is it me?

klrrat

So up until my 6 week pp appointment all my boyfriend could think about was sex and he couldn't wait to get the okay from the doctor. Now that we have the okay he wants nothing to do with me and i can't help but feel like its me...I mean I know I still have some weight to lose but only 15lbs to get back to pre preg weight. I can't help but feel insecure and unwanted/unloved....anytime i say something he says hes just tired....

namara5532

Did he watch the baby come out?  MH admitted to me that he would need some time to recover from seeing DS come out of me before he felt comfortable having sex again.  YH might have the same issue but doesn't want to admit it, or maybe some part of him is scared you'll get pregnant again.  It's not easy for guys to admit they're scared of something like that.

theladyjess

My Hubby flat out told me that he doesn't find me sexual right now. Part of it was watching me give birth and the other part is watching me BF. I informed him that I don't feel very sexual right now but I do miss sex. Sex during pg was very painful for me so it only happened a handful of times. I'm hoping that after I get the all clear I'll feel up to having sex again and so will Hubby.