First of all, thanks for everyone's advice below, helped me understand preferences one way or another!!
Second, What is the deal with Snappis. Another thing that seems like you "have" to use when they're younger, but maybe not so much when they're older?
the Snappis thing definitely confuses me as to When and Why do I need to use them?
Thanks again!
Re: Another PreFold question - re: Snappis
Ditto to everything the previous posters said. There is also a newer(?) type of fastener called "boingos" that hook into the fabric like snappis, but you use one on each side rather than the way the snappi stretches across the front of the diaper. Supposed to be easier? I was swayed by the bright colors and the cute stars on them - they've apparently just launched a newer version and so the older version is on clearance at various online sellers. We used snappis with my son's diapers but I ordered a few boingos to try out.
*Tried to put in a link; the boingo site seems to be down right now. The site shows how to use them and tells where you can buy them. You can google it, though. Also, anyone who has used those and has feedback, I'd be really interested to know more about them (but if they're awful, it's too late, I already bought some). *
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I'm pretty sure the difference for an older vs. younger baby is all in the poop. When they're little, you want to fold the diaper around them because their poop is so runny and they do it so often that you really want to make sure you don't get it all over the cover. When they're older, it's more solid and they don't poop as often, so you don't necessarily have to wrap the diaper around the baby really snuggly.
Snappis kind of confused me too until I actually got mine in the mail and starting using it. I encourage you to get one. They're great.