the board should be?

    Your siggy pic totally gives me dirty thoughts 

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  • kcrouse06kcrouse06 member
    imageastroMom:

    well, I've found it *mostly positive...I've heard lots of ladies who avoided their wedding planning on the knot for the same reasons...if you want a more positive vibe, you can go here, but there isn't as much traffic

    https://boards.weddingbee.com/board/babies

    before you post it actually says,

    Vendors are allowed to comment, but please do not blatantly promote your company (or spam). Also, please avoid personal attacks and snarkiness...

    I still plan on staying on the bump, since there seems to be more information here, but it does seem weird that a lot of the negative comments from 1st tri are from people not in first tri

     

     

    This

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    imagemurfygirl:
    imageaegrimm:

    Hmm

    imageMyBella:
    This is actually the nicest I've ever seen 1st tri, when I was pregnant last spring the group hanging around chewed everyone into the ground over the smallest thing, it was nothing but negativity. That said, sometimes it's nice to not just see puppies and rainbows a little flaming brings everyone back to reality. It's the bump way.

    Hey! That was us....

    Weren't we more summer? Either way we were pretty harsh but it only got better!

    No that would be before your time. Stick out tongue

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  • miaomimiaomi
    imageastroMom:

    I still plan on staying on the bump, since there seems to be more information here, but it does seem weird that a lot of the negative comments from 1st tri are from people not in first tri

     

    Geez, this seems kind of negative...

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