3rd Trimester

Those that are quitting work...are you sad?

My bosses gave me a going away gift- a blanket for the baby and a wal-mart gc for 100.00 and I almost cried. I couldn't believe they were so generous especially because it's a non-profit daycare and nobody makes much money there.

I have till NEXT thursday and that is my last day (and I'll try to be a SAHM if we can afford it). On one hand I am sooo looking forward to quitting. I hope to have at least a week before baby comes to get stuff done and relax a little. And I can't wait to stay home with the baby. BUt on the other hand I am so sad to leave. I have gotten really attached to some of the kids there. One of them, a little girl, i would seriously adopt. I know I'll have my own baby soon and love him a million times more but the thought of never seeing these babies & kids again is so sad! And I think the worst thing is that I care about some of them so much and yet they're so young that I know they'll never remember me. It's like you are such a big part of their lives and then it's all over :(

Who else is quitting work to stay at home and how are you feeling about it?? 

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Re: Those that are quitting work...are you sad?

  • I'm taking a leave of absence and I can't run away fast enough!  I'll be back to my job...eventually, though.
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  • I wish I could quit and be a SAHM. 
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  • oh my gosh, i wish i could quit work. i have been having such a hard time lately because i won't have as much time off with audrey as i want to have. i at least want to take the first year (or even the first 6 months) off from working, but unfortunately student and car loans prevent that from happening.
  • "Take this job and shove it" doesn't begin to explain how happy I am to be out of that place!  
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    I wish (x 100000....) that I was quitting when I go on leave....hopefully they will let me come back on a part time basis but we'll have to wait a little longer to figure that out.
  • I quit a few weeks ago, and I miss some of my coworker friends, but I don't miss work itself AT ALL!!! :)

     

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  • I am counting the weeks until my maternity leave starts and I can't wait to cut work loose!! But I am in a really bad situation at a really nefarious company. i am not officially quitting, but hoping to get laid off when I return so I can file for unemployment and extend my maternity leave. (my company is shipping jobs overseas and i know that they want to get rid of me on top of that - I am just hoping it doesn't happen before my leave in about 8 weeks.
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  • I got laid off and now am planning to try and stay at home as long as we can afford it. The layoff was unexpected but I was hoping to quit by the time the baby was due anyway. I hated the job, but it was still very hard to leave and say goodbye to all the people I worked with for so many years- I still get a litte sad about it sometimes but I think it will be much better once my daughter is here!

    I think anytime you make a big change in your life it is a little weird or sad at first but you adjust. Plus maybe you can still stop in sometimes for a visit? I try to meet up with old co workers for lunch a few times a month.

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  • We are going to try it for 3 months and see how we're doing financially then but either way I won't go back to that job.

    DH got a part time job so that should help. I wasn't bringing much money in anyway so I am hoping it won't be too bad. But after 3 months if it doesn't work out I'll get a part-time job. I really hope we can work it out. 

    Otherwise my mom might have to watch him and that makes me really nervous! LOL.... 

     

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  • A little sad, yes, because I love my job.  But it's like moving to a new city or finishing a great book. Yes, sad it's over, but totally excited about my "next step" as well.  

    I'm super thankful, too, that my DH supports and encourages my decision to become a full time SAHM.  We both know it's going to be big changes for both of us, but it's a joint decision and we have no regrets.

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    "Take this job and shove it" doesn't begin to explain how happy I am to be out of that place!  

    TOTALLY with ya! I'm leaving and not looking back! I'll be working for my family's company at home but as for the place I'm working at now...SO not sad to be leaving in about 2 weeks.

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  • I am counting down the days.  August 31st is my last day and it couldn't come soon enough.  My DH and I have planned and planned financially for this and it is my dream to stay at home.  I might end up missing work, but I doubt it, I have been there too long and am beyond burned out.

     

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  • I stopped working at about 30 weeks because that's when the school year ended.  I won't be going back and it's been pretty tough for me to transition to that.  I've never been very good about being self-motivated and "entertaining" myself, so I'm hoping I get better when there's a little one depending on me to get up and motivated! I definately miss my work friends and the kids I worked with.... the work.... not as much, but I do miss feeling like a productive member of society on some days! :)
  • I will miss bringing in a little money, but I was barely making anything and I hate my job with a passion.  The sad part is that I would love it (assistant preschool teacher) if the management went the way it was supposed to.  I had a three year old tell me he was going to stab me in the stomach with a screwdriver and kill my baby when I tried to take a screwdriver away (the toolbox should not have been open, but my boss is an idiot) and when I reported it I was told that he is having some trouble and I need to be more understanding.  Thankfully his parents pulled him out.  We are not at all equipped to handle children have emotional problems, but my boss believes that somehow we can spend plenty of time helping those children although we are untrained, and somehow keep a classroom of thirteen other three-year-olds safe and happy.  I am so, so happy to be done in six more days.
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  • I'm sad that I can't quit. I have to go back after 12 weeks. I would LOVE to be a SAHM!
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