TTC After a Loss

Chart stalk, anyone?

(I feel like I ask you all for a chart stalk about this same time every month, so thanks in advance for indulging my over-obsessiveness :)

I got a positive OPK on Tuesday. Judging on CM and past chart history, I was expecting to O on Wednesday. By Wednesday, OPK was showing negative again, which I thought was a little odd, since I always get two days of positives. Expected a temp rise on Thursday (yesterday), and it was a little higher, but not much. Today's was a little higher than yesterday's, but still not the rise I usually get. I haven't been sleeping well lately due to allergies, which wake me up frequently, so I do have a lot of open circles.

If I put in a high dummy temp for tomorrow, it gives me dotted CHs on Monday, which doesn't seem likely, given I didn't get a positive OPK until Tuesday (and I test 2-3 times per day).

I'm dreading feeling like maybe I haven't O'd yet, which would SUCK since I'm supposed to start progesterone supps once I get CHs. If I did O and my temp is that low, then I probably need the supps more than ever. If I didn't O and I start supps, then the supps will prevent me from trying to O again, which totally shoots this cycle dead.

Aargh... stupid body. Anyone else care to take a gander and let me know what you think? A round of Big Girl Floats on me for your efforts.

BFP #1 10/6/11 | EDD 6/15/12 | MMC 11/7/11 @ 8w3d | D&C 11/14/11

BFP #2 8/22/12 | EDD 5/5/13 | DS1 born 5/9/13

BFP #3 4/25/15 | EDD 1/7/16 | MMC 7/2/15 @ 13w1d | D&E 7/8/15

BFP #4 12/9/15 | EDD 8/22/16 | DS2 born 5/18/16 at 26w2d

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Re: Chart stalk, anyone?

  • your temps are saying you didn't but they aren't in any way reliable. Try and get a good nights sleep - maybe take a claritin or something to clear your sinuses. If tomorrow your temp is up I'd say it's safe to assume you did O on Wednesday and start the progesterone.
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    I don't think your temps are reliable at all. You're probably sleeping poorly because of allergies AND the stress you feel about temping in the morning. I know this because I have similiar stress. I feel like everytime I "expect" a low temp in the morning it is high, and everytime I expect a high temp it is low. It's just our stress messing with us. I'm sorry you're going through this. If I were you, I would shift my focus to my OPK's and CM. In that department, I think you O'd sometime within the last 48 hours. Please don't take it out on your body. I think it's probably working better than you think, it's just giving you some wacky temps.

    On another note, your timing looks good!

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  • imageDC2London:
    When my allergies get bad, I tend to breathe through my mouth at night.  Could you be doing this and getting artificially low temps bc of it?

    I thought about this, and I suppose it's a possibility, but when I breathe through my mouth I tend to know it because I wake up with a dry mouth. I haven't noticed the dry mouth, so I think I'm breathing through my nose? Not 100% on that, though.

    BFP #1 10/6/11 | EDD 6/15/12 | MMC 11/7/11 @ 8w3d | D&C 11/14/11

    BFP #2 8/22/12 | EDD 5/5/13 | DS1 born 5/9/13

    BFP #3 4/25/15 | EDD 1/7/16 | MMC 7/2/15 @ 13w1d | D&E 7/8/15

    BFP #4 12/9/15 | EDD 8/22/16 | DS2 born 5/18/16 at 26w2d

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