I'm on the non push present side of the fence as well.
I don't wear a lot of jewelry and besides he knows that I find a lot of it a waste of money. I would never demand, ask for or expect a present. It makes it even more weird to think that people ask for things like a purse or random jewelry. Now if it's spontaneous, I can see a husband picking up a charm for his wife's charm bracelet or a ring w/ the babies birth stone but a random diamond ring or a Dooney and Burke bag for poppin' out a kid? Nope. Don't get it.
Now, If DH wanted to surprise me with a card , flowers or food, I am all for it!
While I don't think of it as a "push present", I do want some special jewelry to commemorate each of our future kids. I've mentioned to H before that a charm bracelet would be an amazing gift, and wouldn't it be cool to have something like that to mark the birth of our children?
I won't be pissy if I don't get something, I'd probably just go pick it out on my own
Natural m/c 8/31/12 at 11 wks
BFP #2 - Due August 16!
Re: Push gift
I don't expect a push present. DH was deployed when our first baby was born so his presence will be a present in itself!
XOXO This is what I want! the hoppiest IPA, ice cold + some pretzels...
Emma Kate - born 10.16.03 @ 29 weeks, weighed 1lb 13oz and 13.5" long.
TTC #3
I'm on the non push present side of the fence as well.
I don't wear a lot of jewelry and besides he knows that I find a lot of it a waste of money. I would never demand, ask for or expect a present. It makes it even more weird to think that people ask for things like a purse or random jewelry. Now if it's spontaneous, I can see a husband picking up a charm for his wife's charm bracelet or a ring w/ the babies birth stone but a random diamond ring or a Dooney and Burke bag for poppin' out a kid? Nope. Don't get it.
Now, If DH wanted to surprise me with a card , flowers or food, I am all for it!
O was born Aug 13!
B.B.F.L
Booze and sushi! That's my vote.
Haha. That does sound awesome.
Married: October 23, 2010
DS: 8/7/2013
#2 EDD: 6/29/2016, C Section: 6/22/2016
While I don't think of it as a "push present", I do want some special jewelry to commemorate each of our future kids. I've mentioned to H before that a charm bracelet would be an amazing gift, and wouldn't it be cool to have something like that to mark the birth of our children?
I won't be pissy if I don't get something, I'd probably just go pick it out on my own