New to the bump but needing some advice *sorta long*

sanderson109

I'm new to the bump . I've always lurked on different boards but found after reading many posts that I relate most to this board .  so I'm hoping that I may join  I am a single mom and have been for about a year . I have a 14month DD.  

What I need advice on is recently my DDs father and I have been battling constantly over EVERYTHING. Right after our split I went to the courts and got all custody issues taken care off .  Written in our papers was that I was to be supplying health insurance because at the time his work did not provide  it . Since then he has gotten a new job and they supply health insurance at a pretty high cost weekly. Without my consent he went behind my back and filed her for his insurance even though  our court papers say that before that is able to happen both parties must agree and I do not .  I'm not sure what to do.. I have amazing insurance for myself and DD and I pay next to nothing and now he will not let me have any of the insurance paper work though I'm the one who takes her to appointments/etc. . If I am to take this issue to court what do I do? I'm not sure what steps I should take  and what I need to mention or address in paper work . Any advice help is appreciated .  

 

mamastich

Hey lady I'm a sp too but I lurk on te blended family board alot if you don't get the answer on this board I'd head over there :

kristak53

You need to take him back to court. I don't know if you did the court stuff without a lawyer or with one but you need to head back to court ASAP to get this resolved. Obviously talking to him will not do anything since he did that without talking to you in the first place so you need to do it officially and with the help of mediation.

sanderson109

Thank you ladies! I plan to go to the court house bright and early! Ugh just unfortunate it can't be resolved different.

letzgoracing81

This may require you to take him back to court. His 'motive' for suddenly wanting to carry your child on his insurance is that if he pays more for the insurance it may mean he pays LESS in child support.

mandi195

I guess I'm failing to see the issue in your child having 2 forms of insurance?... I don't see why he would need your permission to provide additional child support for the child. He doesn't need to give you the insurance information, he needs to provide it to the doctors office. I guess I"m failing to see the problem here.

 

sanderson109

With him having her covered under his insurance mine cancelled... They stated he now carried it and that I would have to receive the information from his insurance provider or him. Which he will not give up.