Different Spelling for "Riyleigh"

kravan

So since everyone seems to hate "Riyleigh" please (nicely) suggest other spellings. But I dont really like the plain spelling of "Riley" OR should i go with a diff name altogether???

ubermoose

I've seen Ryleigh and Reilly, and these seem like pretty commonsense spellings.

strawberrytree

mj.reilly:

Riley or different (correctly spelled) name all together.

This. I consider Riley to be a primarily male name, so I would lean towards a different name altogether. If you still want to honour your grandmothers, I suggested Leah on the other thread.  

kravan

"Riley" seems so boring and boyish but I like Ryleigh

Allycat11

Riley, or a  completely different name. 

kravan

i also saw it spelled "Rylei" on somone elses poll. Yes or No???

Starry Again

mj.reilly:

Riley or different (correctly spelled) name all together.

Agreed.

What don't you like about the spelling? Are you craving uniqueness or just something about i's? Because the name still is popular regardless of how you spell it. 

kravan

kravan:

i also saw it spelled "Rylei" on someone elses poll. Yes or No???

kravan

Starry Again:

mj.reilly:

Riley or different (correctly spelled) name all together.

Agreed.

What don't you like about the spelling? Are you craving uniqueness or just something about i's? Because the name still is popular regardless of how you spell it. 

idk. i just want something diff but kind of girly looking because riley looks boyish to me and boring

strawberrytree

kravan:

i also saw it spelled "Rylei" on somone elses poll. Yes or No???

A very strong NO. The reason the name seems boyish to you is because it is a male name that people have started to use on girls. Were there any other names you were considering? If you can give us an idea of some other names you like we can suggest some new names for you to consider.  

kravan

mj.reilly:

kravan:

i also saw it spelled "Rylei" on somone elses poll. Yes or No???

Yikes 

lol im guessing thats a no!

Starry Again

kravan:

Starry Again:

mj.reilly:

Riley or different (correctly spelled) name all together.

Agreed.

What don't you like about the spelling? Are you craving uniqueness or just something about i's? Because the name still is popular regardless of how you spell it. 

idk. i just want something diff but kind of girly looking because riley looks boyish to me and boring

Well Riley is in the top 120 for both male and female so that makes sense.

I would encourage you to search through the SSA list and nymbler.com for some inspiration on names that would be unique yet classy. A few that came up when I searched nymbler were Rory, Bridget, Cassidy. None a top pick for me, but good solid names. 

kravan

strawberrytree:

kravan:

i also saw it spelled "Rylei" on somone elses poll. Yes or No???

A very strong NO. The reason the name seems boyish to you is because it is a male name that people have started to use on girls. Were there any other names you were considering? If you can give us an idea of some other names you like we can suggest some new names for you to consider.  

my husband loves Sawyer and Spencer(Spenser) for a girl. i love them too but for some reason he leans towards unisex or boyish names.

APendola

Is this for a boy?

I think spelling it differently than Riley makes it look like a girl's name.  If that's what you are going for though - you could use Rylee, Rilee, or Ryleigh.

I personally like it best as Riley and for a boy though.

kravan

APendola:

Is this for a boy?

I think spelling it differently than Riley makes it look like a girl's name.  If that's what you are going for though - you could use Rylee, Rilee, or Ryleigh.

I personally like it best as Riley and for a boy though.

Baby Girl

Starry Again

I think Sawyer and Spencer are both fine, but they are both definitely more male than unisex. Although they both showed up as nymbler as girl or boy names... 

here are some more ideas:

https://nameberry.com/list/45/Unisex-Names (please note I do not endorse all of these names, lol) 

evaazalea

I'm sorry but I don't understand how Riley is boyish and boring but Riyleigh is fun and girly. 

To me Riyleigh is Riley is Rylee is Ryleigh, except that only one is spelled properly. This is coming from someone witha niece named Rylee.

It sounds like you should keep looking.  

Starry Again

It's true many people don't like unisex names (especially historically male names now used for females). I am one of these. However, I still think using a correctly spelled name like Sawyer is far preferable to trying to make a unisex name more "girly." Actually Sawyer is growing on me a little

jburdet1

I'm with PP's that I prefer Riley for a boy. Riley is actually a surname on my family's side and I think it's a shame that I cant use it for a possible son because it's going to the girls, so to speak. Anyway, one of my flower girls was Rylie Brooke...she went by her fn and mn.

kravan

C_mo:

kravan:

my husband loves Sawyer and Spencer(Spenser) for a girl. i love them too but for some reason he leans towards unisex or boyish names.

This just makes me sad. Can't parents of girls please just leave the boys names alone? It's hard enough to make a decision half the time without having to worry about if the name has gone to the girls.

This is just a general statement btw. Not directed specifically to you, but people who do this in general. 

Well I like girly names like Amelia, Ella, Sophia, Hannah, Ava, Isabel, Savannah, Caroline, Maycey but he doesnt. I went through the entire alphabet and wrote down the ones that I love and he doesnt like most of them.

pinkie529

kravan:

Starry Again:

mj.reilly:

Riley or different (correctly spelled) name all together.

Agreed.

What don't you like about the spelling? Are you craving uniqueness or just something about i's? Because the name still is popular regardless of how you spell it. 

idk. i just want something diff but kind of girly looking because riley looks boyish to me and boring

 

In that case, I would suggest a different name. I agree that Riley does look boyish. It's a great name, but IMO more fitting for a boy. However, if you really want to use it, then I would stick with the traditional spelling. As others have mentioned, it will just save your child from the hassle later.

I really like the suggestion of Leah (lee-uh) as either a first or middle name to honor your family. Some other name options:

Rena

Liana

Lena

Reva

 

 

SquirrelGirl522

kravan:

Maycey

 Macy/Maci

 Maycey is a terrible spelling for a beautiful name. 

Starry Again

Is there any reason in general your husband favors unisex names? Would he also favor them for a boy, or is it the fact you are having a girl what makes him want to go unisex? Just curious.

At any rate, I would suggest putting some of the names he likes into nymbler then finding a name you really like, and suggesting it to him.  

kravan

Starry Again:

Is there any reason in general your husband favors unisex names? Would he also favor them for a boy, or is it the fact you are having a girl what makes him want to go unisex? Just curious.

At any rate, I would suggest putting some of the names he likes into nymbler then finding a name you really like, and suggesting it to him.  

no i dont think that there is any specific reason. thank you for your suggestions

 

Mrkyrain

I personally really dislike unisex names but if you like them, here are few...

Avery

Peyton

Reese 

 

 

lageorgiapaperie

Here's the thing. Say you go with Riyleigh. When you introduce her to people you're going to say, "here's my daughter, Riley." It is pronounced the same as Riyleigh and will be so much less of a headache for her in the long run b/c people know how to spell it. You don't want to have to say, "here's my daughter Riley, but spelled thisweirdfunkywaythatimadeup." Which you'll have to do so that people don't spell her name wrong on invitations, on FB, text messages, etc.

My advice for you, find a name that you like the sound of, and spell it the correct way. Your daughter will thank you in the future. Trust me, I know. I used to wish my name was spelled Linzie. I would write it that way on all my notes to my friends. I asked if I could get it legally changed, ya, thank goodness my parents said no. I am very glad that while my name has 1985 stamped all over it, it is spelled correctly. Although I do get the "ay" spelling quite often, which bugs me, but that's a whole different story.

kravan

lageorgiapaperie:

Here's the thing. Say you go with Riyleigh. When you introduce her to people you're going to say, "here's my daughter, Riley." It is pronounced the same as Riyleigh and will be so much less of a headache for her in the long run b/c people know how to spell it. You don't want to have to say, "here's my daughter Riley, but spelled thisweirdfunkywaythatimadeup." Which you'll have to do so that people don't spell her name wrong on invitations, on FB, text messages, etc.

My advice for you, find a name that you like the sound of, and spell it the correct way. Your daughter will thank you in the future. Trust me, I know. I used to wish my name was spelled Linzie. I would write it that way on all my notes to my friends. I asked if I could get it legally changed, ya, thank goodness my parents said no. I am very glad that while my name has 1985 stamped all over it, it is spelled correctly. Although I do get the "ay" spelling quite often, which bugs me, but that's a whole different story.

i know what you mean. my name is Kristin and people spell it Kristen Kristan Kriston Kristain but what i hate the most is when they call me Christian or spell it with a "C"

CayleighDawn

I'm going to go completely against the grain here and say that I actually like Riley as a girl's name, but I prefer it spelled Ryleigh. I know most people on this board can't stand it, but I don't think that should sway you too much if it is a name you love. That being said though, please don't spell it Riyleigh. It just looks awkward. No need for the extra i.

fyziksgirl

TysMomPlusOne:

I'm sorry but I don't understand how Riley is boyish and boring but Riyleigh is fun and girly. 

To me Riyleigh is Riley is Rylee is Ryleigh, except that only one is spelled properly. This is coming from someone witha niece named Rylee.

It sounds like you should keep looking.  

All of this. And Riyleigh is just bad. Really, I think adding "leigh" on to the end of a name is bad in general, but that's my personal preference. If you insist on using the name and not spelling it correctly, I think Rylie is one of the better options. But the poor girl will be spelling it out for people and correcting them her whole life.

lageorgiapaperie

kravan:

lageorgiapaperie:

Here's the thing. Say you go with Riyleigh. When you introduce her to people you're going to say, "here's my daughter, Riley." It is pronounced the same as Riyleigh and will be so much less of a headache for her in the long run b/c people know how to spell it. You don't want to have to say, "here's my daughter Riley, but spelled thisweirdfunkywaythatimadeup." Which you'll have to do so that people don't spell her name wrong on invitations, on FB, text messages, etc.

My advice for you, find a name that you like the sound of, and spell it the correct way. Your daughter will thank you in the future. Trust me, I know. I used to wish my name was spelled Linzie. I would write it that way on all my notes to my friends. I asked if I could get it legally changed, ya, thank goodness my parents said no. I am very glad that while my name has 1985 stamped all over it, it is spelled correctly. Although I do get the "ay" spelling quite often, which bugs me, but that's a whole different story.

i know what you mean. my name is Kristin and people spell it Kristen Kristan Kriston Kristain but what i hate the most is when they call me Christian or spell it with a "C"

Then why give your daughter a name that isn't spelled correctly to begin with?

kravan

lageorgiapaperie:

kravan:

lageorgiapaperie:

Here's the thing. Say you go with Riyleigh. When you introduce her to people you're going to say, "here's my daughter, Riley." It is pronounced the same as Riyleigh and will be so much less of a headache for her in the long run b/c people know how to spell it. You don't want to have to say, "here's my daughter Riley, but spelled thisweirdfunkywaythatimadeup." Which you'll have to do so that people don't spell her name wrong on invitations, on FB, text messages, etc.

My advice for you, find a name that you like the sound of, and spell it the correct way. Your daughter will thank you in the future. Trust me, I know. I used to wish my name was spelled Linzie. I would write it that way on all my notes to my friends. I asked if I could get it legally changed, ya, thank goodness my parents said no. I am very glad that while my name has 1985 stamped all over it, it is spelled correctly. Although I do get the "ay" spelling quite often, which bugs me, but that's a whole different story.

i know what you mean. my name is Kristin and people spell it Kristen Kristan Kriston Kristain but what i hate the most is when they call me Christian or spell it with a "C"

Then why give your daughter a name that isn't spelled correctly to begin with?

i dont like the spelling of "Riley" and people are gonna spell any name the way that THEY think it is spelled.

SposaBellarina

kravan:

i dont like the spelling of "Riley" and people are gonna spell any name the way that THEY think it is spelled.

It's a common enough name that most people will assume it's spelled Riley.  Also, take it from a veteran teacher at a very diverse school: kids with you-neek spellings & names tend to become embarrassed or even defensive about their names.

PunkyBooster

I would go with a different name, but I don't like the name Riley in any form. It sounds like a good name for a lab or something.

sweetpea2003

kravan:

i dont like the spelling of "Riley" and people are gonna spell any name the way that THEY think it is spelled.

Yes, people will.  But think about a name like Kimberly.  I would venture to guess that the vast majority of people would spell it the way I did - Kimberly.  Maybe one or two would think it was fun to be Kimberlee or Kymberly.  But I would guess that 0 would assume Kiymberlee.  So a girl with the correct spelling will have a fraction of hte headaches and annoyances as someone with a creative/unique spelling.

So yea, your child might have a few people assume Riley is Rylee or Rylie.  But I am POSITIVE that she will correct them a fraction of the amount.  If she has a spelling like Riyleigh she will have to say "my name is Riyleigh.  R I Y L E I G H."  Her WHOLE LIFE. Noone will assume Riyleigh on the first try.  Ever.

This isn't a name for you.  It is a name for your kid that she has to live with through adulthood.  Think of her.  Not you, your husband, or your grandmothers.  HER.

Jamie074

What about Rylee?

FWIW, I really like that name for a girl. I do prefer the spelling Riley though. 

kacelle

mj.reilly:

Riley or different (correctly spelled) name all together.

Ditto. 

Lilleybug

Personally, I think boy when I hear Riley. I say spell it the way it was intended or choose a more feminine name. 

MelleTX

Question 1 - when are you due? I have found it is difficult to get men to commit to names until much closer to the due date. 

I would suggest you write down your top names and have him do the same. Add them to the  same list and pass it back and forth each crossing out a name until you are left with just one. Then, use that as inspiration to either keep it or find something similar you both LOVE.

BarbourWales04

sweetpea2003:

kravan:

i dont like the spelling of "Riley" and people are gonna spell any name the way that THEY think it is spelled.

Yes, people will.  But think about a name like Kimberly.  I would venture to guess that the vast majority of people would spell it the way I did - Kimberly.  Maybe one or two would think it was fun to be Kimberlee or Kymberly.  But I would guess that 0 would assume Kiymberlee.  So a girl with the correct spelling will have a fraction of hte headaches and annoyances as someone with a creative/unique spelling.

So yea, your child might have a few people assume Riley is Rylee or Rylie.  But I am POSITIVE that she will correct them a fraction of the amount.  If she has a spelling like Riyleigh she will have to say "my name is Riyleigh.  R I Y L E I G H."  Her WHOLE LIFE. Noone will assume Riyleigh on the first try.  Ever.

This isn't a name for you.  It is a name for your kid that she has to live with through adulthood.  Think of her.  Not you, your husband, or your grandmothers.  HER.

This x1000. Our son's first name is "Alexander" ("Alex" as an NM) and his middle name is pretty darn unique- but it's a middle name that he'll never use, and if he ever does then all he has to do is change one letter to correct the spelling (because people WILL get it wrong). 

A friend of mine teaches preschool, and she has a kid in her class called "Caiydensce" (pronounced CAY-dense-see). The poor child is three and can't pronounce her own name, never mind spell it- when they practiced how to write their names, she practiced "Grace" (her middle name). Her family calls her "Kay", which begs the question why they named her "Caiydensce" in the first place. She also has a sister named "Kennideye" (Kennedy) and a brother named "Nowaih" (Noah- though how that happened I have no idea).

TBH, and I'm not trying to be mean here, but I can't see anyone hiring someone named "Riyleigh". How would that look on business cards? On diplomas? To me, it sounds like an excellent name for a yellow lab- and while I understand that you want to honor your grandmothers and you don't like feminine names, the fact is that "Leah" is a much better choice. 

I get where you're coming from, because like I said my son has a very unique middle name (the only other people who have it as far as I know are all related to me). It's my late maternal grandfather's first name. The man practically raised me, and I wanted to honor him. But I wouldn't have given his first name to my son simply because NOBODY would get the spelling right, ever. And as much as I adored my grandfather, I needed to give my son a name that he would be able to grow into. It wasn't about me, it was about my son. "Alex" is something he won't get wedgied on the playground for.

kravan

SmileyGirl18:

BarbourWales04:

sweetpea2003:

kravan:

i dont like the spelling of "Riley" and people are gonna spell any name the way that THEY think it is spelled.

someone named "Riyleigh". How would that look on business cards? On diplomas? To me, it sounds like an excellent name for a yellow lab- and while I understand that you want to honor your grandmothers and you don't like feminine names, the fact is that "Leah" is a much better choice. 

 

This.  My dog's name is actually Riley, spelled the traditional (if there is a traditional) way.  This name always makes me think of a dog. 

i like feminine names. my husband does not. he like unisex names.

Cranang

Your husband does know that the baby will have a vagina right??

Vagina=Girl names

Penis=Boy names