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Success after IF
1st OB appt today :(
We lost one of the babies.
I always said I would be happy if we could get one healthy baby out of this, but I'm still devastated.
I know there are others who've had a "vanishing twin" and they have gone on to have healthy babies. After 5 losses, I just don't know how to remain hopeful that the other baby will continue to grow & thrive. I thought this appt. would somewhat put my mind at ease but now I'm more scared than ever.
On a positive note, we did get a quick peek at the other baby and even saw him/her moving. Grow baby grow!
Thanks for listening.
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Re: 1st OB appt today :(
I'm so sorry
I'm so, so sorry for your loss. (((HUG)))
I can't even imagine how you are feeling.
Praying your baby continues to grow and grow.
Worrying does not empty tomorrow of its troubles, It empties today of its strength. ~Corrie ten Boom
Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow. ~Mary Anne Radmacher (thank you beadinglady)
It's been a long journey. TTC since 9/06. multiple IUI's and IVF's and 4 m/c's. IVF#3 = BFP, twins, induced at 34w6d due to baby b passing away (no explanation). Delivered on 35w1d, Baby A - baby girl, and Baby B - baby boy, our little angel.
MTHFR A1298C & C677T, Immune Issues and Factor II
TTC since 2007
6 IUIs, 3 IVFs, and 2 m/c :< PCOS, Blood Clotting Disorder & MFI
IVF #2 Aug 2011 is a BFN:<
IVF #3 March 2012 is a BFN
Not sure what to do now. Sad and lost.
After 2 rounds of IVF & 2 rounds of FET, we were blessed with identical twin girls!
Oh, honey...
I am so sorry; you must be devastated.
Praying that your little bean remains happy and healthy in there.
Hugs.
I am so sorry to hear about your loss.
I will be praying that your fighter continues to fight!
IVF#1: start stims 1/26; ER 2/8; ET 2/13= BFN; FET#1: May 2010= m/c *NEW CLINIC Jan 2011* IVF#2: start stims 1/12; ER 1/22; ET 1/27= BFN; IVF#3: TBD
~SAIFW/PAIFW~
i'm sorry. we lost a twin during the pregnancy that got us DD and it's still sad.
((((hugs))))
let us know if you need anything.
Because we're fancy like that.
So sorry.
((hugs))
Married 8.13.2005, M/C 12/8/06- 5 weeks, M/C 2/27/07- 7 weeks, M/C w/ D&C 8/10/09-6.5 weeks *Charles Lawrence born 5/2/08 @ 3:14am, 7lb 8oz, 20.5 inches. Clomid, Crinone and baby aspirin. *Alexandra Claire born 9/14/10 @ 9:52am 6lb 14oz, 20.5 inches. Femara, Crinone and baby aspirin.
(((HUGS)))
I am so sorry.
Oh no honey, I am so so sorry for your loss. ?I hope the other baby keeps growing strong
((Hugs))
I'm so sorry
Sending you lots of hugs and good wishes for a healthy baby.......
OMG - I am so sorry!
I just know this has to be devastating. I am praying that your one strong baby will thrive for the rest of your pregnancy. I can only imagine your disappointment and sadness. I was really sad when one of our embryos didn't stick, so I am sure this has really been crushing.
Again, I am just so sorry. I will just continue praying for your success in these next 7-8 months.
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Our successful cycle was IVF #2: Microdose Lupron Flare Protocol - 2 beautiful blasts transferred.
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I'm so sorry. it happens quite a bit, so I think your other baby will be very strong. It still hurts, so I'm sorry...jus ttrying to make you feel better.
Your other baby is thriving!