Fertiles have to be the dumbest race ever

MsGMChick

I just lost my sh! t.. twice. Lord help me. 

From my FB feed where a girl posted a fake pregnancy announcement:

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Friend who posted it: Lol I know we thought it b funny

19 hours ago ? Like

Me: Really? You thought it would be funny? Read this. https://fbcdn-sphotos-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-prn1/527419_3717417373138_1206844080_3813871_2009507004_n.jpg

19 hours ago ? Like

Friend: You suck! Lol

19 hours ago ? Like

Fertile who's stupid: i thought it was humorous.... it is sad that some women cannot conceive, and it is even more sad to lose a baby BUT you cant feel guilty for every women in existence because you can conceive. (which i know you cant i am just referring to th...See More

12 hours ago ? Like

Friend who posted it: tyler and i thought it was funny to do

11 hours ago ? Like ?  1

Friend who posted it: esp since those that know me well know i cant have anymore

11 hours ago ? Like

Fertile who's stupid: as you should that was my point just incase i confused you lol

11 hours ago ? Like

Friend who posted it: i know just re enforcing it

11 hours ago ? Like

Another of her friends: I couldn't click on the link with my iPod but from reading the comments, I'm glad. April fools is about jokes and I'd you can't joke, the. What's the point? Lol. Not everything should be taken seriously, ever.

10 hours ago ? Like ?  2

Fertile who's stupid: ?^^^^^ i agree... and the link was a tid of a mind ** lol kinda like what therapists do in their office but someone on fb instead?

10 hours ago ? Like

Me: You're entitled to your opinion but so am I. If you've never suffered through IF, you have no right to judge how it feels. I'm just the one who chose to voice my opinion. 1 in 8 couples suffer infertility. That means there's many of your friends that this "joke" hurt but chose to suffer in silence instead of getting yelled at by you insensitive, rude now, people. I hope they realize they aren't alone and you guys don't typically threat your friends that way. A sense of humor is one thing but this just isn't something to joke about.

about an hour ago ? Like

Fertile who's stupid: i was told i was infertile and was proven wrong 4 times, in most cases doctors are wrong and do the wrong testing and come to find out it is the partner not you, my mother in law had to go through all of this the tears the happy the everything and you know what she condones pregnancy april fools jokes..... im not rude im honest. oh and my mother in law has 2 children one of which i have married, if someone can afford ivf they can afford adoption too if they cant settle for a child that isnt biologically theirs then they didnt want one too bad in the 1st place did they?

8 minutes ago ? Like

Friend who posted it: OMG ppl it was a freaking joke move on Tyler and I thought it would b funny yes losing a baby sucks yes infertility sucks but geeze it's a DAMN APRIL FOOLS JOKE

7 minutes ago ? Like

Fertile who's stupid: right!! LOL that was my point april fools joke some people cant stand others enjoyment. her area of expertise in her career must be in ivf..... you always see those who have careers in the fields you are getting humor out of get furious over silly things... JOKE JOKE JOKE OMG in the 90s no one would have said a thing... if i am indeed being mean to your friend then im sorry but i dont think i am the bad guy here!

4 minutes ago ? Like

Me pissed off: How many babies did you adopt? Since it's so noble and you somehow believe you get to pass judgement on whether or not I really want a baby? No. I don't work as a Reproductive Endocrinologist (those people who do do IVF). I am one of those 1 in 8 couples. I have been trying for over 2 years. The doctors are not wrong and all the correct tests have been done. I'm not stupid. I know how to be intelligent. You on the other hand are ignorant and judgmental. So what if the infertility "isn't me"? Should I leave my husband? Is that what you did? Since you PROVED THEM WRONG! And ps- I'm glad your mother in law says so. I'd forgotten she was omnipotent.

 

CousinVicki

this was so long i stopped reading after the first sentence.  and lol @ facebook 'fights'

 

 

MsGMChick

CousinVicki:

this was so long i stopped reading after the first sentence.  and lol @ facebook 'fights'

 

 

We already know how you feel since you said you were better than us with your non IF baby. STFU.  

CousinVicki

MsGMChick:

CousinVicki:

this was so long i stopped reading after the first sentence.  and lol @ facebook 'fights'

 

 

We already know how you feel since you said you were better than us with your non IF baby. STFU.  

 

you are such a douche.  i conceived on a BREAK. this wasnt exactly a 'non-IF' baby.  so i guess everyone else on here or on SAIF who got pregnant on a break are not really IF?  you should go over there and tell them that!  really, go ahead. 

 

 

hmz819

I think omnipotent is 2 big of a word for that stupid girl!  (Loved your response though)

People can be so stupid and insensitive! 

*edit spelling*

MsGMChick

CousinVicki:

MsGMChick:

CousinVicki:

this was so long i stopped reading after the first sentence.  and lol @ facebook 'fights'

We already know how you feel since you said you were better than us with your non IF baby. STFU.  

 

you are such a douche.  i conceived on a BREAK. this wasnt exactly a 'non-IF' baby.  so i guess everyone else on here or on SAIF who got pregnant on a break are not really IF?  you should go over there and tell them that!  really, go ahead. 

I understand break babies. YOU are the one who said you were better than me since I didn't have a baby and you did from no treatments. I see your selective memory is acting up. Good thing you deleted all your old posts about it. I'd hate for your group of newb followers to see your real light.  

tgreenf

CousinVicki:

this was so long i stopped reading after the first sentence.  and lol @ facebook 'fights'

 

 

Dear Lord, must you always have a smarta## comment?

MsGMChick

hmz819:

I think omnipotent is 2 big of a word for that stupid girl!  (Loved your response though)

People can be so stupid and insensitive! 

*edit spelling*

Right? LOL. Thanks.  

mandyandmike2009

tgreenf:

CousinVicki:

this was so long i stopped reading after the first sentence.  and lol @ facebook 'fights'

 

 

Dear Lord, must you always have a smarta## comment?

you took the words right out of my mouth.

katib77

CV if you have nothing to contribute to the post why waste the time typing out that you didn't bother to read it?

GM - I think you should point out it's like any other disease, you wouldn't do an april fools joke about cancer so why should this be any different? (Thanks FLynda for that one).

Clearly that girls is a douche. 

jessi1988

First of all, if I were your "friend" I would have removed that post as soon as I realized it was in bad taste and offended someone on my friends list. Second, they are both twats. You did well responding with class, I'm not sure I would have been able to hold out on calling her names.

rjade9

I want to throat punch the girl said that if you can afford IVF you can afford adoption!

buckeyebaby814

I don't even know how to respond other than people are ignorant.  I can't believe she really thinks that all these people struggling with IF just have doctors who are wrong.  Give me a break.

MsGMChick

rjade9:

I want to throat punch the girl said that if you can afford IVF you can afford adoption!

This x 21987312 billion.. Especially since she followed it by saying if we can't adopt and love a baby who isn't biologically ours, we didn't really want a baby in the first place, did we?

 

belle4304

I hope you've since deleted this person from your friend list.... those who don't live through IF really just don't understand!  

crazytowne

MsGMChick:

rjade9:

I want to throat punch the girl said that if you can afford IVF you can afford adoption!

This x 21987312 billion.. Especially since she followed it by saying if we can't adopt and love a baby who isn't biologically ours, we didn't really want a baby in the first place, did we?

 What a ***! I think I would have to unfriend whoever led you to that.  Or at least hide them.  Argh!

CousinVicki

MsGMChick:

CousinVicki:

MsGMChick:

CousinVicki:

this was so long i stopped reading after the first sentence.  and lol @ facebook 'fights'

We already know how you feel since you said you were better than us with your non IF baby. STFU.  

 

you are such a douche.  i conceived on a BREAK. this wasnt exactly a 'non-IF' baby.  so i guess everyone else on here or on SAIF who got pregnant on a break are not really IF?  you should go over there and tell them that!  really, go ahead. 

I understand break babies. YOU are the one who said you were better than me since I didn't have a baby and you did from no treatments.  

 

as i stated previously, you are *clearly* insane.  i NEVER SAID THIS.  why would someone who went AND IS GOING THROUGH IF say they were 'better' than someone going through the same thing?   the level of crazy on this board just jumped up another notch!

 

 

 

 

MsGMChick

crazytowne:

MsGMChick:

rjade9:

I want to throat punch the girl said that if you can afford IVF you can afford adoption!

This x 21987312 billion.. Especially since she followed it by saying if we can't adopt and love a baby who isn't biologically ours, we didn't really want a baby in the first place, did we?

 What a ***! I think I would have to unfriend whoever led you to that.  Or at least hide them.  Argh!

I was waiting to see what come back they had to my last post, but you girls are right. I just deleted her now. My blood pressure can't take any more pure stupid. 

pulga131

katib77:

CV if you have nothing to contribute to the post why waste the time typing out that you didn't bother to read it?

GM - I think you should point out it's like any other disease, you wouldn't do an april fools joke about cancer so why should this be any different? (Thanks FLynda for that one).

Clearly that girls is a douche. 

Thats exactly what I was thinking. 

CousinVicki

MsGMChick:

[ My blood pressure can't take any more pure stupid. 

me either!

 

see, we agree on something!

ksfrye

katib77:

GM - I think you should point out it's like any other disease, you wouldn't do an april fools joke about cancer so why should this be any different? (Thanks FLynda for that one).

 

MsGMChick

CousinVicki:

MsGMChick:

CousinVicki:

MsGMChick:

CousinVicki:

this was so long i stopped reading after the first sentence.  and lol @ facebook 'fights'

We already know how you feel since you said you were better than us with your non IF baby. STFU.  

 

you are such a douche.  i conceived on a BREAK. this wasnt exactly a 'non-IF' baby.  so i guess everyone else on here or on SAIF who got pregnant on a break are not really IF?  you should go over there and tell them that!  really, go ahead. 

I understand break babies. YOU are the one who said you were better than me since I didn't have a baby and you did from no treatments.  

 

as i stated previously, you are *clearly* insane.  i NEVER SAID THIS.  why would someone who went AND IS GOING THROUGH IF say they were 'better' than someone going through the same thing?   the level of crazy on this board just jumped up another notch!

 

Seriously, just bow out gracefully. You know you said it. I know you said it. Nothing you can do will ever undo it.  

Why did you say it? I don't know. Probably because you're a b!tch and know I'm struggling with MFI. I believe your words were in the realm of "At least we know my husband can knock me up without help".. Good for you CV. You're better than me. You got your baby without help. Something I can't do- or rather can do but keep losing. Maybe that's why you're better? You can keep the babies. 

Whatever the reason, just go back to how it was. I'm not posting in your threads, stay out of mine. If you don't like my FB conversation, stay out of it. Wow, that's tough for you I know.  

CousinVicki

MsGMChick:

Seriously, just bow out gracefully. You know you said it. I know you said it. Nothing you can do will ever undo it.  

Why did you say it? I don't know. Probably because you're a b!tch and know I'm struggling with MFI. I believe your words were in the realm of "At least we know my husband can knock me up without help".. Good for you CV. You're better than me. You got your baby without help. Something I can't do- or rather can do but keep losing. Maybe that's why you're better? You can keep the babies. 

Whatever the reason, just go back to how it was. I'm not posting in your threads, stay out of mine. If you don't like my FB conversation, stay out of it. Wow, that's tough for you I know.  

 

YES i sought you out and memorized your dx and decided to throw in your face that i had a child on a break???. LOL what!!!!!!    i may be snarky, but i don't throw my child in anyone's face.  do you see ANYTHING in my sig, and i barely ever mention that I have one!!  so your weirdo made-up recollection of what i supposedly said is freaking me out.

 

cuckoo, cuckooo!

 

 

Suz+Mo

MsGMChick:

crazytowne:

MsGMChick:

rjade9:

I want to throat punch the girl said that if you can afford IVF you can afford adoption!

This x 21987312 billion.. Especially since she followed it by saying if we can't adopt and love a baby who isn't biologically ours, we didn't really want a baby in the first place, did we?

 What a ***! I think I would have to unfriend whoever led you to that.  Or at least hide them.  Argh!

I was waiting to see what come back they had to my last post, but you girls are right. I just deleted her now. My blood pressure can't take any more pure stupid. 

     Yayyy!  Don't waste your energy on them!

MsGMChick

CousinVicki:

MsGMChick:

Seriously, just bow out gracefully. You know you said it. I know you said it. Nothing you can do will ever undo it.  

Why did you say it? I don't know. Probably because you're a b!tch and know I'm struggling with MFI. I believe your words were in the realm of "At least we know my husband can knock me up without help".. Good for you CV. You're better than me. You got your baby without help. Something I can't do- or rather can do but keep losing. Maybe that's why you're better? You can keep the babies. 

Whatever the reason, just go back to how it was. I'm not posting in your threads, stay out of mine. If you don't like my FB conversation, stay out of it. Wow, that's tough for you I know.  

 

YES i sought you out and memorized your dx and decided to throw in your face that i had a child on a break???. LOL what!!!!!!    i may be snarky, but i don't throw my child in anyone's face.  do you see ANYTHING in my sig, and i barely ever mention that I have one!!  so your weirdo made-up recollection of what i supposedly said is freaking me out.

 

cuckoo, cuckooo!

Seriously, its in my sig. We know you read it because you also made a comment about how long it was and that you didn't see any therapy appointments in it for my "craziness".

 

CousinVicki

MsGMChick:

CousinVicki:

MsGMChick:

Seriously, just bow out gracefully. You know you said it. I know you said it. Nothing you can do will ever undo it.  

Why did you say it? I don't know. Probably because you're a b!tch and know I'm struggling with MFI. I believe your words were in the realm of "At least we know my husband can knock me up without help".. Good for you CV. You're better than me. You got your baby without help. Something I can't do- or rather can do but keep losing. Maybe that's why you're better? You can keep the babies. 

Whatever the reason, just go back to how it was. I'm not posting in your threads, stay out of mine. If you don't like my FB conversation, stay out of it. Wow, that's tough for you I know.  

 

YES i sought you out and memorized your dx and decided to throw in your face that i had a child on a break???. LOL what!!!!!!    i may be snarky, but i don't throw my child in anyone's face.  do you see ANYTHING in my sig, and i barely ever mention that I have one!!  so your weirdo made-up recollection of what i supposedly said is freaking me out.

 

cuckoo, cuckooo!

Seriously, its in my sig. We know you read it because you also made a comment about how long it was and that you didn't see any therapy appointments in it for my "craziness".

 

 

haha, therapy! i am prettttty funny (but, this is kinda serious too!)  and i can't tell you ANYONE'S diagnosis on here, i only see if it i am staring right at it when posting something, and even then i rarely do this.  I have way, way more on my mind than keeping track of your husband's SA. sorry !

 

 

Jezebell26

Gotta agree with Katib on this one...I am just going with "if you dont have anything nice to say, dont say anything at all!" (in reference to the CV comments)

As for this person and FB, my BP definitely just rose and want to punch her in the throat a few times. Just because you can afford IVF does not mean you will get pregnant. And i HATE HATE HATE HATE how everyone thinks adoption is the "cure" to my infertility. That still wont make me ovulate and still wont get me knocked up and still wont stop me from miscarrying. And it still wont be my kid! SMH at that "you must not have wanted a baby that bad" or whatever she said. Damn people! And again going with Katib that you wouldn't joke about having cancer or any other illness so why does everyone joke about fertility?

SO sorry you had to endure that and read it and be a part of it. Glad to hear you have since deleted it and hopefully can forget about it. I hate how ignorant some people are and they will never "get it". Hugs to you darlin!

StormyEyez

Friends should be positive and supportive... If not, Unfriend them!!!!!

Too bad you can't unfriend Cousin Vicki   

eponine7682

rjade9:

I want to throat punch the girl said that if you can afford IVF you can afford adoption!

My thought exactly. I can't afford both... I did IVF because I am a lucky one who has insurance to cover it. Never in my lifetime will I have the money to adopt. People are clueless and this post pissed me off. Thanks MSGM for sticking up for us all.

Kathy4678

MsGMChick:

rjade9:

I want to throat punch the girl said that if you can afford IVF you can afford adoption!

This x 21987312 billion.. Especially since she followed it by saying if we can't adopt and love a baby who isn't biologically ours, we didn't really want a baby in the first place, did we?

 

This was totally my thought too. I would be seriously deleting some FB peeps if this were me.  

mnj05

What total crap! I can't believe someone would say that an IFer doesn't want a baby has enough if they don't adopt. Good for you for saying something. 

machole513

katib77:

CV if you have nothing to contribute to the post why waste the time typing out that you didn't bother to read it?

GM - I think you should point out it's like any other disease, you wouldn't do an april fools joke about cancer so why should this be any different? (Thanks FLynda for that one).

Clearly that girls is a douche. 

Kati, you always take the words right out of my mouth. My thoughts exactly!

Ms H13

What douches.  Thanks for speaking up - you know that not only did we appreciate it, but someone else who was watching that thread as well.

Durham1008

StormyEyez:

Friends should be positive and supportive... If not, Unfriend them!!!!!

Too bad you can't unfriend Cousin Vicki