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Please share tips...

for doing the actual 'trying' after trying so many months.

 

I am tired of trying...

Re: Please share tips...

  • The actual getting it on or getting motivated for what is generally a very scheduled, non spontaneous coupling??

    Or maybe the tricks you can use to help you get pg??

    Not entirely sure what the question is.  Sorry.

  • Sorry, getting motivated.  I am just tired of the 'have sex these 4 days' crap.  I miss spontaneous, romantic, 'we are in the mood' sex.
  • Oh yeah.  I hear ya.  It's so hard.  Part of me is like okay just suck it up and do what I need to because I don't want to waste the cycle.  This cycle we are in now, I would be surprised if it worked considering we did it twice, both times semi concious in the shower at midnight.  That's just how it worked out for us.

    I certainly do not want to think back and know that my child was conceived via a half asleep, not really interested, doing it just because I have to encounter with my DH.  At the same time, if we do get pg, I think I will deal with it pretty wellBig Smile  That will make it all worth it in the end.

    Another big part of me absolutely misses the 'jump DH because I actually FEEL like it' part of it.

    I don't think there is too much you can do about it besides accept that it is all for a greater good and that it is worth it.  It's the nature of the beast unfortunately. 

     

  • Have you read "Taking Charge of Your Fertility"?  That is an excellent book that really helps you understand your body and cycles.  If you have been "trying" w/o it, than you really need to read it!!!!
    Mom to Harmon 1/17/08 and twins Rachel & Callum 8/28/09 Photobucket 29o0v13.jpg
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    Have you read "Taking Charge of Your Fertility"?  That is an excellent book that really helps you understand your body and cycles.  If you have been "trying" w/o it, than you really need to read it!!!!

    Thanks!  I wish lack of knowledge about fertility was my issue.  That would be easy to fix :)

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