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VENT!!!! Annoyed w/ Husband! Can't type DH @ the moment!

misscinnmisscinn
in High-Risk Pregnancy

I understand it's his job, but he's across the pond in the UK & Europe touring w/ his band and I am here having to stay off my feet throughout the day as much as possible w/ my activity completely limited.

He just called and is on his way to an after party while I'm on the sofa w/ my uterus having spasms because I overdid it by getting groceries for myself so I can eat!?

I know that he's sad being out there because we've been together for 14 yrs. and have been trying to have a baby for the last 5 yrs. and now that i'm pregnant, he's been gone for most of it while I've been high-risk for all of it.

So much more to the story but that's what just happened now & I'm annoyed that he's able to have a great social life right now as I sit here feeling sorry for myself. Though I'd do ANYTHING to keep this little guy safe & in the oven. So i guess then, GET OVER IT! Right?!?

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Re: VENT!!!! Annoyed w/ Husband! Can't type DH @ the moment!

  • whidbeymommawhidbeymomma
    Well, I hope things get better for you... Maybe he can take some time off to pamper you? Wishful thinking probably but hopeful also. GL and best wishes on the bed rest.
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  • misscinnmisscinn

    imagewhidbeymomma:
    Well, I hope things get better for you... Maybe he can take some time off to pamper you? Wishful thinking probably but hopeful also. GL and best wishes on the bed rest.

    thanks, after re-reading I feel like an ass. i'm just feeling lonely @ the moment :}?

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  • InLove24InLove24
    Just wanted to send you some hugs. Hope things get better
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  • yellowbyellowb

    OMG...I could have written this myself, depending on the day.

    Are you on bed rest? If you are, I'm sorry. It's so hard not to feel sorry for yourself, especially when the rest of the world continues to function while you lay on your couch. 

    I have my ups and downs; some days are better than others. Vent away if you need to! Take care. 

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  • Fa1ryG0dm0therFa1ryG0dm0ther
    I feel ya, sister!  My hubby travels for work, and I'm here on bed rest trying to take care of myself, the twins I'm carrying, and our 4 year old son.  It's beyond frustrating.  It's hard to remember that they would rather be here with us.  I've already told my DH that I'll hurt him if he's out of town when I have the twins....You're not alone!  Hang in there!!!
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  • misscinnmisscinn

    thanks you guys.

    some days are easier to handle than others & today was just a difficult one. i've never been so sedentary. we live within blocks of the beach and not being able to walk to it is depressing. it doesn't take much for my uterus to spasm so i can do a slow walk around the market & that's pretty much it.

    my dr. just wants me to make it to @ least 26 wks. so i'm praying that i'm able to do just that, hopefully longer. i try not to think that there's a chance it won't work out for us, as this may be our only opportunity to have a baby - was kind of a fluke that i became pregnant in the first place and i'm 40 yrs.old. luckily DH will be home in 2 wks and will be around for most of august, sept, oct. :)?

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  • mrsjrmillermrsjrmiller
    Ohh, poor thing. I am so sorry for you!  Do not feel like an a$$ cause you're not. What you are feeling is completely normal and to be expected. I am sure he would rather be with you!!! Maybe you could tell him to just leave some info out of your conversations - like going to the after party... in your head you may know he is going but if you just do not have to hear about it - then maybe it will be easier?  Hang in there. Bed rest is a roller coaster.  Some days are better than others and here is to a better day for you!!!!
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