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jlee1106 · October 2009

I have a whole room full of shroombobmers.

mrsadamc 05 · October 2009

jlee1106:

I have a whole room full of shroombobmers.

Are any of them on their phones?

Maybe she's one of them!

jlee1106 · October 2009

shroombomber:
armandos_girl:
shroombomber:

fredalina:
You may not get pregnant right away, meaning you could be pregnant at your wedding. Which is fine, but maybe not what you envision? Totally your choice, not ours.

I just wanted some advice on what you guys would do.

Um, I think it's been made pretty clear what we would do, but maybe that's not the answer you want?

In that case, OMG! Like, you should totally get KTFU right now! Think of all the cute preggo wedding dresses you could wear!

OMG lyke serious! Wouldn't I be lyke the cutest. Ha-ha ::tosses hair to side::

lyke?

::scratches head::

You know what, I've changed my mind. I think you should wait. A really, really, long time. Lyke maybe forever.

mandalin114 · October 2009

shroombomber:
bancbev:

I also want to point out that my SO and I are NOT married and don't have any plans to get married. Maybe once we get pregnant but not sure. However we are older and have both been married before.

It's a very personal decision for each individual. You will find that almost everyone on this board is married and believes marriage should come before babies.

Must be why everyone is responding the way they do.

or... maybe, just MAYBE we don't know you and we dont give a shiit what you decide to do.

shroombomber · October 2009

leslie13510:
shroombomber:

fredalina:
You may not get pregnant right away, meaning you could be pregnant at your wedding. Which is fine, but maybe not what you envision? Totally your choice, not ours.

I just wanted some advice on what you guys would do.

I think you're missing the point that it doesn't matter what anyone else would do. You're asking about a very personal decision that should be made between two people, and only those two people. Plus we may have totally different morals and values than you, and not agree on what's "right" and "wrong" in life. For me it was very important that kids come after marriage, but you may not feel that way. So it really wouldn't matter what I would do if we don't have the same beliefs. Even if we did share similar beliefs it still wouldn't really matter what I would choose to do, because we are different people, in different lives. Am I making any sense?

Yes I know morals are in play when it comes to each individual. But to me I like getting a bunch of different peoples perspective on how they will go about this. Because maybe you guys will have a point of view that I never would have thought of. You guys have the experience of being pregnant I don't. So I figured who best to ask. It seemed like the best thing for me to do. I was stuck and I seeked (not sure if that's spelled right) help but now I've learned that I guess I'm on my own, like everything else.

jlee1106 · October 2009

sought

preppynewlywed · October 2009

jlee1106:
lyke?

::scratches head::

You know what, I've changed my mind. I think you should wait. A really, really, long time. Lyke maybe forever.

*sigh*

I love you.

weelass24 · October 2009

shroombomber:

Yes I know morals are in play when it comes to each individual. But to me I like getting a bunch of different peoples perspective on how they will go about this. Because maybe you guys will have a point of view that I never would have thought of. You guys have the experience of being pregnant I don't. So I figured who best to ask. It seemed like the best thing for me to do. I was stuck and I seeked (not sure if that's spelled right) help but now I've learned that I guess I'm on my own, like everything else.

Clearly my response, though solicited, was not welcome.

Also, I have found that the best thing to do generally does not include strangers opinions.

shroombomber · October 2009

jlee1106:
shroombomber:
armandos_girl:
shroombomber:

fredalina:
You may not get pregnant right away, meaning you could be pregnant at your wedding. Which is fine, but maybe not what you envision? Totally your choice, not ours.

I just wanted some advice on what you guys would do.

Um, I think it's been made pretty clear what we would do, but maybe that's not the answer you want?

In that case, OMG! Like, you should totally get KTFU right now! Think of all the cute preggo wedding dresses you could wear!

OMG lyke serious! Wouldn't I be lyke the cutest. Ha-ha ::tosses hair to side::

lyke?

::scratches head::

You know what, I've changed my mind. I think you should wait. A really, really, long time. Lyke maybe forever.

I don't say "lyke" I was mocking their slang. I don't use abbreviated words no lol, no omg, no brb. No: um's, like's, or you know's here. I write the way I speak.

shroombomber · October 2009

weelass24:
shroombomber:

Yes I know morals are in play when it comes to each individual. But to me I like getting a bunch of different peoples perspective on how they will go about this. Because maybe you guys will have a point of view that I never would have thought of. You guys have the experience of being pregnant I don't. So I figured who best to ask. It seemed like the best thing for me to do. I was stuck and I seeked (not sure if that's spelled right) help but now I've learned that I guess I'm on my own, like everything else.

Clearly my response, though solicited, was not welcome.

Also, I have found that the best thing to do generally does not include strangers opinions.

Yes but there isn't many I can go to for advice.

idavis · October 2009

The only person you should be going to for the advice you are seeking is your FIANCE. We can not decide this life altering decision for you. Only the two of you can decide if you should have a baby now, or after you are married.

buckin · October 2009

"For every season there is a turn." No, you do not have to be married to have a baby and to each his own. However, if you are planning a wedding, my opinion is that you devote your energy and life to that endeavor. You take that step and put your heart into it. Into loving and experiencing the wonder of sharing this step with your loved ones. Of committing yourself to your partner and enjoying each and every moment. When that season is done, you can put all of your joy and plans into the next season, making a baby. To each endeavor comes its own plans, joys, experiences. To savor each and every one and get the most from them all, take them individually. You will be a much more rounded person for the experiences.

GL

leslie13510 · October 2009

Ok fine, you want my honest advice? Wait.

If you have to ask other people if you should have a baby now, then you are not ready for a baby now. Pure and simple, end of story. You are not ready.

jlee1106 · October 2009

shroombomber:
jlee1106:
shroombomber:
armandos_girl:
shroombomber:

fredalina:
You may not get pregnant right away, meaning you could be pregnant at your wedding. Which is fine, but maybe not what you envision? Totally your choice, not ours.

I just wanted some advice on what you guys would do.

Um, I think it's been made pretty clear what we would do, but maybe that's not the answer you want?

In that case, OMG! Like, you should totally get KTFU right now! Think of all the cute preggo wedding dresses you could wear!

OMG lyke serious! Wouldn't I be lyke the cutest. Ha-ha ::tosses hair to side::

lyke?

::scratches head::

You know what, I've changed my mind. I think you should wait. A really, really, long time. Lyke maybe forever.

I don't say "lyke" I was mocking their slang. I don't use abbreviated words no lol, no omg, no brb. No: um's, like's, or you know's here. I write the way I speak.

Well that's a shame, because "seeked" is not a word.

johannaknip · October 2009

shroombomber:
leslie13510:
shroombomber:

fredalina:
You may not get pregnant right away, meaning you could be pregnant at your wedding. Which is fine, but maybe not what you envision? Totally your choice, not ours.

I just wanted some advice on what you guys would do.

Yes I know morals are in play when it comes to each individual. But to me I like getting a bunch of different peoples perspective on how they will go about this. Because maybe you guys will have a point of view that I never would have thought of. You guys have the experience of being pregnant I don't. So I figured who best to ask. It seemed like the best thing for me to do. I was stuck and I seeked (not sure if that's spelled right) help but now I've learned that I guess I'm on my own, like everything else.

No sweets, we all do not.

shroombomber · October 2009

leslie13510:
Ok fine, you want my honest advice? Wait.

If you have to ask other people if you should have a baby now, then you are not ready for a baby now. Pure and simple, end of story. You are not ready.

I wasn't asking if I should have a baby now. I was asking what you guys would do. As it wait for marriage or go for it. Simple as that. I didn't need the whole:

"Your worthless, and stupid. Maybe you should go crawl in a hole and die."

shroombomber · October 2009

johannaknip:
shroombomber:
leslie13510:
shroombomber:

fredalina:
You may not get pregnant right away, meaning you could be pregnant at your wedding. Which is fine, but maybe not what you envision? Totally your choice, not ours.

I just wanted some advice on what you guys would do.

But there are those who do.

Yes I know morals are in play when it comes to each individual. But to me I like getting a bunch of different peoples perspective on how they will go about this. Because maybe you guys will have a point of view that I never would have thought of. You guys have the experience of being pregnant I don't. So I figured who best to ask. It seemed like the best thing for me to do. I was stuck and I seeked (not sure if that's spelled right) help but now I've learned that I guess I'm on my own, like everything else.

No sweets, we all do not.

hopeful:) · October 2009

Shroombomber, did you not read my question? Is your SN a drug reference or not?

leslie13510 · October 2009

shroombomber:
leslie13510:

Ok fine, you want my honest advice? Wait.

If you have to ask other people if you should have a baby now, then you are not ready for a baby now. Pure and simple, end of story. You are not ready.

I wasn't asking if I should have a baby now. I was asking what you guys would do. As it wait for marriage or go for it. Simple as that. I didn't need the whole:

"Your worthless, and stupid. Maybe you should go crawl in a hole and die."

WhoTF said this? The fact that you think anyone meant this tells me that you have other issues you need to work out before having a kid.

And you were asking what we would do because you're unsure of what to do, and need outside advice to make a decision. Am I wrong about that? If you are relying on outside advice to decide whether or not to have a baby, then now is not the time. I stand by my advice to wait.

shroombomber · October 2009

jlee1106:
shroombomber:
jlee1106:
shroombomber:
armandos_girl:
shroombomber:

fredalina:
You may not get pregnant right away, meaning you could be pregnant at your wedding. Which is fine, but maybe not what you envision? Totally your choice, not ours.

I just wanted some advice on what you guys would do.

Um, I think it's been made pretty clear what we would do, but maybe that's not the answer you want?

In that case, OMG! Like, you should totally get KTFU right now! Think of all the cute preggo wedding dresses you could wear!

OMG lyke serious! Wouldn't I be lyke the cutest. Ha-ha ::tosses hair to side::

lyke?

::scratches head::

You know what, I've changed my mind. I think you should wait. A really, really, long time. Lyke maybe forever.

I don't say "lyke" I was mocking their slang. I don't use abbreviated words no lol, no omg, no brb. No: um's, like's, or you know's here. I write the way I speak.

Well that's a shame, because "seeked" is not a word.

seek

?verb (used with object)

1.	to go in search or quest of: to seek the truth.

2.	to try to find or discover by searching or questioning: to seek the solution to a problem.

3.	to try to obtain: to seek fame.

4.	to try or attempt (usually fol. by an infinitive): to seek to convince a person.

5.	to go to: to seek a place to rest.

6.	to ask for; request: to seek advice.

[dictionary.com]

It is a word, only thing I couldn't think of how to put it in past tense at the moment. But excuse me what I should have said was, "I just wanted to seek advice" or "I came here seeking advice." I apologize, I was in the middle of sorting an invoice when I was in mid thought.

shroombomber · October 2009

hopeful:):
Shroombomber, did you not read my question? Is your SN a drug reference or not?

Nope its the name that my ex co-workers dubbed my car. And everyone recognizes me as the lady with mushrooms on her car. So it stuck.

shroombomber · October 2009

leslie13510:
shroombomber:
leslie13510:

Ok fine, you want my honest advice? Wait.

If you have to ask other people if you should have a baby now, then you are not ready for a baby now. Pure and simple, end of story. You are not ready.

I wasn't asking if I should have a baby now. I was asking what you guys would do. As it wait for marriage or go for it. Simple as that. I didn't need the whole:

"Your worthless, and stupid. Maybe you should go crawl in a hole and die."

WhoTF said this? The fact that you think anyone meant this tells me that you have other issues you need to work out before having a kid.

And you were asking what we would do because you're unsure of what to do, and need outside advice to make a decision. Am I wrong about that? If you are relying on outside advice to decide whether or not to have a baby, then now is not the time. I stand by my advice to wait.

Shall we go to the poll? And I accept your advice. Thank you.

Jessis62781 · October 2009

Damnit, I go to lunch and miss the quotes getting all skinny AND being called a biitch. Figures.

jlee1106 · October 2009

shroombomber:
jlee1106:
shroombomber:
jlee1106:
shroombomber:
armandos_girl:
shroombomber:

fredalina:
You may not get pregnant right away, meaning you could be pregnant at your wedding. Which is fine, but maybe not what you envision? Totally your choice, not ours.

I just wanted some advice on what you guys would do.

Um, I think it's been made pretty clear what we would do, but maybe that's not the answer you want?

In that case, OMG! Like, you should totally get KTFU right now! Think of all the cute preggo wedding dresses you could wear!

OMG lyke serious! Wouldn't I be lyke the cutest. Ha-ha ::tosses hair to side::

lyke?

::scratches head::

You know what, I've changed my mind. I think you should wait. A really, really, long time. Lyke maybe forever.

I don't say "lyke" I was mocking their slang. I don't use abbreviated words no lol, no omg, no brb. No: um's, like's, or you know's here. I write the way I speak.

Well that's a shame, because "seeked" is not a word.

seek

?verb (used with object)

1. to go in search or quest of: to seek the truth.
2. to try to find or discover by searching or questioning: to seek the solution to a problem.
3. to try to obtain: to seek fame.
4. to try or attempt (usually fol. by an infinitive): to seek to convince a person.
5. to go to: to seek a place to rest.
6. to ask for; request: to seek advice.
[dictionary.com]

It is a word, only thing I couldn't think of how to put it in past tense at the moment. But excuse me what I should have said was, "I just wanted to seek advice" or "I came here seeking advice." I apologize, I was in the middle of sorting an invoice when I was in mid thought.

Seek is the word. Sought is the past tense. You're welcome. You're. As in you are.

Oh, and Jess? You're a biitch. YWIA. XOXO.

Jessis62781 · October 2009

jlee - thank you Capt. Obvious.

shroombomber · October 2009

Jessis62781:
Damnit, I go to lunch and miss the quotes getting all skinny AND being called a biitch. Figures.

Don't you just hate those moments?

shroombomber · October 2009

jlee1106:
shroombomber:
jlee1106:
shroombomber:
jlee1106:
shroombomber:
armandos_girl:
shroombomber:

fredalina:
You may not get pregnant right away, meaning you could be pregnant at your wedding. Which is fine, but maybe not what you envision? Totally your choice, not ours.

I just wanted some advice on what you guys would do.

Um, I think it's been made pretty clear what we would do, but maybe that's not the answer you want?

In that case, OMG! Like, you should totally get KTFU right now! Think of all the cute preggo wedding dresses you could wear!

OMG lyke serious! Wouldn't I be lyke the cutest. Ha-ha ::tosses hair to side::

lyke?

::scratches head::

You know what, I've changed my mind. I think you should wait. A really, really, long time. Lyke maybe forever.

I don't say "lyke" I was mocking their slang. I don't use abbreviated words no lol, no omg, no brb. No: um's, like's, or you know's here. I write the way I speak.

Well that's a shame, because "seeked" is not a word.

seek

?verb (used with object)

1. to go in search or quest of: to seek the truth.
2. to try to find or discover by searching or questioning: to seek the solution to a problem.
3. to try to obtain: to seek fame.
4. to try or attempt (usually fol. by an infinitive): to seek to convince a person.
5. to go to: to seek a place to rest.
6. to ask for; request: to seek advice.
[dictionary.com]

It is a word, only thing I couldn't think of how to put it in past tense at the moment. But excuse me what I should have said was, "I just wanted to seek advice" or "I came here seeking advice." I apologize, I was in the middle of sorting an invoice when I was in mid thought.

Seek is the word. Sought is the past tense. You're welcome. You're. As in you are.

Oh, and Jess? You're a biitch. YWIA. XOXO.

I'm aware of the you're sometimes my fingers fly faster then what I'm saying.

Jessis62781 · October 2009

shroombomber:

Jessis62781:
Damnit, I go to lunch and miss the quotes getting all skinny AND being called a biitch. Figures.

Don't you just hate those moments?

Hate is such a strong word. I prefer consciously indifferent. Like I am to you.

shroombomber · October 2009

Jessis62781:
shroombomber:

Jessis62781:
Damnit, I go to lunch and miss the quotes getting all skinny AND being called a biitch. Figures.

Don't you just hate those moments?

Hate is such a strong word. I prefer consciously indifferent. Like I am to you.

And that just made my day. Smile

weelass24 · October 2009

shroombomber:

leslie13510:
shroombomber:
leslie13510:

Ok fine, you want my honest advice? Wait.

If you have to ask other people if you should have a baby now, then you are not ready for a baby now. Pure and simple, end of story. You are not ready.

I wasn't asking if I should have a baby now. I was asking what you guys would do. As it wait for marriage or go for it. Simple as that. I didn't need the whole:

"Your worthless, and stupid. Maybe you should go crawl in a hole and die."

WhoTF said this? The fact that you think anyone meant this tells me that you have other issues you need to work out before having a kid.

And you were asking what we would do because you're unsure of what to do, and need outside advice to make a decision. Am I wrong about that? If you are relying on outside advice to decide whether or not to have a baby, then now is not the time. I stand by my advice to wait.

Shall we go to the poll? And I accept your advice. Thank you.

WTF does that mean?

hopeful:) · October 2009

weelass24:
shroombomber:
Shall we go to the poll?

WTF does that mean?

I was just wondering the same thing. I think we should do a poll.

lo45fd98wq32 · October 2009

I am frustrated by the constant quoting. Can you be a douche without them, please?

palomaLuna · October 2009

I can't believe this post is still here. That is all.

jlee1106 · October 2009

I'm over this post. Let's make it something else.

Hmmmm.....

Jelly. Grape? Or Strawberry?

Ice Cream. Vanilla? or chocolate?

Coke or pepsi?

caffinated_tulip · October 2009

jlee1106:
I'm over this post. Let's make it something else.

Hmmmm.....

Jelly. Grape? Or Strawberry?

Ice Cream. Vanilla? or chocolate?

Coke or pepsi?

Strawberry

Choclate

Coke

Love you

jlee1106 · October 2009

caffinated_tulip:
jlee1106:

I'm over this post. Let's make it something else.

Hmmmm.....

Jelly. Grape? Or Strawberry?

Ice Cream. Vanilla? or chocolate?

Coke or pepsi?

I'm grape, chocolate, coke.

Strawberry

Choclate

Coke

Love you

mrsadamc 05 · October 2009

jlee1106:

Jelly. Grape? Or Strawberry?

Ice Cream. Vanilla? or chocolate?

Coke or pepsi?

Strawberry

Vanilla

Coke

(and I think that would make a lovely new flavor of coke!)

preppynewlywed · October 2009

My GBCN call was way off.

jlee1106 · October 2009

preppynewlywed:
My GBCN call was way off.

Yeah, There is much too AW to GBCN.

LaylaKon · October 2009

jlee1106:
preppynewlywed:
My GBCN call was way off.
Yeah, There is much too AW to GBCN.

What does AW and GBCN mean?

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