I know I don't pop up too often but I will admit I've been very disconnected to the world lately
Questions first: Aaron was my first baby I actually gave birth to, my first pregnancy was an early m/c but my body didn't take long to go back to normal. Well lately I've been getting severe pains in my back and abdomen. It's not constant just comes in waves. It's like a stabbing pain and gets worse when I move. Has anyone else had pain like this? I go back to the Dr for my 6 weeks on the 9th and will ask her about it too but wanted to see if anyone else has had this problem. (I know it could be that I haven't exercised lately but it's100+ degrees outside, no thanks).
Vent:A little background, my FI and I have been staying with my parents for the duration of the pregnancy due to the fact that I had to leave work on Dr's orders after they found a ScH early on and wanted to make sure Aaron was okay. This has been really hard because after that my FI has had trouble with jobs, people only want him for a little while during the busy season when they hired him to be full-time. So it hurt us financially (luckily he went back to his old job recently and they are really glad he is back because he's really good at it). After my Dr's appt I am also returning to work so we can get back in sync with everything.
The other problem we have is the fact that I have 3 younger step-brothers, the oldest of them being 14. To put it simply this kid is one of the worst I've ever met and everyone that meets him says this. So my parents set rules for them and what-not, but that doesn't work. This kid wants to run around and act like an adult so that's how we treat him then my step-mom gets upset and says he's just a kid. So anyway, she went on vacation with one of her girlfriend this past week and the first day she leaves my FI and her son get into it. What happened was that her son was running around yelling and my FI told him to stop and her kid just lost it. I was across the house and all I heard was her son yelling and cussing "get out of my house, why the f*** are you even here, I wish they'd kick you out" etc. So maybe 15 minutes later my dad gets home from work, tells us to pack and leave knowing our vehicle is a POS right now, we have no money cause we give it all to them for our apparently "over-due bills", and we literally have no where to go. Really?! So he talks to my step-mom and she's like, "don't make them leave, blah blah blah" She gets back from vacation yesterday and we all talk about it and her reason for us not leaving is we are the only reason she can afford the house we're in (lies, they just blow money. My dad is an E8 in the army and I know the bills and his paycheck. He can afford the house), and because we owe them $1,100 worth of bills. So now I need to get back to work ASAP so we can pay them off (I keep track of our money and bills and don't understand how it's that much but whatever) and move out! We're both stressed, both frustrated, and it honestly seems like nothing can go right for us, ever!
Okay, vent over. Sorry it was so long and rambly and pointless...have some cake now https://1.bp.blogspot.com/--q53tDe89Ws/TtH2YZcrIPI/AAAAAAAAAw8/eOZO2QNBNhI/s1600/i-love-chocolate-cake.jpg