I'm not trying to be rude but I don't understand others on here. We are supposed to come to this site to talk to each other about our pregnancies and problems we may be having. However there are several posts that I have read and some of the responses I read are just full of smarty pantsI'd like to use another word but im being nice answers. I just feel there is no reason to smart off at someone. If you don't like someone's post or you don't like how they worded something then just don't comment at all. I know everyone's hormones are raging but honestly, being rude to people you've never met who are just asking for advice is ridiculous. Just my opinion. Rant over.
Re: Why are people on here so rude???!!!
Making a whole new post to tell people they should learn to not comment at all if they don't like something.....
2 years, 2 surgeries, 2 clomid fails, 2 IUIs, 1 loss, IVF #1 - 10/25/10 = BFP!, DS is now 3.5yrs!
TTC #2 - 6/12 surgery #3, FET #1 & 1.2 = BFN, 12/2012 FET #2 = BFP! DD is 1.5 yrs!
Surprise! 12/16/14 BFP, loss #2 12/31/14
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Its a message board not a support group.
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THIS.
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AgrEed. Maybe someone's answer seems rude but to them is blunt, Informative and straight forward.
Technology takes a lot of emotion out of conversation
YEP
and you're defeating your purpose by being rude to everyone else.
yes, sometimes its annoying when we get 5 of the same topic on one page, or when someone types like they never learned how to speak, or uses all caps. This is still the internet. And the internet isn't nice.
If you don't like us, find another site, or another board. There are plenty available, but they will all still be on the internet
*slow clap*
This...need...to...stop...laughing.
Been having a hard day and while I get your meaning like the other ladies mentioned....it's the Internet. Frankly most posts and responses have Ben great. Yes it devolves see other responses to this post. On the plus side it can be at the very least, amusing.
That sounds rude but honestly I don't mean to be. This post and subsequent responses did more to cheer me up than anything anyone has said or done today and that means a metric ton to me.
I actually thought this was a very nice board compared to some boards...and compared to other websites.
Not everybody is going to agree with everything a particular poster said. And typing something is always open for misinterpretation. But really...its not all that bad here.
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These posts come up weekly. Someone "finally" says this often. Pay attention.
If you are out of the 1st tri...why come to the 1st tri board just to basically call someone's post "whiney"?
Not again.
Thanks for the PSA.
it's just like any other site, your going to find the people who can't spell (raises hand and the spell check won't work on my computer for some reason lol) don't like to use puncuation (again raises hand) your going to find nice people, rude people. people who sugar coat, people who are super straight forward. if someone isn't your cup of tea it's best just to ignore them. I know our hormones are all raging and we're mommies to be but that doesn't mean we need to mommy eachother
I honestly have found some fantastic tips on here from all types of people on here sometimes if you read through the "snarky" remarks you find some good tips as well. others are just sick of giving the same advise over and over again to the same people for them to only ask the same question again but worded slightly differant trying to get a answer they like.
just breathe, take the good with the bad and enjoy being a mommy to be
This exactly. I am not the one whining... I just applauded her. Also saying this wasent a support group... also saying you wouldnt say that face to face. Deal with it.
Most posts where I see rude or snarky comments are questions that are posted here daily, and people would see the answers to the same questions if they just scrolled down a little. Or just googled it. I also see a lot of "I know this has been posted before, but MY situation is completely different so please read this!" and then once reading it, their situation is not different than anyone else's.
LO then (2 days) and now (1 year)
We are new here but she's the *** of this group clearly!
I will admit some seem nice, others...not so much.
I'm not new. I just hate The Bump.