BFP #1 4/6/09; EDD 12/6/09; miscarriage 4/10/09..............BFP #2 5/3/09; DD born 1/9/10........BFP #3 12/15/12, EDD 8/31/13; baby stopped growing at 5w3d; natural miscarriage..........BFP #4 2/8/13, EDD 10/20/13; missed miscarriage discovered 9w2d; d/c.......BFP #5 10/22/13, EDD 7/8/13; miscarriage 10/28/13..... BFP #6 11/19/13; DS born 7/29/14
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Re: POAS Poll
Since I've started charting, I've never actually O-ed, so I've never had a good reason to POAS. That's not to say that I don't do it anyway, just for the hell of it.
But DH typically isn't involved.
If I thought I had a good chance of actually getting a positive result, I would definitely pee in a cup and wait for him to get home. You could always just not tell him about the cup part - he doesn't have to know if you dipped or peed directly on the stick.
This is what I should have done. Not told him. I have dollar tree tests/internet cheapies so I always pee in a cup first then use it. Hmm I shouldnt worry about it so early because who knows what the chart will look like Saturday, it is only Monday!
Hmmm... true. But we'll think optimistically! :-) GL!
I usually just suddenly decide to test. I don't tell him before I do it. Sometimes I'll tell him afterwards, but not right away. Just whenever it comes up, or af comes. I don't think he cares that much either way. I'll have to ask him.
EDIT: I just asked him and he laughed at me. lol I said, I just wanted to make sure because some dh liked to be involved in that part and some just want to be told when the bfp happens. I said it's not like we have a habit of skip off to the bathroom together, and he started tryng to skip! HAHA He's 6'2" and 285lbs!! THAT was a funny site. We come to an agreement that I'll just let him know when it happens! lol