Late Term and Child Loss

Joining this group

Hi ladies. 

DH and I experienced our first loss yesterday. We went for our 12 week appt and it was confirmed our baby had stopped growing at about 10.5 weeks. I had a D&C last night and am home today resting. 

We had been trying for more than a year and thought that this would be our take home baby. The feeling of loss is so much more than I thought it could be for a person that wasn't even born yet.  The sadness of losing our baby after seeing it move and hearing a heartbeat at 8 weeks is so hard. 

 Not sure what I am looking for here just comforted a bit to see that other ladies have went through this as well. DH and I wish we could TTC again right away but b/c of the D&C our doctor is making us wait 3 months. 

Me: 32 DH: 32
DD : 20 months
BFP #1 3/13, MC 4/3  :'( 
BFP #2 5/15 DD born 8/15 (25 weeker born due to PPROM)  

Working on growing our family since 3/2017

Re: Joining this group

  • I'm so sorry for your loss - you're is devastating. This board is geared for later pregnancy/infant/child losses.  The Miscarriage/pregnancy loss board is probably a better fit for you as more women there will have experienced similar loss
    Mom to Eliott Alexander, born sleeping at 37 weeks on 8/13/10. Most of us only dream of angels - I held one in my arms.
    BFP #2 - EDD 2/26/12 M/C 6/28/11 @ 5w2d
    BFP #3 - EDD 4/7/12 M/C 8/2/11 @ 4w2d
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    BFP #4 - EDD 12/09/12, Lucille arrived 11/26/12
  • So sorry for your loss

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