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We're ready for number 2!!!

Char22211Char22211 member
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DH and I are on our 1st cycle of ttc our 2nd LO our oldest just turned 3 in the end of Febuary now I know it can take some time so I'm kinda worried they'll be to far apart in age I really wanted no more then 3 yrs apart but we weren't ready we actually were fine with the idea of only having 1 LO but with me and baby fever and DH saying maybe we should have 1 more and DS always saying he wanted a sibling we decided it's time what do y'all think is it to big of a gap? What are y'all experiences, with close in age or a bigger gap between LO? Not that it's going to change my mind lol just curious as to what others think
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Re: We're ready for number 2!!!

  • Char22211Char22211 member
    Who cares if I use punctuations or not my goodness just give me experiences some of y'all are so rude if you don't like it don't read or respond!!! Move on to next post!!!!!
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  • Char22211Char22211 member
    No but your asking me to do something that obviously could less about so it's my post and chose not to so why does matter y'all understand and read everything without it so who cares expect it and move on!!!
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  • pinkgsxrpinkgsxr member
    oursecretelopement said:
    BINGO?
    I'll bring vodka, as always.
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  • KikiCohenKikiCohen member
    Char22211 said:

    Who cares if I use punctuations or not my goodness just give me experiences some of y'all are so rude if you don't like it don't read or respond!!! Move on to next post!!!!!

    You may want to develop a thicker skin if you're planning on sticking around. Just sayin'.
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  • Belou52579Belou52579 member
    Char22211 said:

    No but your asking me to do something that obviously could less about

    Soooo...you COULD care less about it?

    I'm confused.

    I thought you didn't like punctuation or grammar so that's probably why.
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  • nittanyllamanittanyllama member
    I was going to type out a sincere response to your question about spacing, until you were so rude. 

    No thanks!


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  • ImJessesGirlImJessesGirl member
    Gee... if 3 years is a long time, then my 10 years between kids is phenomenal.
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  • divinemsbeedivinemsbee member
    As far as age gaps go, in my family I'm the oldest, I'm a little over 2 years older than my brother and 5 years almost to the day older than my sister. My brother and I especially were close as younger children, but we grew apart as we got older. We all love each other, but none of us are particularly close or friends. While age differences might play some parts, it's a lot about personality and also the family dynamic in general.

    If you want a second (or more) child, then I wouldn't let just fear of age difference stop you from trying. It's not like you can go back and make the kids closer together, so I'd make my peace with it.

    I will say that when H and I started, we wanted our kids pretty close together. However, if it takes as long for #2 as it has for #1, or if it's even possible, we'll be looking at probably a 3 years age gap.





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  • Char22211Char22211 member
    Seriously thanks to all that were helpful and to all that were rude I'm feel sorry so for you and miserable life lol I mean come on some were jumping down my throat for not using punctuations that's why I got offend I obliviously could careless about it if its really that horrible and not understandable don't respond that's what I tried posting but missed a few words earlier goodbye!!! Have a great day!!!
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  • trinitrotoluenetrinitrotoluene member
    I wasn't going to open this because it just looked like an intro, and I was in a cranky mood, but I'm glad I did just for the obliviously could care less moment. I laughed.

    And OP, I have 5 siblings. My older sister is two years older than me, and we never speak. I can honestly say that I want very little to do with her. My younger brother is two years younger than me, and we also rarely speak, however, the other three siblings, with whom there is a four year or greater age gap, I am very close to. Age is just a number. Personalities will have much more of an effect on closeness.
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  • Snickerdoodle24Snickerdoodle24 member
    edited May 2014
    MrsRexManing said:


    Char22211 said:

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    obliviously could careless

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    OBLIVIOUSLY. 

    Edit spelling. Obliviously. 


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  • liladelphia215liladelphia215 member
    edited May 2014
    My LO just turned three at the beginning of February. We started TTC last August but to no avail. I wanted kids no more than three years apart as well.. but as DD grows older, I see her with more babies like her cousins and she is so gentle with them - it's adorable. So the more I think of it, for my DD, she's at the right age now, where as before, she was too young and rough. 

    To answer your question, I don't think there is really too big of an age gap. I think you need to do what's right for you, H and your LO.

    ETA - I really should read through the rest of the comments before adding anything. C'mon, OP! 
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  • GirlOnTheBeachGirlOnTheBeach member
    edited May 2014
    OP, this is how I feel when you try to communicate:

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  • LuluRMLuluRM member
    Char22211 said:

    Seriously thanks to all that were helpful and to all that were rude I'm feel sorry so for you and miserable life lol I mean come on some were jumping down my throat for not using punctuations that's why I got offend I obliviously could careless about it if its really that horrible and not understandable don't respond that's what I tried posting but missed a few words earlier goodbye!!! Have a great day!!!

    Please STOP procreating (OP: 10pts if you even know what that word means). Please!
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  • ImJessesGirlImJessesGirl member
    So, at this point, you are refusing to use punctuation. Is it that you are not educated on the correct usage of punctuation? I am genuinely concerned here.


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  • wolowizardwolowizard member
    I am 2.5 years older than my brother. We didn't get along growing up. Now that we're over 25, we get along fine but it took him joining the Army and being gone for 5+ years for me to be able to tolerate him. He lives with us now, but is a truck driver so he's only home like once a month. This might also contribute to why we like each other now. A small gap doesn't mean you'll have a good relationship.
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  • SpartanChick88SpartanChick88 member
    Char22211 said:
    Who cares if I use punctuations or not my goodness just give me experiences some of y'all are so rude if you don't like it don't read or respond!!! Move on to next post!!!!!
    I was going to answer with my own personal experience, but seeing as how you decided to go all cranky pants I think I will wait until after you've had a nap.



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  • jswanson1987jswanson1987 member
    Char22211 said:

    Who cares if I use punctuations or not my goodness just give me experiences some of y'all are so rude if you don't like it don't read or respond!!! Move on to next post!!!!!

    I totally agree with you, very rude. good luck TTC, we too are trying for #2, our little guy is 5 so he will be over 6 and we are totally ok with it, less $$ to daycare, only 1 in diapers.
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    PeanutRN said:

    jswanson1987 said:

    Char22211 said:

    Who cares if I use punctuations or not my goodness just give me experiences some of y'all are so rude if you don't like it don't read or respond!!! Move on to next post!!!!!

    I totally agree with you, very rude. good luck TTC, we too are trying for #2, our little guy is 5 so he will be over 6 and we are totally ok with it, less $$ to daycare, only 1 in diapers.
    Yay. Internet white knight, we were all waiting for you.
    really, she is looking for support and everyone on here is just complaining about her commas, periods,etc... who cares, give it a rest! get back to the subject as to what she was asking!
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    jswanson1987 said:
    Who cares if I use punctuations or not my goodness just give me experiences some of y'all are so rude if you don't like it don't read or respond!!! Move on to next post!!!!!
    I totally agree with you, very rude. good luck TTC, we too are trying for #2, our little guy is 5 so he will be over 6 and we are totally ok with it, less $$ to daycare, only 1 in diapers.
    Yay. Internet white knight, we were all waiting for you. <3
    really, she is looking for support and everyone on here is just complaining about her commas, periods,etc... who cares, give it a rest! get back to the subject as to what she was asking!
    she had to of known that her response wasnt going to go over well considering it was barely coherent since it had no capitalization and punctuation and based on the fact that it was practically impossible to read anyways so it made no sense and so nobody really understood the point she was trying to make about the age gap between her children then she got all butthurt over it and it just added fuel to the fire so instead of getting useful advice she got all of this
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  • mommy2Cmommy2C member
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    PeanutRN said:

    Wine&Cupcakes said:




    jswanson1987 said:

    PeanutRN said:

    jswanson1987 said:

    Char22211 said:

    Who cares if I use punctuations or not my goodness just give me experiences some of y'all are so rude if you don't like it don't read or respond!!! Move on to next post!!!!!

    I totally agree with you, very rude. good luck TTC, we too are trying for #2, our little guy is 5 so he will be over 6 and we are totally ok with it, less $$ to daycare, only 1 in diapers.
    Yay. Internet white knight, we were all waiting for you. <3

    really, she is looking for support and everyone on here is just complaining about her commas, periods,etc... who cares, give it a rest! get back to the subject as to what she was asking!

    she had to of known that her response wasnt going to go over well
    considering it was barely coherent since it had no capitalization and
    punctuation and based on the fact that it was practically impossible to
    read anyways so it made no sense and so nobody really understood the
    point she was trying to make about the age gap between her children then she got all butthurt over it and it just added fuel to the fire so instead of getting useful advice she got all of this

    -----quotz r hard-----

    I'm going to assume this is a joke...right? I can't handle anything else.


    ---the bump needs to improve the quoting feature---

    I believe it is a joke.
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