new here single and pregnant

jom711

Hey everyone glad I found this board I hope it will be helpful for me.

Long story short, my husband disappeared when I was 2 months pregnant. We had been separated for a few months but were in the process of trying to work things out and I wound up pregnant. We were planning on starting counseling together and working on our marriage/preparing for our surprise miracle baby. Anyway, he basically left out of no where and has gotten into drugs.. he had problems with this in the past ...and now his addiction is worse than ever. The police are looking for him because he broke into his own familys houses. Everything is just a mess. I have had no contact with him and have a lawyer and I'm filing papers. All while 5 months pregnant.

I know I'm making the right choice by having no more contact with him and working with a lawyer. I need to protect me and my baby. He will have no contact with me and will have no visitations or custody of our child. It just hurts so bad. He was the one that was so excited that we're having a baby. He said he promised to take care of us. I never thought I would be pregnant and soon to be divorced. Drugs do terrible things. :

just wanted to share my story and say hi. You are all so strong and amazing!

NavyWifeTrivette

I am in a similar situation as you. My husband is not the one on drugs though (although he is an alcoholic), but rather his new girlfriend is the one on drugs. It has been a crazy ride, and I am 4.5 weeks pregnant so close to you. Feel free to private mes

inthelost

i'm sorry to hear about your situation, and yes, drugs are a terrible thing. You need to remember that you are just as strong and amazing. you are dealing with so much and are a tough woman! you're going to be a good mother (but i know it's easy to wor