"When are you due?"

Serendipity117

DHs coworker just asked me this. I really didn't know how to react so I just played iit off like it was funny, joking that G was 3 months old already. I'm pretty sure the guys wife wanted to smack him.

Now that we're on our way home I just feel like I want to cry. Don't get me wrongn I still have a bunch of weight to lose before I reach my goal but I sure didn't think I looked pregnant anymore. So far I've lost all the baby weight plus a little. Right now my self esteem is just shot.  

lrn327

Ugh, men can be soooo dense!  Sorry this happened to you.  Great job on all of the weight loss and I bet you look awesome.  

It happened to me too and it was actually a woman that I asked me!  It was some of our neighbors that saw me at the drug store and I when I was due.  He was pretty young and I told them I'd already had him, dropped everything I was holding, and start crying.  See, you held it together much better than I did!

missmuffin87

Uggghhh!! Who The F asks that! 

3 days after I had hazel I was working at my studio's dance recital when a mom goes "I thought you already had your child" and I was like beast you saw me a week ago, are you standing here telling me I look just as pregnant as I did right before giving birth! I really just said "yeah I did" but I was so mad and I had been feeling really skinny up until that point too since I had just dropped half the weight I gained during pregnancy. 

Some people are so freaking insensitive.  

OhSewCrafty

Men are generally idiots when it comes to anything female related. Don't let him bother you!! You just had a beautiful baby and you'll get to your goal weight soon!

jillybean800

Chalk that up to a being a man! And 3 months is no time at all, so no need to feel badly!

How many people have told you "You look great!" after you say your baby is 3 months old? I bet a whole bunch! Try to think of them!

tiffanyp

Ugh, I'm sorry. He probably just remembered that you were pregnant and asked without thinking. I'm sure you don't look pregnant anymore, and congrats on the weight loss so far! Sounds like you're doing great

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His wife probably gave him the what-for when they got to the car.  Also, that man is an idiot & you are gorgeous!!

Nicole0012

Gah! Some people are so dumb. I'm sure he's just a clueless man who kind or sort of remembered you were pregnant at one time. Dummy!

 

stephy1221

tiffanyp:

Ugh, I'm sorry. He probably just remembered that you were pregnant and asked without thinking. I'm sure you don't look pregnant anymore, and congrats on the weight loss so far! Sounds like you're doing great

Totally this! My H is terrible at keeping details straight and I can see him saying something like that not because the woman looked pregnant but because he forgot I told him she had the baby. I am sure you look great!

bosha711

OhSewCrafty:

Men are generally idiots when it comes to anything female related. Don't let him bother you!! You just had a beautiful baby and you'll get to your goal weight soon!

janneann1127

Ugh, this is why you never ask a woman when she is due, unless you're talking specifically about it. I'm sorry, men are so dumb! He probably didn't even look, he just remembered that you were pregnant. I think it's awesome that you've already lost the baby weight, seriously, most people don't lose it all for like 9 months. Don't listen to him & just keep doing what you're doing.

jnicolen1

Right there with you!  I've been asked this multiple times.  I like to smile and say, oh no I've already had the baby ... This is just donuts. Makes them feel stupid.