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ladychicago
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this IVF isn't going to end with a happy story, ladies...
ladychicago
member
in Infertility
saw one, lonely, sad little line today...
with our beta less than 48 hours away, we don't have much hope left.
Brought to you by IVF, ICSI, limited fert, and oocyte cryopreservation.
Because we're fancy like that.
Because we're fancy like that.
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Re: this IVF isn't going to end with a happy story, ladies...
Oh LC, big hugs to you. I am so, so sorry about your test this morning.
But, I am going to hold out some hope for your beta.
(((HUGS)))
Married and it feels so good!
DH: dx azoo 8/3/09 found out DH has CBAVD due to Cystic Fibrosis on 8/18/09
IVF#1 w/ICSI: start stims 9/4/09, ER/MESA 9/15/09, ET 9/20/09 Transferred 2 GREAT Blasts!
Baby Boy was born on 5/14/10 at 36w 3d
(induced due to IUGR, 4 lbs 15 oz but perfectly developed and healthy)
FET#1: start Lupron 9/25/11, FET 10/20/11
Transferred two 6 day hatching Blasts!
Beta #1 on 11/3/11 BFN
FET#2: start Lupron 11/20/11, FET 12/15/11
oh hon I am so so so sorry! I have been thinking about you all morning and got really worried when I didn't see a post from you yet. I am going to hope and pray that you get different news on Monday.
Ughhh this just sucks and words can't even describe how sad I am for you!
Take care of yourself today.
I'm holding out hope anyway - can't help it
until you get beta # I'm praying hard
Worrying does not empty tomorrow of its troubles, It empties today of its strength. ~Corrie ten Boom
Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow. ~Mary Anne Radmacher (thank you beadinglady)
It's been a long journey. TTC since 9/06. multiple IUI's and IVF's and 4 m/c's. IVF#3 = BFP, twins, induced at 34w6d due to baby b passing away (no explanation). Delivered on 35w1d, Baby A - baby girl, and Baby B - baby boy, our little angel.
MTHFR A1298C & C677T, Immune Issues and Factor II
I am SO sorry. I did want to let you know that on IVF #1 we saw one little lonely line too. This was at 7dp5dt. Then, I had a positive beta the next morning. That IVF did end in a m/c, but it had nothing to do with my negative POAS. I never POAS'd after that for this reason. To be honest, I still haven't POAS'd this pregnancy because I am afraid of those sticks! I know it's almost impossible, but keep some hope if you can and I will cross everything for your miracle!
8/08 BFP resulted in m/c
3/09 Polyp removed and dx MTHFR (both copies)
6 Clomid cycles, all BFN
5/09 IUI#1 with Clomid=BFN
6/09 IUI#2 with Clomid=BFN
8/09 IUI#3 with Clomid=BFN
IVF#1 = BFN
IVF#2 = BFN
IVF#3 ET 2 Grade A blasts 11/16/11
Beta #1: 485
Beta #2: 2,495
Oh honey, I am so very sorry. I'm sending you ((hugs)). BFN's suck so bad.
(((Hugs))) I'm still holding out hope for you.
Sending wishes for a surprise. ((Hugs)).
Oh LC...you KNOW I wasn't hoping to read this from you! Damn.
But hopefully it was just too early or something and you'll get GREAT news on Monday! I know you said you are losing hope but I'm going to keep hoping and praying for you!!
TI, IUIs, IVF = c/ps and BFNs
TTC Since Dec 2006
*IVF #1 cancelled at ET*
*IVF #2 OHSS, transfer cancelled*
*FET #1 2 frosties, c/p*
*Lap April 2010, removed endometrioma/endo implants*
*Surprise BFP June 2010*
*Beautiful daughter born 2/14/11!!*
Thoughts from an Overwrought Mind
SAIFW
Became licensed for Foster Care: March 2011
Adoption Finalized: December 2013
LISTEN TO THE MUSN'TS CHILD, LISTEN TO THE DON'TS.
LISTEN TO THE SHOULDN'TS, THE IMPOSSIBLES, THE WONT'S.
LISTEN TO THE NEVER HAVES, THEN LISTEN CLOSE TO ME.
ANYTHING CAN HAPPEN, CHILD, ANYTHING CAN BE.
-Shel Silverstein
big (((hugs)))
I'm still holding onto hope for you...
TTC since 2008 dx PCOS & MFI
Clomid/Femara no "O"
IVF #1 BFN
FET #1 cancelled for biopsy
FET #1.2 c/p, July 2012 c/p
IUI #1 & 1.2 canceled
IVF #2 ER 12/1, Freeze all due to OHSS
FET #2.1 cancelled due to DVT risk, FET #2.2 Jan 2013
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Don't say that yet!
Here's a story that will hopefully give you hope!
Two days before my beta, I got a BFN on HPT (I tested on Saturday). I was convinced the IVF was going to end with a sad story, just like you. Just one, lonely, sad line.
Two days later, on Monday, I went in for my beta. Left dejected, cried my eyes out.
They called 4 hours later. It was a positive.
I'm holding out hope for you yet, ladychicago.
TTC #1 since 2007. Dx: Unexplained infertility. 4 IUIs in 2008 = BFN. IVF #1 07/09. DD #1 born April 2010 (40w5d).
TTC #2 since 2011. Dx: Endometriosis and hypothyroidism. 2 FETs in 2012, BFP 6/12 but m/c @ 7 weeks. IVF #2 06/13. DD #2 born March 2014 (40w1d).