for doing the actual 'trying' after trying so many months.
I am tired of trying...
The actual getting it on or getting motivated for what is generally a very scheduled, non spontaneous coupling??
Or maybe the tricks you can use to help you get pg??
Not entirely sure what the question is. Sorry.
Oh yeah. I hear ya. It's so hard. Part of me is like okay just suck it up and do what I need to because I don't want to waste the cycle. This cycle we are in now, I would be surprised if it worked considering we did it twice, both times semi concious in the shower at midnight. That's just how it worked out for us.
I certainly do not want to think back and know that my child was conceived via a half asleep, not really interested, doing it just because I have to encounter with my DH. At the same time, if we do get pg, I think I will deal with it pretty well That will make it all worth it in the end.
Another big part of me absolutely misses the 'jump DH because I actually FEEL like it' part of it.
I don't think there is too much you can do about it besides accept that it is all for a greater good and that it is worth it. It's the nature of the beast unfortunately.
*francisca*:Have you read "Taking Charge of Your Fertility"? That is an excellent book that really helps you understand your body and cycles. If you have been "trying" w/o it, than you really need to read it!!!!
Thanks! I wish lack of knowledge about fertility was my issue. That would be easy to fix