Hi, I've posted here occasionally before but am now ready to make an official intro. After over 4 years of IF treatments and 6 losses, we have decided to build our family through DIA. We started looking into it in the fall and attended a bunch of info sessions. We then did our last FET, which just ended in another loss. That was sort of our "closure cycle" so we are now fully ready to end the insanity of treatments. I do still feel sad that I won't get to experience pregnancy, and I'm not really looking forward to another year or two of another potentially long and heartbreaking process. But, we want to be parents and know with adoption we eventually will be!
We spent today making a comparison spreadsheet of the agencies we met with in NJ: A Loving Choice, Adoptions from the Heart, Family Options and Open Arms. We think we have narrowed it down to Family Options and Open Arms, but are curious if anyone has any experience with any of these agencies. If so can you PM me?
Thanks and I look forward to getting to know everyone!