My sister-in-law (married to my brother-in-law) wouldn't let anyone hold the baby at the hostpital, no one just her and the father. This really hurt my wife and her mother, especially since her mother doesn't have a car and we had to drive her to/from the hospital/home, which was like a 2 hour roundtrip.
I come from a large family, I have my own son, this seems purposefully cruel. Am I wrong? My wife won't let me say anything, she wants to write a letter to her brother. But I just want some feedback from some new moms...
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Re: Sister-in-law won't let anyone hold the baby...
They aren't smokers.
Thanks for the response.
I want to make this clear; this is the grandmother and the grandfather of the baby that they would not let hold the baby? Forget uncle/aunt stuff....we are talking grandparents. But just on the father/husband side, the mothers parents arrive today.
The baby isn't a toy. It's not your baby. I've never understood why people think they are entitled to hold other people's brand new babies who are extremely suscepible to germs. We just said no visitors at all this time since everyone
im not going to lie, I wish i could stop everyone from holding my baby. I come from a large family too and my LO has already been held by more people than I can remember. I'm really really starting to get irked by it, and I wish I had put my foot
I think new moms are overly paranoid. I think it's stupid to not let your parents hold your baby. A newborns immune system is its strongest in that first week. Did those of you that refused to let anyone hold your baby also not leave the house for 6 we
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I should add that we DID let family hold our LO in the hospital (after much hand washing!), although I still understand how a new mom might not be ok with doing that.
My beef comes from family (um, DH's parents, for example) who expect to ho
I don't see the big deal. It's a brand new baby and they're still in the hospital. I would not be offended. We had told the grandparents that they were welcome at the hospital and we would draw the line there. Aunts and uncles w
If any of my kids treated me like that I would be devastated. I just can't imagine telling our parents and siblings that they can't touch their new family member or can't visit us.
And really, if you're so paranoid that visitors might bring germs
Update:
First all thanks for all of the responses. I in fact never asked to hold him, only GM and GF did. They were both told no for no reason. They never mentioned the FLU/sickness etc..
Second to the "toy" folks, please read pos