F/U on blended fam situation

missyishere

DH and BM finally set a schedule for SD! In her lifetime, they have never once stuck to a schedule; it's always been a moment by moment decision where SD would be that day.

Two days in a row I was told she would be walking home from school and to expect her. Two days she did not show, which worried me to no end. I expressed my concerns about her having consistency in her life. I was adamant they consider how dangerous it could be if we don't know where she is or is supposed to be.

I don't know what he finally said to her, but SD came over the next day with a calendar showing dates and times we and she would have SD.

Fianschneid

That's great. I'm glad BM is finally working with you.

missyishere

Fianschneid:

That's great. I'm glad BM is finally working with you.

We've all always gotten along, and she

Scramblersmom

That is awesome that she if finally working with you and at least came up with a schedule. I agree with you that it could be very dangerous for your SD if no one knows where she is and just assumes she is with the other parent. I hope this new schedule wo

cantalopes24

Ugh that drives me nuts. E's dad doesn't have custody or even visitation, its set so I can decide on a case by case basis of when he sees him. His dad doesn't understand why he can't call me Friday night and say he's showing up Saturday at 1030 am. He thi

missyishere

cantalopes24:

Ugh that drives me nuts. E's dad doesn't have custody or even visitation, its set so I can decide on a case by c