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Lurking newbie finally saying hi :)

Hi ladies, I?ve been lurking for a while and plan to continue to do so until I?m ready to be more active in the TTCAL discussions.  But I feel like I?ve lurked long enough to say hi, plus I was just starting to feel a little stalkerish.  Carlson is my last name and as my login name implies, my H and I were expecting our first Jan 2014.  We had been taking the NTNP approach for about 2 years.  Once this past January rolled around, I decided to at least start keeping track of my cycle (brilliant!) to kind of guess when O was upon me, by April we got our first positive, the same week we closed on our very first house?an exciting week!!  I felt confident about everything in life in general.  Then at our 9 week appointment came the news, no heartbeat, no growth had occurred after 7 weeks.  I was shocked because I had had zero, zip, zilch signs that anything was wrong and the heartbeat was strong at 6 weeks.  Two us techs came in to verify a missed mc.  I ended up having a D&C last Wednesday after giving my body some time to try to do it naturally. 

I?ve read the blog, and will probably read it a few times over again, to become more acquainted with the information and resources available to us.  I?d like to play a more pro-active role in understanding my body, cycle, charting, etc. as we begin to TTC again (still currently in the 2 week post-op no activity phase).  The blog has been very helpful as a newbie.  I admire and respect the supportive and strong community you have built here, and hope that I can contribute to it. 

A little non TTCAL info about me: I?m a TCK (third culture kid) growing up overseas because of my parents jobs (in education), an INFJ personality type that has settled nicely in the PNW.  Shout out to enmould and Poppy715 I saw yesterday you two are as well Smile.  H and I have been married 5 years come this July.  We have two rescue dogs (mixed breeds) who keep us on our toes and laughing often.  And we have a rescue cat, Oreo, who is a quite a character, and always in search of his next napping destination.  Both my H and I are football fanatics.  Go Seahawks!  Unlike the love I have for my H and animals and the Seahawks, I have been on a plant-based diet since February and struggling to love it.  Occasionally, I cheat.  Usually with some type of cheese or salmon.  Ending with one more love:  I love to zumba.

I?ve come to find these boards immensely supportive and helpful as my H and I navigate our way through this.  I?m sorry we find ourselves here, and I?m so very sorry for each one of your losses.

Began trying for a baby January 2012
BFP 4.25.2013  EDD 1.3.2014  MMC 6.3.2013  D&C 6.19.2013
BFP 11.3.2013  CP 11.6.2013
BFP 3.31.2014 EDD 12.10.2014 Baby boy Carlson born 12.19.2014 

Re: Lurking newbie finally saying hi :)

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    ebwhitebwhit member
    Welcome and I'm so sorry for your loss
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    ME (26) DH (32) Diagnosis- unexplained recurrent pregnancy loss
    BFP #1 7/12- MC 8w.3d
    BFP #2 10/12- CP 
    BFP #3 1/13 - CP
    BFP #4 8/13- MC 6w3d
    IUI #1 50mg Clomid/Ovidrel 1/13-BFN
    IUI #2 2/14 100MG Clomid/Ovidrel- BFP! grow baby grow

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    imageRN536:
    So sorry for your loss. I hope you find peace and support here as well as some guidance for your cycles. I started fertility friend after seeing it here and it helps a lot. Hugs

    I'm so thankful for these boards, I can't be on FB or anything right now, I just come here instead.  I'm glad you've found fertility friend to be helpful. I signed up yesterday and plan to take the online lessons they sent this weekend. 

    Began trying for a baby January 2012
    BFP 4.25.2013  EDD 1.3.2014  MMC 6.3.2013  D&C 6.19.2013
    BFP 11.3.2013  CP 11.6.2013
    BFP 3.31.2014 EDD 12.10.2014 Baby boy Carlson born 12.19.2014 
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    So sorry for your loss. I hope you find this board as helpful as I have and that your stay here is short and sweet.  

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    imageenmould:

    Welcome and sorry for your loss -
    I'm new too but saw your shout out from the PNW! DH and I love football too, although I'm a Seahawk fan he likes Denver (booo!!!), we both love college football too (die-hard USC fans... although I rarely admit it up here in WA). Hope you enjoy the summer weather that finally arrived, but stay cool this weekend - it's gonna be a scorcher!

    Being new, I'm still learning but I have found that people here are super supportive, good natured, and have a lot of knowledge. You've been lurking, so you probably know this too :) Hope your stay here is short and sweet, and in the meantime you feel the support and fun to be had here.

    Yes  Yes, it's going to be a good season for us this year!  My BIL likes Denver, so I have to be nice to the Broncos :).  Thanks for the encouragement.  I am looking forward to learning more, and supporting the other women on here. 

    Began trying for a baby January 2012
    BFP 4.25.2013  EDD 1.3.2014  MMC 6.3.2013  D&C 6.19.2013
    BFP 11.3.2013  CP 11.6.2013
    BFP 3.31.2014 EDD 12.10.2014 Baby boy Carlson born 12.19.2014 
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    So glad you've decided to come out to say hi! Welcome, I am so very sorry for your loss.
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    I am so sorry for your loss, but welcome.  I hope that your stay here is short and sweet.

    TTC since October 2012

    BFP#1 1/11/13, EDD 9/19/13, M/C at 9wk6dy 

    BFP#2 11/12/13, DS born 7/28/14!

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    Welcome to the board, and I'm very sorry for your loss. I actually know what you're talking about when you say INFJ. :) Thanks for coming out of lurkdom to join us!
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    2014: IVF #1-4 = BFFN
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    So sorry for your loss. I'm new here myself I was also due in jan 2014 and found out at 10 weeks my baby no longer had a heartbeat also. I tried for a year and a half but didn't really try. I'm 39 so I feel my clock is ticking so I also am looking to learn more about my cycles. I feel like we have a lot in common. Everyone here has been so helpful for me also.
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    I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board, I hope you find the support you need here!
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    Nice to meet you! You sound like a great person and I am sorry you find yourself here. At least we all can support each other here. Good luck!
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    I'm so sorry for your loss, but welcome to the board.  (((HUGS)))

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    TTC since March 2012 
    BFP #1 1/29/13, EDD 10/9/13 
    MMC discovered at 10 weeks (baby measured 9 weeks) D&C on 3/16/13 
    BFP #2  CP on 3/31/14
    BFP #3  8/11/14  EDD 4/22/14
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    I'm very sorry for your loss, but welcome to the board.  (((HUGS)))

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    TTC since March 2012 
    BFP #1 1/29/13, EDD 10/9/13 
    MMC discovered at 10 weeks (baby measured 9 weeks) D&C on 3/16/13 
    BFP #2  CP on 3/31/14
    BFP #3  8/11/14  EDD 4/22/14
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    Thank you for lurking and reading the blog. I'm sorry you find yourself here, but I hope you can become an active member. This board if filled with amazing women, and the support you'll gain from participating will be such a huge step in recovering. I am truly sorry for your loss, but welcome. 
    BFP#1 8/3/12~EDD 4/1/13~Natural M/C 9/1/12-9w6d 
    BFP#2 5/30/13~EDD 2/3/14~Confirmed CP 5/31/13
    7/12/13 Hysteroscopy & Lap Lysis of Adhesions
    1st Cycle on Clomid Aug '13: BFP#3 8/24/13~EDD 5/3/14
    Hoping Third Time's a Charm!!- IT'S A GIRL!!!! 
    KAYLIE MARIE IS HERE! BORN 5/4/14

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    Welcome to our board, though I'm so sorry you have found yourself here.
    PCOS & ute crew member
    BFP #1: 10/24/2012  EDD 7/3/13, missed m/c @ 9 weeks, D&E 
    DX: Septate Uterus. Septum resection 6/4/13
    BFP #2: 12/20/2013  EDD 9/1/14, missed m/c @ 7weeks, D&E
    BFP #3: 5/26/2014 EDD 2/7/15, missed m/c @ 9 weeks, D&E- DX Trisomy22
    RPL, Karyotyping, and SHG: All Normal
    BFP #4: 9/6/14 EDD 5/16/15 Praying for our RAINBOW!
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    So very sorry for your loss but welcome to the board! 


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    BFP#1 2/5/13 - EDD 10/11/13 - MMC@8wks - D&C 3/7/13
    BFP#2 7/10/13 - EDD 3/21/14- Eli's Here!!
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    Welcome and I'm sorry for your loss (and that you like the Seahawks Wink)

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    Welcome.  Same thing happened to me.  No previous signs, no HB at our 9 week checkup.  Sad.  Sorry you're here but I KNOW you'll find support.

    TTCAL Siggy Challenge: "He's my favorite.  His birthday is the same as mine almost"

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    Missing my little one lost at 9 weeks on 2.24.13. brokenhearted but not broken... 

    d&c 5/21/13... Still Healing, Still Standing... 

    MMC discovered 10/2/2013, TWINS... d&c 10/7/2013.  I still miss you, little ones. 

    Surgery December 2013 to remove a 10+cm fibroid... Open myomectomy. Benched for 3-9 months... 
    Will TTC summer Summer 2014 we hope!

    Dear God, Since I couldn't hold my little one in my lap and tell him about you, could you hold him in your lap and tell him about me? 

    PgAL and PAL always welcome...
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    imagescooteriste:
    Welcome to the board, and I'm very sorry for your loss. I actually know what you're talking about when you say INFJ. :) Thanks for coming out of lurkdom to join us!

    does it count that I really want to know what this acronym means?! Seriously curious and no clue.

    PICK think I got pnw as Pacific Northwest, but I am kind of a terrible guesser...

    oh well, welcome anyway!! Looking forward to getting to know you and you acronyms a little better... So sorry for your loss

    married my best friend 10/04/08, TTC since July 2012
    BFP#1 Thanksgiving 11/22/12, mo-mo twins(one sac), traditional EDD 7/27/13, EDD due to risk 6/15/13
    mmc Angel 2/7/13 @ 15w3d, mmc Aubrey 2/13/13 @ 16w2d, D&E 2/16/13

    BFP#2 9/21/13, EDD 6/2/14, DD born 5/17/14 

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    All AL always welcome in my threads!

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    Welcome to the board but I'm so sorry for your loss.

    dream 1 CAME TRUE 2.13.2010


     <dream 2> 12.2011


     2.10.12 : 4 weeks


    6.17.12 : 10 weeks


    10.10.12 : 4 weeks, 6 days


    12.13.12 : 9 weeks, 1 day


    4.6.13 : 4 weeks, 4 days


    10.27.13 : 5 weeks, 6 days


    4.2.14 (IVF #1) : 4 weeks, 1 day


    6.19.14 : IVF #2 Negative


     </dream 2>


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    I'm so sorry for your loss and that you have to be here. Welcome to a wonderful, supportive and safe place.

    I've never had a shout out in an intro before! Thank you for lurking and going it right. Feel free to jump in when you feel ready. You know there are tons of check ins for support!

          THE DARK SIDE IT IS

     and GBCB

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    BFP 8/2/12 EDD 4/9/13 Addie was delivered 1/4/13 at 26 weeks due to Eclampsia  

    BFP 9/15/14 EDD 5/28/15 Please be our R A I N B O W take home baby BOY
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    Welcome! I'm very sorry for your loss and I hope your stay here is short. I also wanted to say I really enjoyed reading your intro - I'm impressed with the pant based diet - if only my cheats were as healthy as salmon and cheese :) 

    Off BC, NTNP since June 2011

    Started acupuncture/herbs July 2012 

    First BFP 9-8-2012,EDD 5-15-2013, heartbeat of 175 at 8w2d, mmc discovered on 10-26-12 (11w6d) Cytotec on 10/26/12

    8/23/13 DX with non-IR PCOS

    Second BFP 9.12.13, EDD 5.29.14, heartbeat of 114 at 6w1d, mmc discovered on 10-18-13, D&C on 10/23/13 (baby girl/Trisomy 10) 

    Third BFP (surprise at Beta draw after d&c) on 1/10/14 (15dpo), EDD 9.20.14 Please be our RAINBOW!

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    Welcome, I'm sorry for your loss.



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    Started dating in 5/9/05, Married 6/25/11
    Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
    BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
    BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
     All AL welcome.


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    What a sweet intro. So sorry for your loss and I hope all of the ladies here can be helpful to you and supportive to your needs. Welcome.




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    TTC 1/1/12
    BFP #1 12/13/12 MMC Confirmed 1/30/13
    BFP #2 6/17/13, (Clomid+Ovidrel) CP Confirmed 6/26/13
    BFP #3 8/14/2013 (Letrozole+IUI) Charlie Grace born 5/2/2014

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    Laparoscopic surgery 8/15 to remove misplaced IUD

    BFP #4, #5, #6  (Letrozole+IUI)all MMC, BFP #7 EDD 1/3/2017


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    Welcome to the board, I'm so sorry for your loss. Hope your stay is short and sweet!

     

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    imageenmould:


    I'm new too but saw your shout out from the PNW! DH and I love football too, although I'm a Seahawk fan he likes Denver (booo!!!), we both love college football too (die-hard USC fans... although I rarely admit it up here in WA)

    Really?

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     and GBCB

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    BFP 8/2/12 EDD 4/9/13 Addie was delivered 1/4/13 at 26 weeks due to Eclampsia  

    BFP 9/15/14 EDD 5/28/15 Please be our R A I N B O W take home baby BOY
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

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    Welcome. I an sorry for your loss.
                               
                  
                 BFP#1  9/5/12, MMC, MC confirmed 10/9/12,          
                D&C 12/12/12
    BFP#2 7/30/13, EDD 4/12/14, DS born 4/14/14
                                                                             
                                                                            
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    imagePintobean39:
    So sorry for your loss. I'm new here myself I was also due in jan 2014 and found out at 10 weeks my baby no longer had a heartbeat also. I tried for a year and a half but didn't really try. I'm 39 so I feel my clock is ticking so I also am looking to learn more about my cycles. I feel like we have a lot in common. Everyone here has been so helpful for me also.

    Hi Pintobean Smile I was encouraged to say my hello to this board of supportive ladies after you did too.  I remember us writing back and forth on the Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss board.  I'm excited to learn more about my cycles and indicators my body gives so that we can try again.  Glad to see you on this board, and thank you for the warm welcome.  I'm sorry for your loss too.  ((Hugs))

    Began trying for a baby January 2012
    BFP 4.25.2013  EDD 1.3.2014  MMC 6.3.2013  D&C 6.19.2013
    BFP 11.3.2013  CP 11.6.2013
    BFP 3.31.2014 EDD 12.10.2014 Baby boy Carlson born 12.19.2014 
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    I figured there would be another person interested in MB test/personality profiles like I am Smile.  Thank you for the warm welcome.  I'm sorry for your loss as well. 

    Edit: Oh dear, hit reply instead of Quote scooterist, sorry about that.  Coffee still needs to kick in...  :)

    Began trying for a baby January 2012
    BFP 4.25.2013  EDD 1.3.2014  MMC 6.3.2013  D&C 6.19.2013
    BFP 11.3.2013  CP 11.6.2013
    BFP 3.31.2014 EDD 12.10.2014 Baby boy Carlson born 12.19.2014 
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    imagebuggirl72:

    Welcome and I'm sorry for your loss (and that you like the Seahawks Wink)

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     LOL!!!  Love it.  I do have to admit that I am jealous of your wide receiver talent w/ Larry Fitzgerald.   It's going to be a fun season.

    Began trying for a baby January 2012
    BFP 4.25.2013  EDD 1.3.2014  MMC 6.3.2013  D&C 6.19.2013
    BFP 11.3.2013  CP 11.6.2013
    BFP 3.31.2014 EDD 12.10.2014 Baby boy Carlson born 12.19.2014 
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    imagescooteriste:
    Welcome to the board, and I'm very sorry for your loss. I actually know what you're talking about when you say INFJ. :) Thanks for coming out of lurkdom to join us!

    does it count that I really want to know what this acronym means?! Seriously curious and no clue.

    PICK think I got pnw as Pacific Northwest, but I am kind of a terrible guesser...

    oh well, welcome anyway!! Looking forward to getting to know you and you acronyms a little better... So sorry for your loss

     

    Ooohhhh... INFJ is a personality profile type that comes from the Myers Briggs test.  It stands for: Introvert, Intuitive, Feeling, Judging.  They have some free versions online, very interesting stuff.  My personality profile is pretty darn accurate to who I am as a person, so I tend to give it lots of credit but there's all types of other personality profile tests out there.  I'm looking forward to getting to know you ladies more, thank you for the warm welcome, and I'm so sorry for your loss as well. 

    Began trying for a baby January 2012
    BFP 4.25.2013  EDD 1.3.2014  MMC 6.3.2013  D&C 6.19.2013
    BFP 11.3.2013  CP 11.6.2013
    BFP 3.31.2014 EDD 12.10.2014 Baby boy Carlson born 12.19.2014 
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    Thank you, everyone, for the kind words and warm welcome.  I'm sad we all find ourselves here, but am so thankful that we have a place to meet and support each other.  Have a great weekend!
    Began trying for a baby January 2012
    BFP 4.25.2013  EDD 1.3.2014  MMC 6.3.2013  D&C 6.19.2013
    BFP 11.3.2013  CP 11.6.2013
    BFP 3.31.2014 EDD 12.10.2014 Baby boy Carlson born 12.19.2014 
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    KMW08KMW08 member
    I'm sorry for your losses, and that your finding yourself here.

    Same thing with me, awesome hb, 2wks later no growth or hb any longer, as well as no symptoms.

    Welcome to the board, it's a fabulous group of women.

    BFP#4 3/17/14 - rainbow Baby BOY arrived 11/10/14 !!

    DX: Uterine Septum - Resection 9/5/13 || MTHFR Hetero A1298C || My Chart

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    Welcome!  It too am new to this board, not by choice of course.   I have had a very similar experience....I was to be 10 weeks and 1 day last week and Friday I had a confirmed ultrasound with no heartbeat.  

     

    I hope we can learn and grow here. 

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