I've read the Baby Bargains book, which advises against a travel system (infant car seat + regular size stroller) because the strollers are typically heavy & difficult to fold up.
I have no idea what to register for though. We've looked at seats, strollers & systems @ BRU & Target, and I can't decide which one might be better than the next.
Any advice???
Re: Stroller confusion
I've used the Graco metrolite as part of a travel system many many times and I've never had a problem with it. I never found it heavy or difficult to fold/unfold. Also, it offers storage space for all the stuff you need with a baby. I'm also a tiny person (5' tall, very petite)
You could also try this. I'm sure they make it for many different brands of car seats.
https://www.toysrus.com/product/index.jsp?productId=2266236
GL!
My Peg Perego Aria stroller is a whopping 8 lbs. Not exactly heavy or difficult to fold up. My advice is to go to BRU and actually try out the strollers--don't just look at them, make the salesperson open/close them, etc. If you are at the mall, walking around town, etc. and see someone with a stroller you like, ask them about it...they'll probably be honest.
There is always the Snap N Go, but the advantage of a system is that the parts "go" together. There is always the chance with the SNG that your carseat won't exactly fit right, or you'll need a strap to keep it on, etc. If you are the type of person who likes things to work right every single time (like I am) then a system might just be the right thing for you.