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Weird...ex...crush?? (idk) just IMed me...

Sarahb34743Sarahb34743
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weird story made even more weird...lol...when I was around 20 I started chatting w/this guy thru Yahoo Pool, we were playing the online game and started talking. He lived in PA and seeing as I was moving to PA soon I thought it would be cool to make a friend before I got there. The relationship(? can u call it that?) started to turn towards the romantic but I realized he had issues so decided to just remain friends. We talked for years, even after I moved back to FL...but it got weird cause he was on drugs (told u, issues) and he got really upset that I didnt want him in my life.

So, out of the blue, this morning he IM's me. Its been at least 3yrs. Very strange considering last time I talked to him he was really upset with me.

Again. Weird.

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  • aynjcaynjc member
    Did you respond?

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  • Elisa312Elisa312

    I would just delete him from my address book/block him and call it a day.

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  • Sarahb34743Sarahb34743

    imageaynjc:
    Did you respond?

    It took me a moment to recognize the screen name. But I did, just to see what he was up to.

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    Uh oh ;)

    I agree with PP, delete him from your address book!

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  • KimnCurtKimnCurt
    imageElisa312:

    I would just delete him from my address book/block him and call it a day.

    I think I would do this too. There is no reason to keep in touch with him now.

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  • mrs.m-skimrs.m-ski
    You get all the weird ex bf/crush stories! Wasn't there one about a fireman guy a while back??
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  • Sarahb34743Sarahb34743

    imagemrs.m-ski:
    You get all the weird ex bf/crush stories! Wasn't there one about a fireman guy a while back??

    lol, yeah, I guess I'm just sooo irresistable! lol

    I did delete him from everything I had, I guess he didnt cause while I was signed in he saw my SN. Either way its not a big deal cause ol boy is in FL and I'm in TX, married and about to have a kid. If he wants to add me to myspace or something like that it isnt going to affect me.

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  • JamieNIanJamieNIan
    imageElisa312:

    I would just delete him from my address book/block him and call it a day.

    I'm with this chick... just delete him.  Not worth it.

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  • Elisa312Elisa312
    imageSarahb34743:

    Either way its not a big deal cause ol boy is in FL and I'm in TX, married and about to have a kid. If he wants to add me to myspace or something like that it isnt going to affect me.

    Considering the guy has issues, I wouldn't leave any door open.  The only reason you would accept his invite on MySpace or Facebook is to know what's he's up to or let him know what you're up to. 

    What positive does it bring to your life now? Nothing.

    Nip it in the bud now, and avoid potential drama later.  I think by responding to his IM earlier, you may have given the impression ya'll are "cool" again.

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