waiting for monday

robbins25

well, come Monday me,DH and his ex wife will be meeting to have papers notarized that their oldest my SD to come here.Tthats leaves me to get her a new Dr  a therapist and school everything is all though out and planned just the reactions of everyone is whats causing the anxiety n stress, since this is a big shock to them that we actually did what needed to be done.

Littlejen22

robbins25:

well, come Monday me,DH and his ex wife will be meeting to have papers notarized that their oldest my SD to come here.Tthats leaves me to get her a new Dr  a therapist and school everything is all though out and planned just the reactions of everyone is whats causing the anxiety n stress, since this is a big shock to them that we actually did what needed to be done.

This. Please do not do 100% of the work and leave them to do nothing or it will continue forever. It is easy to do it bc you are happy for the change but you are not tr only one responsible. Good luck and congrats in the change.  

Kaeldrasmommy

Littlejen22:

robbins25:

well, come Monday me,DH and his ex wife will be meeting to have papers notarized that their oldest my SD to come here.Tthats leaves me to get her a new Dr  a therapist and school everything is all though out and planned just the reactions of everyone is whats causing the anxiety n stress, since this is a big shock to them that we actually did what needed to be done.

This. Please do not do 100% of the work and leave them to do nothing or it will continue forever. It is easy to do it bc you are happy for the change but you are not tr only one responsible. Good luck and congrats in the change.  

ITA.