SIL is being an ash wipe

ateal2490

ImThisBabysMom:

Sclines2595:

Redneckmommy2011:

Wow, i cant believe some of the posts that i am reading in response to this!!!!!!! HONESTLY?! Ya your husband pulled a joke on his sister, whoopdie friggin doo. I am #2 of 7 kids in my family and we do stuff like this to eachother all the time. I have two sisters and they are both heavier then i am and they would NEVER act like this if i said something about their weight. It sounds to me like your SIL needs to grow up and learn to take a joke and not be so damn concerned with her looks. I would be embarrassed at her behavior. if her image is that important to her then she shouldnt have a facebook or myspace or whatever. Her personal life should be kept to herself.

I wouldnt judge your husband for playing a joke on his sister, and to anybody who thinks that was an a$$hole thing to do, obviously times have changed enough that sibling rivalry is a thing of the past. Where i come from, it's

considered FUN. People need to get over it. I thought it was entertaining.

Thank GOD you posted!! I was thinking that I was the only friggin' person on the planet who didn't see it as a big deal. Her feelings obviously got hurt - but she overreacted and shouldn't have been such a pansy about it IMO.  She should have told us, "Hey - I dont want that up there...will you take that down!" Instead of calling and screaming and yelling and cursing us.  

I just went through all of my Facebook albums - and I actually found the picture in my albums and I didn't even know it was there.  It's been on my Facebook(along with others that I took that day at the hospital) forever.  She just forgot that it was there--as did I.   

 

Well good thing someone agreed with you so you can feel justified with all of it. I hope no one ever offends you and you get upset/over react. Heaven forbid some people get upset over something neither you nor redneck can understand because it wouldn't bother you. Now go back to posting all the complaints about your life as usual.

 

Oh, I am so, so proud of you.

Btw, OP, if this chick thinks your being an azz, you're being an azz.  

Sclines2595

ateal2490:

ImThisBabysMom:

Sclines2595:

Redneckmommy2011:

Wow, i cant believe some of the posts that i am reading in response to this!!!!!!! HONESTLY?! Ya your husband pulled a joke on his sister, whoopdie friggin doo. I am #2 of 7 kids in my family and we do stuff like this to eachother all the time. I have two sisters and they are both heavier then i am and they would NEVER act like this if i said something about their weight. It sounds to me like your SIL needs to grow up and learn to take a joke and not be so damn concerned with her looks. I would be embarrassed at her behavior. if her image is that important to her then she shouldnt have a facebook or myspace or whatever. Her personal life should be kept to herself.

I wouldnt judge your husband for playing a joke on his sister, and to anybody who thinks that was an a$$hole thing to do, obviously times have changed enough that sibling rivalry is a thing of the past. Where i come from, it's

considered FUN. People need to get over it. I thought it was entertaining.

Thank GOD you posted!! I was thinking that I was the only friggin' person on the planet who didn't see it as a big deal. Her feelings obviously got hurt - but she overreacted and shouldn't have been such a pansy about it IMO.  She should have told us, "Hey - I dont want that up there...will you take that down!" Instead of calling and screaming and yelling and cursing us.  

I just went through all of my Facebook albums - and I actually found the picture in my albums and I didn't even know it was there.  It's been on my Facebook(along with others that I took that day at the hospital) forever.  She just forgot that it was there--as did I.   

 

Well good thing someone agreed with you so you can feel justified with all of it. I hope no one ever offends you and you get upset/over react. Heaven forbid some people get upset over something neither you nor redneck can understand because it wouldn't bother you. Now go back to posting all the complaints about your life as usual.

 

Oh, I am so, so proud of you.

Btw, OP, if this chick thinks your being an azz, you're being an azz.  

She can think I'm being an azz - that's fine. She is entitled to her opinion as are the rest of the ladies here...as am I.   

gisa886

Sclines2595:

ateal2490:

ImThisBabysMom:

Sclines2595:

Redneckmommy2011:

Wow, i cant believe some of the posts that i am reading in response to this!!!!!!! HONESTLY?! Ya your husband pulled a joke on his sister, whoopdie friggin doo. I am #2 of 7 kids in my family and we do stuff like this to eachother all the time. I have two sisters and they are both heavier then i am and they would NEVER act like this if i said something about their weight. It sounds to me like your SIL needs to grow up and learn to take a joke and not be so damn concerned with her looks. I would be embarrassed at her behavior. if her image is that important to her then she shouldnt have a facebook or myspace or whatever. Her personal life should be kept to herself.

I wouldnt judge your husband for playing a joke on his sister, and to anybody who thinks that was an a$$hole thing to do, obviously times have changed enough that sibling rivalry is a thing of the past. Where i come from, it's

considered FUN. People need to get over it. I thought it was entertaining.

Thank GOD you posted!! I was thinking that I was the only friggin' person on the planet who didn't see it as a big deal. Her feelings obviously got hurt - but she overreacted and shouldn't have been such a pansy about it IMO.  She should have told us, "Hey - I dont want that up there...will you take that down!" Instead of calling and screaming and yelling and cursing us.  

I just went through all of my Facebook albums - and I actually found the picture in my albums and I didn't even know it was there.  It's been on my Facebook(along with others that I took that day at the hospital) forever.  She just forgot that it was there--as did I.   

 

Well good thing someone agreed with you so you can feel justified with all of it. I hope no one ever offends you and you get upset/over react. Heaven forbid some people get upset over something neither you nor redneck can understand because it wouldn't bother you. Now go back to posting all the complaints about your life as usual.

 

Oh, I am so, so proud of you.

Btw, OP, if this chick thinks your being an azz, you're being an azz.  

She can think I'm being an azz - that's fine. She is entitled to her opinion as are the rest of the ladies here...as am I.   

They aren't the only two who think you are being an azz. I'm also 100% sure you are making your SIL out to be worse than she really is. You just needed something to biiitch about  

Sclines2595

gisa886:

Sclines2595:

ateal2490:

ImThisBabysMom:

Sclines2595:

Redneckmommy2011:

Wow, i cant believe some of the posts that i am reading in response to this!!!!!!! HONESTLY?! Ya your husband pulled a joke on his sister, whoopdie friggin doo. I am #2 of 7 kids in my family and we do stuff like this to eachother all the time. I have two sisters and they are both heavier then i am and they would NEVER act like this if i said something about their weight. It sounds to me like your SIL needs to grow up and learn to take a joke and not be so damn concerned with her looks. I would be embarrassed at her behavior. if her image is that important to her then she shouldnt have a facebook or myspace or whatever. Her personal life should be kept to herself.

I wouldnt judge your husband for playing a joke on his sister, and to anybody who thinks that was an a$$hole thing to do, obviously times have changed enough that sibling rivalry is a thing of the past. Where i come from, it's

considered FUN. People need to get over it. I thought it was entertaining.

Thank GOD you posted!! I was thinking that I was the only friggin' person on the planet who didn't see it as a big deal. Her feelings obviously got hurt - but she overreacted and shouldn't have been such a pansy about it IMO.  She should have told us, "Hey - I dont want that up there...will you take that down!" Instead of calling and screaming and yelling and cursing us.  

I just went through all of my Facebook albums - and I actually found the picture in my albums and I didn't even know it was there.  It's been on my Facebook(along with others that I took that day at the hospital) forever.  She just forgot that it was there--as did I.   

 

Well good thing someone agreed with you so you can feel justified with all of it. I hope no one ever offends you and you get upset/over react. Heaven forbid some people get upset over something neither you nor redneck can understand because it wouldn't bother you. Now go back to posting all the complaints about your life as usual.

 

Oh, I am so, so proud of you.

Btw, OP, if this chick thinks your being an azz, you're being an azz.  

She can think I'm being an azz - that's fine. She is entitled to her opinion as are the rest of the ladies here...as am I.   

They aren't the only two who think you are being an azz. I'm also 100% sure you are making your SIL out to be worse than she really is. You just needed something to biiitch about  

Yep - your right  

Redneckmommy2011

Well, ok for all you ladies who think i didnt read the post.....i did. and i understand exactly what was said. and for those who think that myself and sclines can just go back to posting stuff cause we need to *** about something....maybe the rest of the ladies on here can follow the same advice. this board is for APRIL mommies, not for those ladies who only think they are worthy. EVERYBODY is entitled to their own opinion on here and I know how gross it feels to be after being pregnant i am currently 10 days away from my 3rd little one. And i gained 651bs with my last pregnancy. If i went back thru and checked what everybody has posted im sure there is a *** and moan from all of you on here about some family member and you all took the support on your side. Sclines SIL did over-react in my opinion, looks are the last thing a mother should be worried about, and a GROWN UP wouldnt have handled it the way she did. So nobody should be judging sclines husband for his immaturity AT ALL. Door swings both ways there ladies.

 

 

Redneckmommy2011

My appearance was the last thing on my mind after i had my children, i was more concerned with my new angels then how gross i felt. I was proud of the accomplishment of healthy babies. The GROSS pictures of me are a happy reminder.

Sclines2595

Redneckmommy2011:

Well, ok for all you ladies who think i didnt read the post.....i did. and i understand exactly what was said. and for those who think that myself and sclines can just go back to posting stuff cause we need to *** about something....maybe the rest of the ladies on here can follow the same advice. this board is for APRIL mommies, not for those ladies who only think they are worthy. EVERYBODY is entitled to their own opinion on here and I know how gross it feels to be after being pregnant i am currently 10 days away from my 3rd little one. And i gained 651bs with my last pregnancy. If i went back thru and checked what everybody has posted im sure there is a *** and moan from all of you on here about some family member and you all took the support on your side. Sclines SIL did over-react in my opinion, looks are the last thing a mother should be worried about, and a GROWN UP wouldnt have handled it the way she did. So nobody should be judging sclines husband for his immaturity AT ALL. Door swings both ways there ladies.

 

 

Well said! and FWIW - i even tried to talk to SIL this morning to smooth things over and she wouldn't even talk to me about it.   I don't want DH and SIL fighting over something as stupid as a picture on Facebook - I lost my brother 3 years ago in a car accident - so I understand how precious a sibling relationship is-- and DH and SIL are very close.  and IMO - fighting over something as little as a picture is petty as all get out! 

BabyMakes6

gisa886:

Sclines2595:

ateal2490:

ImThisBabysMom:

Sclines2595:

Redneckmommy2011:

Wow, i cant believe some of the posts that i am reading in response to this!!!!!!! HONESTLY?! Ya your husband pulled a joke on his sister, whoopdie friggin doo. I am #2 of 7 kids in my family and we do stuff like this to eachother all the time. I have two sisters and they are both heavier then i am and they would NEVER act like this if i said something about their weight. It sounds to me like your SIL needs to grow up and learn to take a joke and not be so damn concerned with her looks. I would be embarrassed at her behavior. if her image is that important to her then she shouldnt have a facebook or myspace or whatever. Her personal life should be kept to herself.

I wouldnt judge your husband for playing a joke on his sister, and to anybody who thinks that was an a$$hole thing to do, obviously times have changed enough that sibling rivalry is a thing of the past. Where i come from, it's

considered FUN. People need to get over it. I thought it was entertaining.

Thank GOD you posted!! I was thinking that I was the only friggin' person on the planet who didn't see it as a big deal. Her feelings obviously got hurt - but she overreacted and shouldn't have been such a pansy about it IMO.  She should have told us, "Hey - I dont want that up there...will you take that down!" Instead of calling and screaming and yelling and cursing us.  

I just went through all of my Facebook albums - and I actually found the picture in my albums and I didn't even know it was there.  It's been on my Facebook(along with others that I took that day at the hospital) forever.  She just forgot that it was there--as did I.   

 

Well good thing someone agreed with you so you can feel justified with all of it. I hope no one ever offends you and you get upset/over react. Heaven forbid some people get upset over something neither you nor redneck can understand because it wouldn't bother you. Now go back to posting all the complaints about your life as usual.

 

Oh, I am so, so proud of you.

Btw, OP, if this chick thinks your being an azz, you're being an azz.  

She can think I'm being an azz - that's fine. She is entitled to her opinion as are the rest of the ladies here...as am I.   

They aren't the only two who think you are being an azz. I'm also 100% sure you are making your SIL out to be worse than she really is. You just needed something to biiitch about  

this.

Honestly, one of the first things you said about your SIL was that she is pretty and gets to be a SAHM because her DH is loaded and a CEO.... Jealous maybe? Maybe that is why you think embarrassing her is ok.

Would you think it was ok if someone posted some of your not so polite comments from here (that you never thought would be shared) on your FB page for family/friends/friends of friends to see? Remember, what goes around comes around.

ImThisBabysMom

Redneckmommy2011:

Well, ok for all you ladies who think i didnt read the post.....i did. and i understand exactly what was said. and for those who think that myself and sclines can just go back to posting stuff cause we need to *** about something....maybe the rest of the ladies on here can follow the same advice. this board is for APRIL mommies, not for those ladies who only think they are worthy. EVERYBODY is entitled to their own opinion on here and I know how gross it feels to be after being pregnant i am currently 10 days away from my 3rd little one. And i gained 651bs with my last pregnancy. If i went back thru and checked what everybody has posted im sure there is a *** and moan from all of you on here about some family member and you all took the support on your side. Sclines SIL did over-react in my opinion, looks are the last thing a mother should be worried about, and a GROWN UP wouldnt have handled it the way she did. So nobody should be judging sclines husband for his immaturity AT ALL. Door swings both ways there ladies.

 

 

I for one am glad captain obvious said we all are entitled to our opinions. Yes we all are. Just like posting anything, you have to be ready for any and all responses. But the only one she cares about is the one that agrees with her despite what numerous others say. So perhaps her post should have said...."if you don't agree with me, dont waste your time posting." I like getting varied responses when I post. Sometimes I learn something new or see it from a different point of view. And my comment about complaining as usual was only directed at her, not you. I'm not familiar enough with you or your posts to say anything about you redneck. ETA and keep in mind, we are only ever going to hear one version of this story. How do we know Sclines isn't playing up the drama from SIL to make her look bad.

Sclines2595

I guess it's good to know where I stand --- the groups constant complainer. 

tiannalee

Sclines2595:

Redneckmommy2011:

 

Well said! and FWIW - i even tried to talk to SIL this morning to smooth things over and she wouldn't even talk to me about it.   I don't want DH and SIL fighting over something as stupid as a picture on Facebook - I lost my brother 3 years ago in a car accident - so I understand how precious a sibling relationship is-- and DH and SIL are very close.  and IMO - fighting over something as little as a picture is petty as all get out! 

See, here's the thing you aren't getting.  This WASNT a little thing to your SIL.  It was obviously a big thing that hurt enough to make her yell and not want to speak to either of you.  If you want to continue to see it as something 'as little as a picture' then you are never going to understand why she is so hurt.  The fact of the matter is, it hurt her and upset her.  The adult thing for your husband to do is to say exactly this, "I am terribly sorry that what I did hurt your feelings.  I honestly didn't expect this kind of reaction from you and from your reaction it is now clear to me that it hurt you.  I am very sorry that my actions hurt you". You dont have to understand it if you dont want to, just accept it.  Regardless of her reaction, your husband was wrong and since he drew first blood, he should be the one to apologize.  

ateal2490

Sclines2595:

gisa886:

Sclines2595:

ateal2490:

ImThisBabysMom:

Sclines2595:

Redneckmommy2011:

Wow, i cant believe some of the posts that i am reading in response to this!!!!!!! HONESTLY?! Ya your husband pulled a joke on his sister, whoopdie friggin doo. I am #2 of 7 kids in my family and we do stuff like this to eachother all the time. I have two sisters and they are both heavier then i am and they would NEVER act like this if i said something about their weight. It sounds to me like your SIL needs to grow up and learn to take a joke and not be so damn concerned with her looks. I would be embarrassed at her behavior. if her image is that important to her then she shouldnt have a facebook or myspace or whatever. Her personal life should be kept to herself.

I wouldnt judge your husband for playing a joke on his sister, and to anybody who thinks that was an a$$hole thing to do, obviously times have changed enough that sibling rivalry is a thing of the past. Where i come from, it's

considered FUN. People need to get over it. I thought it was entertaining.

Thank GOD you posted!! I was thinking that I was the only friggin' person on the planet who didn't see it as a big deal. Her feelings obviously got hurt - but she overreacted and shouldn't have been such a pansy about it IMO.  She should have told us, "Hey - I dont want that up there...will you take that down!" Instead of calling and screaming and yelling and cursing us.  

I just went through all of my Facebook albums - and I actually found the picture in my albums and I didn't even know it was there.  It's been on my Facebook(along with others that I took that day at the hospital) forever.  She just forgot that it was there--as did I.   

 

Well good thing someone agreed with you so you can feel justified with all of it. I hope no one ever offends you and you get upset/over react. Heaven forbid some people get upset over something neither you nor redneck can understand because it wouldn't bother you. Now go back to posting all the complaints about your life as usual.

 

Oh, I am so, so proud of you.

Btw, OP, if this chick thinks your being an azz, you're being an azz.  

She can think I'm being an azz - that's fine. She is entitled to her opinion as are the rest of the ladies here...as am I.   

They aren't the only two who think you are being an azz. I'm also 100% sure you are making your SIL out to be worse than she really is. You just needed something to biiitch about  

Yep - your right  

You should go back and check out Gisa's siggy. Just sayin. 

JFH2010

Sclines2595:

I guess it's good to know where I stand --- the groups constant complainer. 

Wow, this has gotten a little out of hand. I'm probably not the only one with this opinion: I like your contribution to the board and I have never had a problem with your previous posts. In this case, I do think your husband was being an a$$. Unless I'm missing something, his intention was to make her feel bad/irritate her. But you really don't deserve the flaming you've received here. People complain all. the. time. on this board, but singling you out doesn't seem valid to me. (cue the rainbows & puppies comments...)

ImThisBabysMom

JFH2010:

Sclines2595:

I guess it's good to know where I stand --- the groups constant complainer. 

Wow, this has gotten a little out of hand. I'm probably not the only one with this opinion: I like your contribution to the board and I have never had a problem with your previous posts. In this case, I do think your husband was being an a$$. Unless I'm missing something, his intention was to make her feel bad/irritate her. But you really don't deserve the flaming you've received here. People complain all. the. time. on this board, but singling you out doesn't seem valid to me. (cue the rainbows & puppies comments...)

I wouldn't go all puppies and rainbows on you. Sclines does complain about her life a lot. So I can't understand where she can't accept SIL being upset and that her H is in the wrong. Like the lady who tried to school Sclines at the ice cream shoppe or wherever. For someone who gets so mad about things that happen to her, she is not all understanding about what happens to offend someone else.

laurakaz13

gisa886:

Sounds like your husband was being a tool on purpose and looking for a reaction. I would have done the same thing and he should apologize. What a douchecanoe. 

This. Your DH is azz! 

lizby

Lurking from 3rd tri board..

 Who cares??? It's not like she looks like that anymore lol. I wince every time I see a picture of myself pregnant but I'm not going to wipe every unflattering image of myself off of the internet.. My BIL did something similar recently. I had posted a bunch of pictures of us from parties and stuff when we were younger and he untagged himself because he was fat in all of them.. how immature is that? People need to have a little humility.. we don't need to look like supermodels in every picture.

BetterTogether1023

Honestly, I'd be pissed too. If she wanted pictures of her post delivery on Facebook, she or her DH would have posted the pics themselves.

One of our family members posted pics of me, LO and DH on Facebook from 12 hours after birth and I wasn't happy about it. In this case, they did it out of joy so I did not react to them. If it was years later, as a joke, this person would have heard from me.