Hello, I've never posted on the bump before, but my husband and I were expecting our first child. He's 25 and I'm 22. I just miscarried a few days ago and no one in my family has spoken to me since. We all live in the same town and it's awkward and my husband and I just need someone to talk to about this. All of our friends work at the hospital so I'm getting all kinds of different advice.
I just feel really alone with everyone tiptoeing around me. It's okay to talk, and it would make me feel a lot better.
- Izzy
Re: Need to talk
HUGS! I am so thankful for this board now. When I miscarried between my girls, I posted on Parenting and was actually made fun of for not dealing with my m/c how others would. Like you, I didn't have real people who talked to me about it. I was so lost, so sad, angry and upset. This time seems so much easier physically and emotionally. I don't know if it is because I was 11 weeks last time, or if they think I may of had a blighted ovum this time....
Welcome, I am so sorry for your loss. Hugs!
-m/c at 11w2d due to partial molar 2008 -m/c #2 2009
Beautiful daughter born February 2011
**Ultimate TTCALer 2009**
I'm so sorry for your loss **HUGS**
I feel like all I do is talk to my family about it and I feel like they get sick of hearing me "whine" about it. Whether or not that is true, I don't know. But they have not been through it. The ladies on this board have been nothing but wonderful, accepting and comforting. I can come on here and just vent and someone may have the same feelings as I do and can relate. I am so glad a friend of mine turned me on to getting on here, otherwise I don't know if I could have healed as well as I have.
Good Luck to you and your family. Keep us updated.
Tell them that you need to talk about it and that you will grieve but that's OK.
I am so sorry for your loss. I felt it was hard to talk to family, even though they always listen, because none of them have ever m/c. I love this board because we are all going through the same emotions and we have been there. I hope it is as much of a comfort for you as it is for me.
So sorry for your loss. And Im sorry that no one wants to talk to you about it. This board is a great outlet for dealing with m/c. I wouldnt have gotten thru my first m/c without the help of these great gals...
Please feel free to come here anytime and vent or just talk to girls who have been in your shoes!
Thank you everyone for you kind words. I never thought I would even look at this forum, but now it is very helpful. Most of the advice I get from friends is rationalizing why, but maybe some things don't happen with reason. I'm happy I have people to talk to here.
Izzy