So this has been the worst week of my life. My SO, out of nowhere, decided to tell me that he never wanted this baby and he doesn't love it. I don't understand where this came from because he had shown nothing to indicate these feelings for the past 8 months. I don't know if it is just fear that he is taking the wrong way, or if he truly feels like this. I am heartbroken and feel like I can't trust him anymore. He says he wants to work things out but I am not sure what else there is to do. I've heard that men don't become fathers until they see their baby, but I am not sure if I want to stick around and wait. I am losing my best friend and my world. If you wouldn't mind keeping me in your T&P I would really appreciate it. Also-any advice would be extremely helpful. Thanks so much.
M/C Dec 2010 - 5w5d
Missing my sweet angel baby.
Re: XP T&P, might be on single parents board soon
So this has been the worst week of my life. My SO, out of nowhere, decided to tell me that he never wanted this baby and he doesn't love it. I don't understand where this came from because he had shown nothing to indicate these feelings for the past 8 months. I don't know if it is just fear that he is taking the wrong way, or if he truly feels like this. I am heartbroken and feel like I can't trust him anymore. He says he wants to work things out but I am not sure what else there is to do. I've heard that men don't become fathers until they see their baby, but I am not sure if I want to stick around and wait. I am losing my best friend and my world. If you wouldn't mind keeping me in your T&P I would really appreciate it. Also-any advice would be extremely helpful. Thanks so much.
A 19 year old beebee unprotected sex having a baby long before you are responsible for the child and so on and so forth.
GAH.
Doesn't anyone THINK?
Honeychile, being a father is innate. It has SH!T to do with "seeing a baby" first. he has no responsibility -- you think that's going to NOT have a trickle down effect on everything???
That said, make sure this punk pays child support. He cannot get off on this scot-free.
Thank you to the people who honestly wanted to help.
For anyone else, just because me and my child's father are young means nothing about how we will parent.
M/C Dec 2010 - 5w5d Missing my sweet angel baby.