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Today was supposed to be...

TheNewFryTheNewFry member
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my first ultrasound.   Sad

I am doing fairly well, but still sad and thinking about what would have been. 

Also, it doesn't help that while I'm going to the lab to get my blood taken to watch the numbers go down, my BFF is going to watch her numbers go up... she got a BFP on Friday.  I am happy for her (she has been trying for almost 2 years) - but also so sad that we aren't going to be going though our first pregnancies together. 

Ok, that's all - just wanted to vent a little bit. 

 

BFP July 09 - m/c Aug 09
BFP Nov 09 - c/p Dec 09
BFP Dec 09 - A&J born in August 2010 at 37w, 6d
BFP Sept 11 - ectopic pregnancy/left tube removed
BFP April 12 - E born December 2012 at 39w, 1d

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Re: Today was supposed to be...

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    I am sorry for your loss. I just wanted to let you know I am going through the same thing. Tomorrow at 10:00 a.m. would have been our first ultrasound.  I had a D&C last Wednesday. Like you, I can't keep thinking about what could have been.

     

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  • stbc42107stbc42107 member
    the first time I def was going able to hear my baby's heartbeat. It was all I could think about today, so I def know how you feel. Sending hugs your way.
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  • TheNewFryTheNewFry member

    So sorry for your losses too... This sucks. 

    I have been on the verge of tears all day - but was at work.  Now at home, I need to just let it out and I'm sure I'll feel better. 

    BFP July 09 - m/c Aug 09
    BFP Nov 09 - c/p Dec 09
    BFP Dec 09 - A&J born in August 2010 at 37w, 6d
    BFP Sept 11 - ectopic pregnancy/left tube removed
    BFP April 12 - E born December 2012 at 39w, 1d

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  • shall923shall923 member
    Sorry for your loss.  Last Monday was supposed to be my first u/s but instead got a call from doctor saying my numbers had gone down and that was good because I wouldn't need to come back in.  Funny did seem good to me.
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  • vkbaby09vkbaby09

    I'm so sorry for your loss.  The reminders of where I should be or what I should be doing are really hard. 

    My BFF is also due within the month and only about a month before me.  It's sad that we can't have kids the same age anymore and experience the full range of being pg together.  I've found that the more I talk to her about how hard it is both in general and that she's pg now while I would give anything to still be, the easier it is for me to be around her.  She has been wonderful about it all.  I hope your BFF is the same way and you're able to be around her and not get too sad. 

    ((((((((big hugs)))))))))) 

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