Parenting after a Loss

Why not have a husband swap?? ugh!!

Serisously, this is just a vent but I cannot stand my DHs attitude sometimes!!  When HE thinks it's time to clean or whatever then it's on.  I tell him that if he just picked up a little as he uses things, it wouldn't get so crazy in here.  AND, it's not even that crazy anyway. It's not my freaking fault that he told his friend and his girlfriend to come over today...I don't even want them to come.  I TOLD DH I had to write a freaking paper for school today.  I finally snapped on him last night when he told me that he was going to make dinner but first he had to clear the counter top of of all MY stuff....um, just because it's Connor's does NOT mean that it's mine.  Ugh!  I am so sick of him todya!!!  I was over him last night, but obviously it festered all night and I'm still annoyed today.  AND he wants to give me the silent treatment??  Bring it on!  I'm so NOT staying here when his friends come over...I'm going to the library and he can kiss my azzz!!!  I honestly do just about everything for our LO, but I don't mind until he does shittt like this that totally makes me feel like crap!  So why is there only wife swap??  I KNOW I am not the only one who would like to swap out there DH for a few days so that they can see just how good they have it!!  Oye! Vent over!

Re: Why not have a husband swap?? ugh!!

  • My husband and I have a similar fight almost every weekend in terms of him helping out more around the house. I'm seriously considering a cleaning lady because I can't keep having that same discussion. I feel your pain! Go to the library and enjoy yourself. I think there is no husband swap because no one would probably ever take their husbands back, LOL, and certainly no one wants to deal with anyone else's husband either!
    Aidan Jake 7/25/08 Cooper Cole 7/27/10 Tessa Morgan 8/9/12
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  • BAD BRYAN! 

    ugh... no one would want to swap husbands... might not help the marriage, lol.  the good parts don't always outweigh the bad parts.

    Jamie made about 3 comments yesterday along the same lines as bryan.... how i don't do enough when it comes to maintaining the house and doing things towards getting us more settled in.  WTF man!  I am up practically 4x a night, I take care of your child 95% of the time and you are going to rag on me about hanging up clothes out of box that are maternity???  OH NO!

    oh, and I have my parents coming over today to teach me how to spackle/sand and measure a room for a chair rail, and he is pissssed off... feels like I am insulting him b/c he could teach me...  ummm, I asked you to teach me, yet the room is still not done.  I know my mom will make me do it, and will teach me the right way (both her and my dad are great at prepping rooms and painting) and then we can get this kid sleeping in his room.  grrrr.

    sorry to take over yoru rant. 

    oh, and one last thing... it's 9:10.. I have been up since 5am after a VERY horrible night w/ the heat and the baby and yet he's still asleep.  grrrrrrrrrrr.

  • Jamie and Bryan are in the dog house today!!

    No worries about taking over the post! I need someone to bi*ch with!!  Yep, sounds like they r about the same!  I think you are doing a good thing by having them come over.  I balance sooo much and most of the time get it all done and he kills me when he's like, well, I have to mow the lawn and we need to get all the summer clothes out of the bags on the floor and put away...blah blah blah..yeah whatevs!! I put the frigging dishes you leave in the sink (that is conviently located directly next to the dishwahser) in the dishwasher EVERY time u leave them there, I pick up your underwear EVERY morning off the bathroom floor, your socks and clothes NEXT to the laundry basket, your shoes...oh, I could go on forever!!  I am NOT perfect, but I try and pick up as I go!  Dammmnn!!!   Now I am trying to work on my paper.  I woke up with a giant headache with Connor at 7 and now he's nappin inthe swing.  I should be writing my paper, but I'm venting!! 

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