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sex fail- maybe TMI

mlandwehrmlandwehr member
in May 2013 Moms
I was so excited to get the go ahead to finally do the deed. Well it was a huge fail.  It hurt so bad. It almost felt like it was too small now.  Like she stitched me up to tight. Has any of you ladies had a fail like this?  What did you guys do to make it better?
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    helenkayjhelenkayj member

    Ugh. I'm not tight enough! I feel like I can't feel anything! 

    Our first time back, we used lots of lube... we tried the his and hers by KY. Worked pretty good. 

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    Rachel GoldsteinRachel Goldstein member
    I had a csection but we hadn't DTD for over 6 months due to pregnancy issues and then PP restrictions. I recommend loooots of foreplay (awful, right? *wink*). The first time back for me it felt like losing my virginity all over again but now it's back to normal.
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    mandy_mariemandy_marie member
    I had a lot of stitches, and a lot of them were up higher...  We haven't even been able to do anything b/c any pressure to that area still hurts too much :(  (7wks pp)
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    jedimindtrickjedimindtrick member
    This is how it felt for me while pregnant. We haven't tried yet PP, my appt is next week but I'm worried about this. Guess it will time.
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    LaxMOM44LaxMOM44 member
    Ya sorry if it's TMI but mine definitely felt waaaaaaay roomier. And neither of us wanted to say anything but eventually I just said it. He didnt really agree he just said it felt different but here's hoping some kegels and praying will tighten it up. Fml
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    annagryaannagrya member
    I always hated pregnant sex and had a couple of epic fails before dd was born.  It's probably karma that pp sex has been great with the exception of needing lube due to bfing.  I would just laugh off the fail and try again another time, sex is supposed to be fun!
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    telicious2telicious2 member
    Yup I had my sex fail the other night at 7.5 wks pp. We used lots of lube but I still didn't like the way it felt. Since LO sleeps at least 3 hrs for his first stretch I may have to slightly liquor it up and try again.
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