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Two things

cislebride07cislebride07
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Two things that are bothering me today and I know you'll understand.  Why do people say don't drink the water When a lot of people are pregnant.  i really wish that were the case. What an annoying comment!   If that were the case I would drink it and send vats of it to all of you.  what a stupid thing to say.

Number two is people can't understand why I don't want to go to baby showers. I recently turned down an invite for friends baby shower. It's just hard for me to handle right now. I have been having a hard time Despite the fact I'm already blessed with DS.  I just think about where I would've been in my pregnancy and where I am now. It's frustrating and I hate feeling guilty for my feelings.

Are you feeling me on this?

Dx PCOS Three cycle of Clomid- BFN HSG- clear 6/09-Follistim and HCG IUI on 7/7/09 BFN 7/09- Follistim and Ovidrel IUI on 8/11/09 BFP! beta #1-342 beta #2-717 Joey was born on 5/5/10 Trying for #2 since 6/12 6/12- Gonal F and Ovidel IUI on 7/10. BFN 8/12- Gonal F and Ovidrel. IUI on 8/10. BFN 9/12- Gonal F and Ovidrel IUI BFN 10/22 Gonal F, Menopur, Ganirelex 11/4 trigger 11/6 ER 14R 10F 11/11 ET transferred one 4AA embryo beta 11/20! BFP Betas stop multiplying . m/c at 5 weeks moving on to FET if my numbers ever get back to 0!
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  • Jen071407Jen071407 member
    I can definitely relate!
    1. I will take that "water" through an IV thankyouverymuch!
    2. Baby showers are a huge reminder of what we are already thinking about constantly.
    And I will add a 3. Quit complaining on Facebook about how terrible your pregnancy is. Trust me, it could be worse.

    Two DDs 10/08 and 08/10, no primary IF
    TTC #3 since 10/2011 - dx unexplained/weak ovulation
     3 BFN clomid + TI cycles, 5 BFN clomid/gonal f IUIs, 1 mmc IUI
    2/19/2014 IVF #1 Unexpected low E2 (oversuppressed) -> increased to max doses = 3 or 4 follicles, converting to IUI
    BFFP Saw 1 beautiful heartbeat at 6w6d, follow up u/s at 9w showed mmc. Eff this.
    NTNP 5/2014-9/2014, OPKs and TI 10/2014 - 1/2015. 
    RPL testing all normal, AFC, AMH, and FSH all normal. 
    IVF 1.2 1/22/2014 natural cycle start, AFC 28, 300 gonal f/150menopur. 
    ER 2/3/15 14R 8M 3F w/ICSI Day 5 transfer on 2/8/15 of one "Grade A+" blast and have TWO frosties! 

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  • kimberm0511kimberm0511 member
    I feel ya! Your 1 made me LOL. It's so true! So dumb.

    And to add on to the FB comment...also please quit posting the "oh crap! I'm pregnant AGAIN!!!" status updates. Must be nice.....
    TTC #3 (#1 for DH) since September 2011. DX: Unexplained infertility with possible cervical factor. May 2012 did clomid with IUI - BFN August 2012 IUI #2 w/ follistim/letrozole - BFN September 2012 IUI #3 w/ follistim/letrozole - BFN October 2012 IUI #4 w/ follistim/letrozole - BFN November/December 2012 IVF/ICSI #1 Retrieved 12 eggs, 8 fertilized. Transferred 1 beautiful embryo and 5 made it to freeze. Got my BFP! January 2013 u/s showed empty gestational sac. FET cycle April 2013.  Transferred 2 5 day embryos.  BFP!!!!!  2 heartbeats!!!!  EDD:  12/27/13
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  • rcnavywifercnavywife member
    I can totally relate! I've hid several people on FB so I don't get ambushed every time I log in about how much it sucks to be pregnant, etc!
    Me: 33 DH: 36 Unexplained IF
    First pregnancy - DS 01-Apr-09;
    3rd cycle Clomid/IUI after 2 years TTC
    TTC #2 since ~June 2010
    IUI #1 & 2 - Clomid/IUI - BFN
    IUI #3 &4 - Gonal-F/Ovidrel and IUI -- BFN
    IUI #5 - Gonal-F/Ovidrel and IUI -- BFP!!
    EDD: March 22, 2013
    It's triplets!!


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  • girlieface3girlieface3 member
    I hear you! There are five people pregnant at work and everyone always says dont drink the water! Dumb! Lol.
    On top of five people at work three of my friends have newborns and 4 close friends are due this spring. Not to mention all the people I know on fb which is why I deactivated.
    DD born 12/30/09 TTC since 6/2011 2/2012 Clomid +Ovidrel+ti= bfn 3/2012 Menapur + follistim= cancelled, over stimulation 4/2012 Next cycle cancelled due to cysts 5/2012 on break TTC w/o meds 8/2012 Clomid & trigger w/ IUI=BFN 9/2012 Clomid & trigger w/ IUI = BFN
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  • kofmkgkofmkg member

    I'm not on FB, but I get tired of the moms on my BMB who are KU again and complain about being sooo tired or soooo over m/s.  Yeah, I'd gladly trade you infertility so I can "suffer," too.

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  • CeCe8579CeCe8579 member
    imagekofmkg:
    I'm not on FB, but I get tired of the moms on my BMB who are KU again and complain about being sooo tired or soooo over m/s.nbsp; Yeah, I'd gladly trade you infertility so I can "suffer," too.


    This!!!!!
    Carly
    (Former UN: iloveshanej)

    Birdie born 05/01/2007
    Rainbow Surprise Baby due 05/26/2017                                          


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  • SnowflakeBride06SnowflakeBride06 member
    imageIloveshanej:
    imagekofmkg:
    I'm not on FB, but I get tired of the moms on my BMB who are KU again and complain about being sooo tired or soooo over m/s.nbsp; Yeah, I'd gladly trade you infertility so I can "suffer," too.


    This!!!!!

    Word!


     6/09 right tube loss (fallopian torsion) 12/09 BFP #1 (DD born 9/10)
    8/12 dx Lupus (ANA+/APA-), 12/12 BFP #2  natural m/c 6w 2d 
    TTC#2  since 9/12  50mg Clomid/Ovidrel IUI #1 Beta 10/4=BFN
                                 50mg Clomid/Ovidrel IUI #2 Beta 11/1= BFN
                                      100 mg Clomid/Ovidrel IUI #3 Beta 12/26=BFFN
    100 mg Clomid/Ovidrel IUI #4 Beta 2/14= BFFN
    Took a LONG Break
    Lots of Luck and Love BFPB for life KOFMKG
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  • SnowflakeBride06SnowflakeBride06 member
    I agree with you OP

    And why does anyone think its ok to tell me its time to have another so DD doesn't turned out spoiled?!


     6/09 right tube loss (fallopian torsion) 12/09 BFP #1 (DD born 9/10)
    8/12 dx Lupus (ANA+/APA-), 12/12 BFP #2  natural m/c 6w 2d 
    TTC#2  since 9/12  50mg Clomid/Ovidrel IUI #1 Beta 10/4=BFN
                                 50mg Clomid/Ovidrel IUI #2 Beta 11/1= BFN
                                      100 mg Clomid/Ovidrel IUI #3 Beta 12/26=BFFN
    100 mg Clomid/Ovidrel IUI #4 Beta 2/14= BFFN
    Took a LONG Break
    Lots of Luck and Love BFPB for life KOFMKG
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