TTC After a Loss

So, no more TTC for me.

AF is on her merry way.  My doctor won't give me more Clomid which means I won't be ovulating.  So he wants us to "take a break".  I am not sure how long that is going to be.  Could be till the first of the year... could be a year from now.  I have no clue.  I am going to meet with him next week.  DH and I agreed to try on our own until I turn 30 (about a year and a half from now) and then if I am not KU naturally, we are going go try IVF.  That will give us some time to save up $$ and I need to loose some weight.  In the mean time, I still plan on hanging around here.  I won't be charting or any of that.  We won't be actively TTC, but we won't be TTA either.  Whatever happens, happens.

So in an effort to make myself feel better I decided to book a trip to somewhere I have never been before and some place I could really cut loose (sorry Katie, we'll go to Mexico next year).  We are going to VEGAS next week!  Got a GREAT deal ... 2 people, 2 nights at the MGM Grand with airfare for $600.  Can't beat that!  Who wants to come with us?!?!

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Re: So, no more TTC for me.

  • I'm sorry! I hope he doesn't make you wait very long. On the other hand, The MGM is awesome and you'll have a blast in Vegas! Are you going to go to any shows?
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  • imageCan't Wait To Be A Mama:
    I'm sorry! I hope he doesn't make you wait very long. On the other hand, The MGM is awesome and you'll have a blast in Vegas! Are you going to go to any shows?

    Thanks. :)

    I want to go to some shows, but I am not sure which ones to go to.  Can you recommend any good ones?

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  • Im really sorry dear Sad  I hope your doctor gives you better answers then you are expecting.  I think Vegas is a great idea, Im jealous- that is quite the deal!
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  • You know what they say... When you stop searching or in this case stop trying, it will always find you!!! Hoping you'll get a BFP on your own!!!

    Have fun in Vegas!!!!  Stay away from the side streets... hookers I hear are everywhere! They will even hand out pamplets with their number on them or they will ask if you wana be in a porn!!! HAHA

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    You know what they say... When you stop searching or in this case stop trying, it will always find you!!! Hoping you'll get a BFP on your own!!!

    Have fun in Vegas!!!!  Stay away from the side streets... hookers I hear are everywhere! They will even hand out pamplets with their number on them or they will ask if you wana be in a porn!!! HAHA

    Who says I wouldn't want to be in a porn? Wink

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  • Oh man, sorry about the forced break. Maybe you could talk to him about going on an alternative ovulation drug like Femara? I did that after several Clomid cycles.

    Have fun in Vegas! I think Phantom is there right now, and I know Lion King is playing at Mandalay Bay and is supposed to be fabulous.

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    imagetravers081906:

    You know what they say... When you stop searching or in this case stop trying, it will always find you!!! Hoping you'll get a BFP on your own!!!

    Have fun in Vegas!!!!  Stay away from the side streets... hookers I hear are everywhere! They will even hand out pamplets with their number on them or they will ask if you wana be in a porn!!! HAHA

    Who says I wouldn't want to be in a porn? Wink

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    I'd watch your 'movie'

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  • imageKelinandKevin:
    imagetravers081906:

    You know what they say... When you stop searching or in this case stop trying, it will always find you!!! Hoping you'll get a BFP on your own!!!

    Have fun in Vegas!!!!  Stay away from the side streets... hookers I hear are everywhere! They will even hand out pamplets with their number on them or they will ask if you wana be in a porn!!! HAHA

    Who says I wouldn't want to be in a porn? Wink

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    It sure would help out in saving up for IVF.  BTW, I have done the 30 Day Shred DVD and I've lost 10 lbs in 2 weeks.  I like it because it increases intensity, it's a complete workout, and you really earn it.  And it works fast.  GL!

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    imageKelinandKevin:
    imagetravers081906:

    You know what they say... When you stop searching or in this case stop trying, it will always find you!!! Hoping you'll get a BFP on your own!!!

    Have fun in Vegas!!!!  Stay away from the side streets... hookers I hear are everywhere! They will even hand out pamplets with their number on them or they will ask if you wana be in a porn!!! HAHA

    Who says I wouldn't want to be in a porn? Wink

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    It sure would help out in saving up for IVF.  BTW, I have done the 30 Day Shred DVD and I've lost 10 lbs in 2 weeks.  I like it because it increases intensity, it's a complete workout, and you really earn it.  And it works fast.  GL!

    hahahhahaha.... well i tried it once, once... Not my forte anymore. But if you'd like... go for it!!!!!!!!!Wink
  • I'm so sorry, Kelin.  AF is a brat.  I hope that you enjoy your trip to Vegas... you deserve it.
  • I'm really sorry.  Hopefully things will work on their own and you get some answers from your doctor.  A trip sounds like a fantastic idea.  Enjoy.
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  • I'm sorry for the forced break.  Though who knows, maybe you'll get one of those surprised BFPs!  Love the Vegas idea.

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  • I am sorry that you have to wait
    Maybe you will get lucky in vegas & win enough money to pay for IVF
    Crazier things have happened

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  • I'm sorry, Kelin.  I really hope it happens naturally for you, but I know it's hard to hang hope on that right now.  I'm glad you guys are treating yourself to Vegas; it will be a fun vacation and hopefully will take your mind off things for a little bit.  
  • Boo on the break, but VEGAS is so much fun... cut loose & drinks lots of free booze for me!! =o)

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  • I am soo sorry! It truely is not fair and I wish you the best of luck in the future. Have an awesome trip.
  • I hope your doc doesn't put you on too long of a break.  Enjoy Vegas, it sounds like you got a great deal!
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  • boo, dammit.  i'm sorry girl.  that really sucks!  wtf??  this whole process sucks donkey balls.  i do hope that you have a good time in vegas.  i went for the first time in April this year and we had a lot of fun.  
  • I am so very sorry!  Have fun in Vegas!

  • Oh...sorry to hear that you guys have to take a break.  Vegas sounds great...hope you and your DH have a great time.
     
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  • Kelin ~ so flat out F'in frustrating!!  I am sorry to hear this.  You are such an amazing, humor filled girl who offers others so much support ~ you deserve the best.  It will find you ~  in time.

    Vegas, baby!  Now that's lemonade out of lemons!!!

  • I'm sorry - not fun. This is what has scared me from starting my meds (Femara for me) - my doc will only give it for 3 months - then you're done. ugh.

    a break is a good thing though, and maybe with all of the decrease in stress over thinking of all of this, charting, etc. - and your efforts to get healthier (kudos to you!) your body will regulate a little and who knows what will happen.

    visit us if you get a chance - what will we do without you?

    re: Vegas -- nice! last time I was there saw a version of Cirque du Soleil which was pretty awesome.

     

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  • I'm sorry you have to wait, but good luck in the next year and a half!  Vegas sounds awesome, have a great time!
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  • I am so sorry, Kelin. It's just not fair. Please hang around and keep in touch. The board wouldn't be the same without you!

    Vegas sounds great...sign me up!

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  • That effin sucks--I'm so sorry :(

    I hope that you guys have a wonderful time in Vegas, it is a much deserved and much needed getaway!  I hope you are not on break for too long...but hopefully since you will be doing the opposite of TTC, you will get KTFU, because ya know, that's the way this stupid effed up shiz goes. **HUGS**

  • I'm sorry.  I hope you get a suprise BFP soon!

    Have fun in Vegas...it is quite the interesting city!!!

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  • That sucks, sorry. Maybe it will happen on your own, who knows? Enjoy your vacation, you deserve it!
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