Parenting after a Loss

Can I vent for a minute?

Do you ever feel like the world is conspiring against you? I am pretty sure that I have to have done something really bad for all of the bad karma I have coming at me this week!
Monday: my first day back at work, and first time leaving my twins. It just sucked period.

Tuesday: My phone rang at 1am, and it was my dad calling to tell me that my mom had a ruptured abdominal aortic aneurism, and was being medivac'd to the same hospital I had the girls at, two hours away. I spent all of Tuesday morning, afternoon and evening with my dad and brother at the hospital. Thankfully, my mom will recover.

Wednesday: work again, and then a conference with moms surgeon.

Thursday: we had an awful storm that knocked our power out at 2am, and also woke the girls. I realized that when I passed out at mid night, I had not mixed their enfacare formula to add to their bm bottles. No power=no water, as we are on a well. Thank God for bottled water! I was not able to go back to sleep after that. On the way to take the kids to daycare this morning, my DS yells "Mom, the cat is in the car!!!"

WTF man?!?! Can a chick get a break?!?! I am running on like 9 hours of sleep for the week, and terrified of what tomorrow will bring!

Whew! If you made it this far, you're a rockstar! Here's to hoping this week gets all of the crazy out of the way for the next year!!
 
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  • I'm sorry your having such a rough week and I hope it gets better. I am glad to hear that your mom will be ok, try to focus on the good as much as you can and snuggle those girls of yours a little extra when you get home I know baby snuggles always make me feel better.
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    I'm sorry your having such a rough week and I hope it gets better. I am glad to hear that your mom will be ok, try to focus on the good as much as you can and snuggle those girls of yours a little extra when you get home I know baby snuggles always make me feel better.

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  • ((Hugs)) When it rains it poors. I'm so sorry you're having such a rough week. I hope things start looking up for you.
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    I'm sorry you are having such a rough week. Look at it this way: when things are this bad, they can only get better! I hope things start looking up soon. (((hugs)))

    This. You're just getting all the trouble for, oh, 6 months or so. It will be clear sailing from here on!

    And your cat was in the car? How did that go? I hope s/he's a calm cat!

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  • Sorry you've had a rough week. I hope your mom recovers quickly.

     

    But I had to chuckle at the cat in the car.

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  • Wow! ((hugs)) I hope things settle down for you soon!
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  • (Hugs) I'm sorry that you are going through all this..hope things look better for you soon. 
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  • You deserve a glass of wine and a bubble bath, Momma!

     I LOL'd at the cat in the car, btw.  That's a total classic.

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  • I hope your week gets better. I am glad the your Mimi's doing okay. Sending many TPs for a speedy recovery!

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  • Thanks ladies! Now that I am back home, with lights, and baby snuggin, I feel much more positive about everything. DS has wrestling practice tonight, so DH is taking him and DD1, while the twins and I hang out at home.We are ordering Chinese and having a girls night in! Maybe, just maybe, they will pick tonight to sleep for longer than 2.5 hour stretches!
     
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    You deserve a glass of wine and a bubble bath, Momma!nbsp;I LOL'd at the cat in the car, btw.nbsp; That's a total classic.


    The cat is my nemesis. I love all animals, but honestly am not the cats biggest fan, nor is she mine. It was just one of those moments where you know the universe is kicked back and laughing like crazy.
     
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  • Yikes, that is a rough week! I'm glad your mom will be ok. Hugs hon, I hope that's ask the universe throws at you for the next year.
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