New, with complicated questions.

courtneyrae13

Hi ladies,

First, I just want to say, I have been reading some other posts, and please lord, I am not looking for a "buy a test it's the only way you can know" or "no one can tell you on here if you are pregnant" (a lot of responses are so rude?!) I know these things, that's not what I am asking, I am a little worried and want to ask about similar symptoms and problems...

Okay! Lol. So, DH and I have been married for a little over a month now, and honeymooned 10/14-10/21. About 2 1/2 weeks ago I started feeling really terrible..I was trying to contribute it to a flu shot I got when we came home, but here I am with symptoms growing. I guess I am trying to figure out if anyone has experienced similar or if I might have a viral infection, ect. 

A. Very exausted. I'm talking, trying to hang some clothes and feeling like my body could just give out. Sleeping, and very heavy sleeping..like having a hard time waking up.

B. slight avoidance of food,(no appetite, or very very hungry) . Slight avoidance of smells...more than usual. No vomiting, but every now & then, I get a wave if nausea, commonly early afternoon and evening.

C. Discharge....sorry to be blunt! Almost constant for 1 1/2 week. Mostly opaque/white lotion like...recently it has been so bad that I feel like I am peeing myself! No odor, or itching or burning..

D. "Phantom Cramps" about a week ago I started feeling very bloated, with a bad stomach ache/diareaha, and since then I have been getting "mild cramps" and bloating through out the day. My cramps are usually unbearable, these are more like annoying litle cramps that last for a few minutes.. A twinge or so of lower back pain with them, with mild lower back pain most of the day.

E. the tricky part- I have been on a 3 month regiment of Safryl, which I took my period break the week after we had returned, and everything seemed normal, aside from being much shorter than usual. (2 1/2 days vs 4-5). I have always had an irregular cycle (while not on BC) so I honesty have no ideas what day would be ovulation.. I was taking an antibiotic for 3 days while on my period for a small sinus infection, and I take two anti depressants regularly (that have never caused any health problems.)

So, are any of these things happen to others? I have ha small other things like nipple pain one morning, and an obvious increased sex drive.

I have taken two tests, both say negative, but I am setting up a Dr apt this week to go over problems, cause its just starting to worry me!  

mrsneau

I am kinda new, and yes people can be very rude here. Sorry about that. Idk about your symptoms, maybe they are a side effect of your meds or maybe you do have a viral infection? I'm sure you will get some answers at the doctor, good luck to you

 

 

KdgTeacher

You can't tell people how to respond. 

Everything you described could be PMS symptoms.  Or pregnancy symptoms.  Or you're coming down with a bug.  Jet lagged and coming down form your wedding high. 

 

TielaMarie

While you can't tell people how to respond, you can block them lol.  

I'm sorry if people were rude.  Congratulations on your wedding!

It's hard to say with your symptoms because pregnancy symptoms do mock period symptoms in some people.  It's very difficult to tell them apart.  When I was pregnant with my son, I SWORE I was getting my period.  I had all the classic symptoms: bloated, cramps, swollen breasts but it never came.

Currently trying to conceive #2, and this one is a real *** lol because I have never charted before etc.  What I am gathering from the ladies who have been "less than nice" on the other boards.... If you ovulate later than the middle of your cycle, your pregnancy tests may not show positives right away.  It may even take a few weeks. Oh and... dollar store tests are your friend if you feel the need to test a lot lol.  

Flying can absolutely mess with your cycle.  Especially if you don't fly all that often.

You have a lot going on all at once.  The best advice I can give you is to not let it stress you out.  Go to your appointment and let the Dr lead the way for you  

 

 

sunlavender

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Dreamingmommy4

Umm....not really sure what your symptoms could mean. It could just be your body struggling to recover...wedding, honeymoon, jet lag, your BCPs, PMS, illness...there are too many possibilities. Hopefully your Dr. can help you figure out what is going on. Feel better!

and as for the "mean" ladies on here....they aren't really trying to be mean or hurtful, some of them can just be a little intense. Take it with a grain of salt. Don't let it get to you, it's not personal. Some of them aren't very patient with what they consider to be "stupid" questions, so I recommend asking all your "stupid" sounding questions here where there is little to no snark. Spend some time lurking so you can get the hang of everything and read the newbie link...it helps a lot. 

I hope this helps, GL