2 things
1) I'm in NY, not far from North NJ. So I'm not any help with NJ EI. NY EI is through the state. DD gets Speech 4x a week, PT 3x a week (upping to 4 at next progress report), Special Instruction 2x a week and OT 2x a week. Everything is covered. Including assistive devices. We'll be getting our stander through a "lending closet." If you want to be close to N. NJ and family, NY isn't a bad idea especially considering the EI benefits.
2) Can you please PM me? DD has microcephaly, hypotonia, global delays, was diagnosed with HIE/prenatal stroke. You're slightly ahead of me in the game and I'd love to hear your experiences.
Re: ~Toastie~